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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I want my ex husband back after he's cheating and my surgery. I seem to want him more now that he's been with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - This is a long story, but i will try to shorten. This began 2 yrs ago, i had been having some issues with fatigue and depression also had absolutely no desire for sex! During this time my husband of 14 yrs found someone who did like sex( 12 yrs...

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi Okay, I'm going to keep the introduction 'til my problem as short as possible. Please bear with me because I could really use some advice. I had a very rough childhood, bullied a lot and extreme. Then a couple of really bad things happ...

Is it normal to have fantasies about being anally raped?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

28 February 2013 (?) - I'm just your normal, every day 17 year old girl. Sometimes I like to read erotic stories online. About two months ago, I stumbled upon this story where a teenage boy forced himself onto his sister, anally. I don't know why, but this turned me on ...

I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with t...

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

Didn't think he was the cheating type but I've caught him in lies and strange women answering his voice in the early am!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I feel like im going insane. I do. I come from a conservative family and always thought I would be with (in regards to sex) one man. I like about the idea of only knowing one person intimately and vice versa. Me and my current boyfriend wen...

I feel like I'm disgusting to my boyfriend, why won't he make love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - I’m a 29 years old man and I’ve kind of a love problem. I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, he’s 25. We’re together a bit more than a year and I’ve to say it has been the best year of my life. He’s perfect, he’s that kind of person I’ve always wanted to ...

I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each ...

We are yin and yang sexually!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - my boyfriend just doesnt get me sexually. He likes it hard and fast and athletic and it takes him a very long time to come, I like it soft and slow. I try and guide him but he just takes over!! and Im swore and eager for it to be over :( tried to ...

Why did he go soft? Am I a turn off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - If my boyfriend n i been together 7 yrs n lately everything is a argument. We juss had sex n i was on top seems to me everything was going well. Out of no where he gets soft.. What does that means?? Am i a turn off? Alot of thoughts are running ...

I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discusse...

He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...

Is he bored with me? I caught him yanking off in bed next to me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man who was married for over 20 years. The last 7 years it was a sexless marriage. We happen to have sex very often but there are times where I find porn on his phone and have caught him a few times masturbati...

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...

Should I get checked? I was bleeding after sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok so I think I'm kinda embarrassed to answer this question so anyways. Just had sex with my friend. He's like my bestie. Hell I can't believe this happen since I be on that 90 day rule shit lol. I don't feel nasty or anything because we have been ...

I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning ...

Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely ...

Am I sexually satisfying my bf enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am 24 and recently moved in my bf of 1.5 years. I am FT grad student and used to work PT but it was alot so he pays everything until I finish ( a year). He is 30 and an attorney who makes over 6 figures. He said he doesn't mind and loves taking ...

Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or n...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one ...

I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend w...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...

Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...

My girl who had been raped before is asking me to do rough role play with her. It feels wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - So my sex life with my GF has always been pretty vanilla, she doesn't really like kinky stuff and hates things like dildos or porn or anything that is in anyway a little wild. in the past I had often found that she seemed bored during sex and simply ...

Some dating mistakes to avoid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - School Girl Errors There seems to be a flood of questions associated with infidelity etc, I have compiled a list of common mistakes I have noticed I have also made, not sure if some of them are obvius but here goes; - If a guy is acting cold...

I don't know why I am not feeling intimate anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do so any help would be much appreciated. I've recently started having trouble being physical with my boyfriend. We have been going out for over 2 years now and we both virgins (even thought I know that he would have sex right ...

Guys, do you compare gfs with porn actresses and think about them in sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - guys, be honest, do you compare your gf's body to those of the women you see in porn? and do you have mental images of the women you watch in porn when you're making love with your gf? thanks for any answers :)...

16 weeks pregnant and my Bf is acting distant. What can I do? He's not affectionate now. It's made me feel lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I'm 28 y/o. 5 years ago I was* married and had 2 miscarriages. I found out that my (now ex husband ) was cheating on me so I filed for divorce. Now, after years of thinking id never be lucky enough to get pregnant aga...

Would a guy text you every day if he just wanted sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hi, Would a guy text you every single day if he was just after sex. Me and this guy ( i know him yrs as were in the same group of friends years) had a drunken kiss at christmas. He had been trying it on a few times over the last couple of y...

Since our first date he's tried to get me back to his place. Is he just in it for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hi I've gone on 2 dates with a guy. We got along very well, spent the whole date laughing and talking about how much we had in common. He invited me back to his house both times but I declined. While we were at dinner talking he told me tha...

Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in t...

BF said "I love you" for the first time after I gave him oral sex - did he mean it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five months - he is 30 and I'm 29. We are moving in together in a couple of weeks which seems fast but we both want to and think its the right thing to happen and we get get along really well, sex life is great and ...

Is my boyfriend getting it somewhere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - My Boyfriend and I Have Been Dating for a few months (im gay), and its been an up and down ride. Mainly because I have issues with his exes that he's still friends with and texts frequently, but we've learned that I don't need to worry, or do I? ...

Oral sex? No I don't like giving it. So should I tell him I don't like doing it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - I’m a young man and I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, we’re together for 3 years. But there is a problem. The thing is that I don’t like giving oral sex. I know how that might sound like, but I really don’t like it. Hard to explain why, my boyfrien...

I haven't had sex in sex years and new guy is bigger. Will sex hurt like the first time again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I didn't have sex for 6 years after break out with my ex bf. Now ready to have sex with my current bf. He is lot bigger than my ex and I remember my vagina stretch painfully when I lost my virginity. I afraid this may happen to me again. Will I feel ...

Was a Bj the first night too soon? Do you think we have a chance at dating and him respecting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 27 years old and a few weeks ago I met a man at a party. We hit it off right away and spent the entire night talking and drinking, he got tipsy and invited me to stay the night there with him but I laughed it off and offered ...

How should I handle this? My beloved bisexual Gf proposed that we have a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My beloved bisexual girlfriend proposed a threesome with a girl (or hooker) of our choice, and i told her that i used to have a wild side in the past, but not anymore, and she keeps mentioning that she wishes she met me back then, which makes it ...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I think my partner has some sort of personality disorder. We have know each other yrs and have a couple of kids together. We have had a volatile relationship in the past as he was a bit of a mummy's boy. He is 44 and we only started living p...

Are my intentions with my ex creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a dude for 5 months. It was amazing. I know I'm only 17, but it just clicked and we are basically the same. Other boys scare me, and other girls scare him. We are both awkward. We laugh about sex. We only met...

My first partner didn't enjoy the sex -- how can I compete with experienced guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - I've been a relationship with a woman I met online for more than a year. We live thousands of miles apart but we've had two visits. The first visit, we weren't sure where we were going with our relationship, but we ended up having sex the first day ...

Why can't my sexy guy take my word for it? He is sexy How do I help him to feel sexy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks and he seems to have a pretty low self-esteem. Sometimes I'll greet him with "hey, sexy" or something similar and he always denies the compliment. He's a really attractive guy and it bothers me that he can't...

I know my wife has never cheated on me,so is my curiosity normal behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - We have been together for 26 years. My wife was much more experienced than me, sexually. We got together when we were teens, my best friend had just been in a sexual relationship with her when we met. Since then I have become obessed with the...