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writes: HelloI have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, but before that we were friends for two years. We love each other to bits, and the sex is amazing...for me!He says it's brilliant for him too, but I can't make him ejeculate. He had to really concentrate and it's obvious he sometimes forces himself. He has slept with a lot of people,and insists I'm the best, but I just feel that im not pleasing him enough.Any tips?
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (4 August 2005):
Maybe its just me but one of my major turn ons is hearing a female orgasm, maybe letting him perform oral sex on you might get him into the mood?
maybe the reason why he doesnt come is because you reach climax so early, then you stop?
Alcoholics and smokers find it harder to get erect and to cum; for example: your 5 minute sex session may not be enough he may take like 20mins to cum. Ok, might be longer but thats a possible case, i dont know the full facts.
Perhaps you could give him a blow job first and a wank?
tbh, if he has slept with loads of people he probably have lost all sensitivity and it becomes routine which means he isn't as good as you say you are (no offense), maybe he doesnt want to cum because he has an STD? so he stops b4 it. you can still catch via contact and thro precum, but if he isnt aware that of precum and not bothered by contact he may hav HIV: thats only spread through liquids and not by touching. So he doesnt want to cum to prevent you getting it (but you may ahve it thro precum) or simply he isnt in luv with u as much as he says...I cum premature if im deep in luv wid sum1 its so embarrassing yet with someone i int so much in luv i dont, i last ages.
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reader, brokenarrow +, writes (2 August 2005):
try to have a little fun with your sex? take the pressure off by not trying to 'get each other off' so to speak. maybe slow things down and try talking a little to him about what turns him on? don't put pressure on yourself either because this will only add to his woes!! sex is meant to be fun so try lighten it up a little, play around and don't expect to much. maybe even try masturbating together, and seeif you can pick up any tips by watching? that can be fun :) good luck and don't stress!!
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reader, kim21 +, writes (2 August 2005):
maybe he has said he has slept with alot of people to try and impress you obviously he hasn't he is trying to hard getting to nervous and it is putting him off. try doing something different catch him by surprise handcuffs are quite a turn on for most people or sexy underwear see how it goes.
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