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writes: Okay, I have never in my life had an orgasm. What is wrong with me? I won't let a guy go down on me or touch me much. I have never been sexually abused or anything so what is wrong with me?
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reader, schlottjl  +, writes (24 August 2005):
 Assuming you are female, you may be lacking the correct type of stimulation. If you do not let men "go there,” then you need to, if you want an orgasm.
Also, you don't say your age, but if you are less than 30 years old, you might be one of the 60-80% who will not orgasm until they are older. It is not currently known if the average younger women do not have the capacity or if they are not yet in deeply committed relationships. I suspect it is a combination of both.
Try to experiment on yourself to see what feels good. If you enjoy sex, you may want to incorporate some self stimulation while having intercourse. If you are not yet in a serious relationship and not really enjoying sex, perhaps your body is telling you something. There is no reason to do something you don't feel comfortable with; that includes sex, men going down on you and men touching you.
Oh ya, nothing is wrong with you, you just deserve more!
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reader, roni24  +, writes (24 August 2005):
 you dont state your age? nothing is wrong with you, you are perfectly normal alot of woman never have an orgasm . the more you think about the more pressure you feel and you become tense, try to relax. can you orgasm on your own? i personally dont have an orgasm during penetrative sex but i also find that if i am tense or overworried about stuff then even oral sex dont do it for me either. try relaxing and dont pressure your self to much just enjoy.
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reader, Scoops +, writes (24 August 2005):
Some women just dont orgasism through penetrative sex. Find a position that stimulates your clitoris, its all about trial and error but you know your body best so help the guy find the spot that pleasures you most. Also why do you not let a guy go down on you? This can be a great way to experience an orgasm, try it and you never know you just might like it!!!!!!
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