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writes:Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up.He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charming just like other libra. i slept with him on the night before he's going other city(i told him i don't want this to be a one night though then he said i understand). he said he's not doing this a lot and he's not very sexually active.i know he was very happy we made out like 4 hours and he smiled all the time said that he's happy that i'm here. and kissed me on the forehead. before he left he gave me kisses and said it was fun I'll see you soon.he messaged me the day he just arrive the other city. we talked and flirted. I told him to get tan and stuff. he said i'll get that sexy then you have to come to see me. I thought it'd would be an invitation cos he invited me to go before and it was on sudden i have a job and stuff well now i want to go so i ask him if hes going to invite me so hes said if i want him to invite me.then i said ok i do.so he said what about your job? i don't know if how long i'm going to be in this city thoughthat when i figured out. he doesn't want me to go. I replied that i just want to escape for awhile. and tell him to enjoy his vacation. he read it but he didn't reply.ok i've dated a libra guy before i know they are very charming and indecisive. but i'm kind of think that he wants a relationship according to his twitter and facebook blah blah. i don't know what i want but i really like him (im a sagittarius btw so the sex was that good) I don't think he would message me if he's not interested at the first place?maybe i came off too strong? He was very shy at the first place though till we get to talk to each other. he wasn't even dare to kiss me without asking.what can i do now? i really like this guy.
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reader, Nbtts +, writes (18 March 2013):
Nbtts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice. i understand it might sound like that. but he did invite me eventually and we had a great time. i think our relationship come to the next level now. he's very sweet :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2013): Try not to categorise people by their star signs. We are all individuals and you seem to be making assumptions about him based on his date of birth.If he is interested he will do something about it; if not, then please try to learn from the experience. If you have sex the first time you meet someone, then think what message that might give them.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 February 2013):
 Where he is in relation to the stars has no relevance in the world so get past that part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2013): You have had what is known as "casual sex." That doesn't necessarily make this guy a bad guy; he just isn't ready for a relationship. You told him you didn't want the sex you had to be a one-night-stand. He's a guy. You offered him sex. What did you expect? He hasn't invited you to be with him at his new location. Why should he? There is no relationship, you were two ships passing in the night. It was great. You barely know this guy, and you want to leave the security of your home,family, friends, and employment. You really need to slow down and consider what is safe for you physically, emotionally, and financially. My advice, move on and find someone local who proves he cares about you. It doesn't matter what sign he is born under. It's how he treats you and how you both feel about each other. You have some maturing to do, take your time. Don't offer sex and expect a strange guy to fall instantly in love with you. He seems nice, maybe because he has a conscience. He doesn't need someone stalking him from state to state. You shouldn't feel so strongly about someone you hardly know. Don't punish yourself out of guilt. You didn't do anything wrong. You used poor judgement. We all make mistakes. Stop waiting for an invitation, find someone else.
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