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Some dating mistakes to avoid.

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Article - (24 February 2013) 1 Comments - (Newest, 17 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, Pr3tty_in_pink86 writes:

School Girl Errors

There seems to be a flood of questions associated with infidelity etc, I have compiled a list of common mistakes I have noticed I have also made, not sure if some of them are obvius but here goes;

- If a guy is acting cold, he may just be after sex. He may be realising that you want a proper relationship. Do not have sex with him in the hope he will develop feelings for you, he won't.

- Don't have sex with someone early on, they will lose respect for you. Some men don't lose interest and are trustworthy but don't take the risk.

- Don't assume a guy who appears desperate is suddenly going to fall at your feet if you date them. I assumed this I was totally wrong.

- Don't assume because a man has real woman he will no longer be interested in porn, it is has come up alot here, people don't suddenly get bored.

- Life is too short to be with someone who doesn't make you feel like you're their biggest fantasy, so if they are a big porn buff and you're bothered enough to post questions on here don't stick around.

- Don't be blackmailed into doing dirty things in the bedroom that you don't want, "If you loved me you would" that is bs.

- Don't degrade yourself thinking your boyfriend will lose interest in porn, he won't.

- If your boyfriend blames his porn habits on you - leave.

- Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to.

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A female reader, sherrig United States +, writes (17 March 2013):

If my man likes porn, that's his honey not me, I'm gone.

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