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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I can only feel aroused if I have an emotional or intellectual connection already...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 25 yrs old guy and have been finding this thing hard to understand for a long time now. I only feel aroused when i am able to connect emotionally / intellectually with a girl. Just watching beautiful girls with less clothes doe...

He found out I lied about the number of men I've had sex with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half. We just had a baby 2 mths ago and he recently found out that I lied about how many men I have been with in my past. He now wants nothing to do with me and we live together. How do I fix our ...

We had to stop when we tried intercourse. It just hurt too much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just tried to have intercourse for the first time tonight. Technically I am still a virgin. He is not. We couldn't. Not for lack of wanting to, but because it hurt so bad I had to make him stop. Now I get a burning sensation when ...

Should I consider a relationship with my friend's older brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old female that acts a lot older than my actual age. I am often drinking alcohol and I smoke up to 30 fags a day. My mate who is the same age as me has a brother of 19. Recently I have heard he really likes me. Trouble is we live in ...

Should I have sex with a boy who only "cares" for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a girl who had been in love with a guy for 2 years. He doesn't love me, he cares for, me but I doubt he loves me. He wants sex, and I am a virgin. Should I do it or not? The country I live in doesn't approve of such stuff but it's happenin...

Our relationship is nothing more than sex, or planning to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6968 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - Ok..I know I am a little old to be this stupid..BUT, I am in a "relationship" with someone 10 yrs younger. The sex is incredible but it also all we have. My question is how do I let go of somethng that has become addictive to me? I want him all the ...

My girlfriend says she'll quit her job that sometimes involves sex. I want to believe her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is from The Philippines where she works at a bar in Japan to send money home to her family and to her daughter. At this bar guys walk in and pay drinks for the girls. The girls sit with the guy and talks with him. Some get sexual and ...

We had sex and forgot the condom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7021 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - Hi I'm a 14 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend (who is 16 in October) for 3 months now and it's been great. We get on very well and I really do think we can and will last, but our parents are against us. No reason, just don't like it, so ...

We cheapened what could have been by having text-sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - Hey...I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I have got a big problem. At about this time last year, I met a guy who was in the year above me at school, but whom I hadn't noticed before. When I got talking to him I liked him straight away, he seemed so ...

How do I approach my kids on the issue of my new "friend" sleeping over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

25 August 2005 (?) - When is it appropriate for the person I've been seeing to spend the night? We've been seeing each other for 2 months. But here's the catch, I have two children, my son is 15 and my daughter is 9. My "friend" has spent lots of time with them and ...

Oral sex with a condom? How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7021 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - I'm 18 and I've recently started dating an older guy (27) after breaking up with my boyfriend, John*. Me and John had a great sexual relationship and I felt really comfortable with him. I was sexually abused when I was younger and he made me feel ...

What's wrong? I've never, ever had an orgasm...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7035 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - Okay, I have never in my life had an orgasm. What is wrong with me? I won't let a guy go down on me or touch me much. I have never been sexually abused or anything so what is wrong with me?...

We both know that my weight gain is why we're not intimate...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7035 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - Since I met my boyfriend (7 yrs ago) I have gained forty pounds. More lately. I know that he is not finding me attractive at all because we would be physical in the past at least 3-4 times a week. Now it is more about once a month. It used to be ...

My lover wants me to experience sex with a woman, but the idea scares me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

24 August 2005 (M) - I need some serious help and advice. I love a man, but still find women attractive and beautiful, but I also find men attractive and handsome. So if I am in love with a man and we want to spend the rest of our lives together does that mean I am gay...

Could I be asexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female and I've never had any sexual feeling towards anyone, male or otherwise. I've never had sex or kissed anyone, never masturbated, fancied of fantasised about anyone, and to be honest the thought of any of these things doesn't ...

Sex is painful if he goes too deep...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7038 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I have been having sex with my boyfriend for a while now but lately I have not been getting orgasms, and I get a very painful feeling in my stomach if he goes too deep. How can I help this?...

I get erections, just from watching TV!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7039 days ago

20 August 2005 (M) - I'm suffering from ejaculation problem. Whenever I see any romantic scene on the TV or anywhere else an erection occurs and sometimes the ejaculation occurs without anything. This has been happening for one year and it's made me weak.W hat can I do...

