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writes: I and my ex mutually decided to split after 18 months in march, but we were still intimate up until the end of august. it was still like we were together we called each other more than 4 times a day every day and met up went out all the time she was still telling up until the end of September that she wants to get back with me and she still loves me. she always used to say that I was her soul mate and she wanted to get married to my and have kids together. In October she was calling a bit less but still every day and all her texts stated off with hey babe or hey darling and ended with kisses. Then on Nov 5th she told me she had been seeing some one else for 2 weeks now, and they were in a relationship I was shocked I wanted her back straight away.She says that she doesn’t love me any more but she cares for me as a friend and doesn’t fancy me any more. But when I asked her is this new person better looking than me she said no I’m not going for looks any more love her more than anything in the world I have tried everything to get back with her but it just makes things worse. And what’s even worse we all work in the same place, and she made me promise not to go out with anybody at work she also promised too and she has gone and done just thatWe are not talking at the moment I have ignored her for the passed two days I really want her back I feel that she is the one for me.I don’t know what going on in her headDo u thing I can get her back, do u think that this new relationship will last.I would really like some female response to this. Thanks.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (27 November 2006):
 Wow. I don't know why you spilt. Since you split in March bur were still intamite until August she might have realized something. You stayed close calliong and hanging out, but you wern't going out. Maybe she likes something in the guy that you don't have or she might just want a new realtionship. 18 months is a long time and if she doesn't want commitment that's not good. This must be hard so Good Luck. Bottom line, you cant make her love you.
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