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writes: I am 18 and I am in serious relationship with my girlfriend. She has said that we should go the full way (sex) as soon as possible. I however am worried that my penis will be too small for her to get any pleasure. I have considered penis enlargement but what shall I do?
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reader, godess98 +, writes (25 August 2005):
Gp with oral first and go slow and don't think how small you are or any of that. Or just talk to her about it first. Or don't do that. Just go take her out for dinner or a movies or cook at home, then go back to your house for drinks or whatever. Make the night special and try not to worry about your penis. If you start with oral sex first and go slow your penis should like it.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (20 August 2005):
There are two things:
1) technique
2) confidence
Size is nothing unless it affects your confidence, this can be very embarassing if it does.
Dont go straight into intercourse...
The following stages normally works well, even if you have the *smallest* penis in the world...(which you dont, youre just paranoid)
1) masturbation: allow her to finger herself / have a wank
2) masturbation: you finger her / let her give you a wank
3) lick her out / let her give you a BJ
4) have sex, woman on top?
5) anal sex
If she doesnt even get one orgasm then..its back to the drawing board i guess
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2005): Have you ever heard the phrase its not the size its what you do with it that counts? make her feel special all girls love it when ther made to feel special. mate youve got nothing to worry about. Goodluck!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (18 August 2005):
 Try to believe me when I tell you that penis-size is not that important, when it comes to your girlfriend enjoying sex. Bigger is not always better (especially if your girlfriend is a virgin).
What women enjoy about sex is the closeness, the intimacy and the affection. Pleasure is right up there, too, but it's not always the most important issue. Furthermore, the actual act of sexual penetration isn't - in itself - pleasurable. There aren't too many nerve endings in a woman's vagina, so there isn't a tremendous lot of sensation when you put it in. Small, medium and big penises can all feel great, because it's **what else** you do during sex that women enjoy.
Make your girlfriend feel loved and worshipped and sexy, have lots of foreplay beforehand, and be fun and imaginative during sex, and I promise that you need never worry about the size of your penis, ever again.
Under no circumstances should you consider penis enlargement. Most of those so-called "treatments" are a simple waste of money, but some are actually dangerous. Don't risk it; just be happy with what you have!
Now, if your relationship is serious enough that you and your girlfriend have discussed sex and feel ready to take that step, then you're also ready to tell her that you feel shy about the dimensions of your penis and that's why you've been avoiding sex. Honestly, she's going to see it sometime, right? You might as well tell her now... Besides, you never know... She might think that it's plenty big, just as it is. :-D
Remember the old saying: "It's not what you have. It's what you do with it". It's true. I'm speaking as a women who's seen a fair selection of penises in my life, and I wouldn't tell you lies.
The next step is to be very sure that you have reliable contraception and protection from STIs. Then, go have fun! And don't worry.
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