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writes: hi there please could you help me my ex wants me back. i have been with my husband for nearly 17 yrs. my ex and i parted 23 yrs ago.i just want to be friends nothing more but he dont what should i do?
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reader, XAsk-AmyX +, writes (30 November 2006):
 well well well. Quite a pickle this is, but its nothing that i cant help you out with. So your ex wants you back after 23 years, 17 years of them in a happily married lifestyle. To be honest this isnt that hard of a question. The answer is no. No you just cant get back with him. When you broke up all those years ago there was obviously a reason for it and that reason will probably still be there if you get back with him. You will end a fairy tale marriage and start a relationship that will end up once again on the rocks, and then where will you be. Stay clear of your ex and if he bothers you too much about this then simply say sorry but no, im happily married and like it this way. If he strongly dissagrees with it then tell your husband, your husband will obviously be able to see what you are going through and will want to help. This may even bring you and him closer together (if you can get much closer) it will deffinatly strengthen your relationship.
So take this advice and let me know how it goes. Im always here to help.
Amy - your personal agony aunt! xx
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reader, whitetie +, writes (30 November 2006):
Dont get back with him
Look deep in your heart and realise that you are happily married to your husband. Dont let this ex destroy your marriage!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (30 November 2006):
 You need to tell this guy what you want. You're happy now and you don't want to risk this for some one from your past, it's just not worth it. He obviously hasn't moved on so you need to let him know you have and that you never want anything like that to happen again.
Good luck and be strong.
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (30 November 2006):
 hello, what i suggest is that you say no to him nicely. 23 years is a very long time, and if a man cant get over a lost love for that long, somethings is really wrong with him then.. 23 years if a very very long time.. plus your relationship with your HUSBAND is just as long. he's not forcing you to go back to him is he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): You have been married for 17 years and your ex bounces back into your life. I know what i would say, GET LOST!!!! You shouldn't have to ask that question. He wants to get back, well tough. What about your now husband? don't you love him? You can't if you are asking us this question. Please think carefully before you do anything towards your ex. Push him into the background or out of your life completely. You are married.
Take care
xx
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