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writes: My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship.Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty)Well his roomate and i are really good friends and i was over at the apt over the weekend and his roomate told me that he still has my rose in the box set on his dresser. He took me into his roomate and there was the box with my rose.My question is why would he keep that out in the open especially since the broke up was real hard on the two of us? I had to give him the rose back cuz i couldnt stand seeing it after the relationship was over and having it bring back memories that i wouldnt have been able to handle. And not only that i would never be able to heal with the rose in my room that reminded me of him.(when he gave me that rose he said that was a syblom of how much he loved me)makes me said thinking about it..............When we broke up he said that he dont love me and didnt want a relationship at this time and that he just wanted to be friends for right now. Our relationship was perfect no cheating, nothing ever went wrong. It was one of thoses out of the blue things where he ended the relationship becuz of who knows why.Him and i are friends but we arent on hanging out bases yet. Just every now and then seeing each other on the weekends when im at the apt. We hug and talk when we see each another. I just dont understand why he would keep the rose in clear sight and having it remind him everyday of what we had.
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reader, secret  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 i think that he still remembers the good times you had together. even though you broke up the rose is a reminder of what you mean to him. my ex still kept all the things i gave him. he says that he doesnt have the heart to give them back to me or to get rid of it. i think i can understand where he's coming from and i think it's really sweet of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006):
I think you have a mistaken idea of how guys organize things.
What the hell else would he do with the thing but dump it on the dresser?
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (27 November 2006):
 think of it this way, this means he hasnt got bad memories from the relationship, and i guess in a way this could be him keeping you in his life, just because at the moment he doesnt want a relationship, doesnt mean he doesnt want one ever again, keep up with what your doing, be friends with him, if anything is gonna happen, it will happen. Good Luck
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