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writes: I split up with my husband of 2 years, 2 years ago. I met another man who I had dated previously before i got married. we were and always had been in love so it seemed natural to continue. My problem is that I miss my husband (we have a young daughter together)and I know that he would have me back. I'm torn I don't want to hurt any more people but i know that it would be best for our daughter if we got back together. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice - I think your right I should at least give him the chance. I'm gonna give it my best shot and then at least if it doesnt work out I will know that i have tried my best. Hopefully it will though. And if not I will have some time to myself before I make any rush decisions like going back to my husband. Thanks again and Ill keep you posted - cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): A lad of 31 still living with his parents, he doesn't come round when your daughter is up. He doesn't sound too family orientated to me. I think you have realised that you finished with your husband too soon, but i wouldn't hurry back there. I think you should give this new one a better try. Put all ideas out of your head of going back to your husband and turn this relationship around. Arrange some days out together. Get your social life on track. If this new one doesn't shape up then boot him out. Life is too short!!
If you and your husband split up then there was a reason, that reason will still be there if you two get back together so be very aware.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your reply - my current boyfriend does not have much to do with my daughter or join in with family stuff at all - i feel like i am single most of the time - he is 31 and still lives at home with his parents - he comes round when my daughter is in bed - he can never be bothered going out so therefore we have no social life - i do love him very much but question whether love is enough - I still love and miss my husband and although we did argue and i had other reasons to leave him i wonder if i was a bit hasty - i left without giving him chance to change - without even discussing it - i think I thought the grass would be greener but its not - or should i give my current bf the chance to change and not make another hast decision (I apologise for not making this clear in the first instance)
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (26 November 2006):
 I think if you were lucky enough to find a great guy stay with him. He might be better for your daughter. She is young enough that it wont hurt her to much. She wont want to see you and your ex fighting while you live together. This isn't selfish it is good for the 3 of you.
Good Luck.
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