He keeps me awake by masturbating and he won't spend any time with me during the day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7039 days ago

19 August 2005 (F) - Hi there I was going out with my boyfriend for over a year and due to a lot of problems we split. Six months later we decided to get back together. Sex has been good but on the nights we sleep together and don't have sex my boyfriend mastur...

I'm always the one who initiates sex. My boyfriend just doesn't seem to want it anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7039 days ago

19 August 2005 (F) - Hi. I'm a 25 year old woman who lives with my boyfriend, who is 30. I love him heaps. My problem is to do with our sex life. We enjoy sex but the trouble is I feel like it is always me who initiates affection/sex. My boyfriend wasn't always ...

We just don't make love like we used to...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7027 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - Hello! Me and my boyfriend no longer make love like we used to. He doesn't touch me, kiss me, hug me anymore. He idea of lovemaking now is to just climb on top, it last about 5 sec. What can I do to spark up our sex life? And does he love me any ...

Have I settled down too early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7040 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years and we have a child together. I love him very much and I'm very happy. I have one problem though! I lost my virginity to my partner and I am very glad I did. He has had other sexual partners, which is not a...

My girlfriend wants to have sex, but I'm afraid I'm not big enough to give her any pleasure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7034 days ago

17 August 2005 (M) - I am 18 and I am in serious relationship with my girlfriend. She has said that we should go the full way (sex) as soon as possible. I however am worried that my penis will be too small for her to get any pleasure. I have considered penis ...

Sex is boring and I mosly just do it so he'll get some enjoyment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Ok, me and my fairly long term b/f have been having sex now for about 4 months(we were both virgins), and frankly I hate it. It's uncomfortable, it's boring and it's kinda painful! We always do foreplay beforehand but I don't like that any better to ...

It's just easier to appeal to guys' sexual interest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hey. I have never had trouble getting a boyfriend and have always had lots of attention from guys. Lately though, I feel like I have been getting it on with any guy I meet. I don't want to be labelled 'easy' and I never mean anything by making out ...

My "friend with benefits" moved to my city, and now it's very hard to get over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

15 August 2005 (M) - Okay, I'm really curious about this one, this question is slightly long, but bear with me: I was in my last relationship for 1 1/2 years...I've been in pretty serious relationships before, but this is the one that has been the most serious and...

Worried that I am "genophobic"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hi...Im a 17 year old girl and a virgin. I have heard of a condition called genophobia and i think i might be suffering from it...however, when attempting sex with my bf, I do want to have sex, I do not avoid trying to have sex...It is just that ...

We don't want to use condoms, but how do I get on the Pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 5 months now. I'm a virgin and we have talked about having sex several times and we are both fine with the idea of it. The only problem is that I'm a bit scared a...

Shying away from the chance to have sex with a friend, because she's had more experience than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - I am 19 years old and lately a friend of mine has been hinting to me about having sex together. I really like her and find her attractive but she is 25 years old and I am worried because I have had little sexual experience and I don't want to make a ...

Is it too soon to sleep with the guy I met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7045 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. I have just met a wonderful man and want to start sleeping with him. Do you think it's too soon? I don't want to appear easy!...

My lack of sexual experience compared to my girlfriend is making me insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7006 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 years old and have been dating a girl for over a year now. I have a little jealousy problem though. When she was 14, she lost her virginity. Now, to me that seems way too young. I mean, if it was 16 or something I'd feel a little better a...

Anxiety about having sex purely for pleasure makes me pull away from my relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

13 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I am a single guy (24 yrs) and have been in relationships with quite a few girls in my life. Most of them were short affairs and didn't last more than one month or so. I don't know what the problem is but when i start going close to girls i...

My fiance says it hurts to have my penis inside her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

12 August 2005 (M) - My fiance and I have dated for a little over a year. We love each other very much, but she does not enjoy sex. This is because she says it hurts her to have my penis inside of her. I am confused because I do not know what to do to not hurt her ...

Hubby says I need to lose weight and he's always "too tired" for sex. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - I have been married for almost 2 years and have a baby. When we first got together our sex life was great and we both was happy with each other. Now we don't have sex very much any more. It went from every day to once a week if I am luck. When I...

My sister's boyfriend almost raped me and I'm afraid to see him at school!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - I'm 14 and recently I was almost raped by my big sister's 16 yr old b/f. My sis had to go to the shop and we were left in the house ourselves in which time he kissed me. I pulled away immediatly and asked what he thought he was doing. After constant ...

My fiance lied about his past sexual history, and I feel like I can't move past it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - I am 19. I have been with my fiance for 2 years. I love him very much and we're expecting our 1st child. I have never been in a serious relationship before, so from the beginning all I asked of him was to tell me the truth. I was a virgin when I m...

Why has our sex life almost dwindled to nothing? I do all the work and my boyfriend just lies there waiting for oral sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - Hiya Everyone! :oP I've been in my relationship for 2 years now. I don't understand how my sex life with my boyfriend has gone from really physical to almost nothing? It feels as though I am always instigating it. Then when he turns me down wh...

Any attempt at sex makes me squirm with discomfort. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

10 August 2005 (F) - Hey I've been having this problem for quite some time now. I know that I don't fancy girls, I fancy boys, but despite that I don't get 'turned on' when heavy petting with a guy. I have tried to have sex on several occasions with my ex who was also...

Sex is at my request, but then it seems like he can't wait to get rid of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

8 August 2005 (F) - Ok me and this guy have been dating on and off for almost 5 years now. He lives 30 mins. aways from me, so it hard for us to see each other, but I knew that getting into this. Now the times he does see me, he acts as if we are only friends, that ...

Is the 5-years gap too much between us? Is it too soon for us to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

7 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old teenage girl who is in a loving relationship with a guy who is 20. I will be 16 in 3 months and he will be 21 next month. We really want to have sex but I don't know if it's too soon and if he is too old for me? ...

My husband doesn't get that I want and need foreplay before we get into sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

6 August 2005 (F) - As my member name reads, I'm 20 years younger than my husband. I'm a Filipina now situated in the US. By the way I get stares when we go out, I'm proud to say I attract attention. I believe I'm beautiful with my polyneisan features, natural tan ...

All the boys just want to have sex, but I'm scared I'll get pregnant...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - I am 15 and I usually have boyfriends all the time but lately all they want to do is have sex. I am still a virgin and I wanna do it but I'm scared I will get pregnant. I have been fingered before. Help me, what should I do? Plus all my friends are ...

He just told me today that his passion is not there anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - His passion for me is not there anymore. I just heard this today. I don't know what to do. I am loosing my best friend. We have been married for 7 years. We are so alike, yet different. We have the same morrals, values, and we talk and list...

I've had a delayed reaction to the rape. Now I think my boyfriend's afraid to touch me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - Two years ago I was raped. Since then, I've had sex many times and had no problem. The other night however, my boyfriend and I were having sex and it was uncomfortable so I asked him to stop, but he didn't hear me, as I was trying to keep it down ...

Our sex life isn't giving me what I need! There's no thrill any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7053 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - Both my wife and I are young, attractive, fit, fun and have only been married for a year, but I'm not getting what I need. Before meeting my wife I had a ridiculously active sex-life, and at the beginning of our relationship we had sex round th...

I think the sex is excellent, but I have trouble with orgasm. Ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7057 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 22 year old woman, and I've been with my BF for 4 1/2 years. Our sex is excellent. I'm still having trouble getting an orgasm. What should I do? ...

The sex is amazing for me, but I need tips on how to help my boyfriend ejaculate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7055 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, but before that we were friends for two years. We love each other to bits, and the sex is amazing...for me! He says it's brilliant for him too, but I can't make him ejeculate. He had to really ...

Afraid to tell my boyfriend that I had to work as a prostitute. What if he rejects me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I would like some advice on a secret which I have kept for the past 2 years which is killing me. I used to work as prostitute briefly for 3 months, where I live. I was forced into it because I had been beaten up and left home and...

We're broken up, but he tells me he can't picture life without me. What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7057 days ago

1 August 2005 (F) - I have just recentally broken up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. I am 26 and he is 23. We lived together for a year. Even though we broke up we continue having a friendship and also have sex on ocassion. I have tried talking about our ...