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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Her husband is a cross-dresser and wants to tell their young children. She doesn't want this! What kind of advice can I give her to help her cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A friend of mine has recently asked me for advice since her husband reads all her e-mails etc. Not sure what to tell her. She recently found out her husband of 15 years is a cross-dresser and wants to 'come out' She has agreed to stay and live ...

How can I console my friend who is a cheated-on wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A good friend of mine just told me that her husband has been having an affair for some time now and this past weekend she discovered the whole thing. He moved out! She’s so heart broken and she’s crying ALL the time. They’ve been married for 5 ye...

I found out she had an affair with a married man...and I can't get past it! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - My wife has led a very checked past. She had sex from a very early age with many men, several times with total strangers, and has even experienced (once) sex with 2 men at the same time. When we dated, she told me all of this and I thought I could ...

My husband is a good guy, but I feel the wrong one for me. I hate the thought of staying with him AND leaving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for ten years. I married the wrong guy; my husband is a good person, he just isn't the one for me. I am a people person, and he is a 'person' person. He only seems to need me, and isn't interested in making friends or having ...

We want to make our textual affair into a real one for just one night. But, the guilt is holding us back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, Feeling a bit strainge writing on this website, but I need some help with out getting insults. I have been reading through some other problems to see what the replies are like and I know I am probably in for a telling off. Here's the pro...

My husband doesn't understand the effect that lack of sex is having on our marriage...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 28 years, no children, my husband didn't make love to me and this went on for 5 months with him insisting there is nothing wrong and nobody else, he did still cuddle and be affectionate though. He did go to the doc's for a ...

I was a virgin when he married me but when he gets angry he calls me a 'SLUT!' Why?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I have a lovely husband of 13 years. I was a virgin when I married him. When he gets angry he often calls me a slut. Can you tell me why he does this? Is he just using the worst word to annoy me as this term is the complete opposite of what I am? Or ...

My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...

Keep ending up with men who put their ex-wives first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Twelve years ago I was in Love with whom I thought was the love of my life. He was not ready for a commitment, and I dedcided to move on with my broken Heart. I had other relationship's, but I had come to accept that I would not ever fall in ...

I have gone off sex with my husband...how do I get back on track. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - OK, so here's my problem. I have been married to my husband for nearly a year now, we get on great and he is a total gent to me (most of the time), except when it comes down to sex. I have totally gone off it, I'm just not interested in it at all. ...

He's more interested in his computer and his ipod...than me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I've been married for 10 years, have 2 kids and for the last 3 years have had sex with my husband maybe 3 times. I wear size 4 clothes, run at least 3 times a day try very hard not to look frumpy and even where sexy nightgowns. Everything I do ...

My friend found condoms in her Dad's car. Should she tell her Mother? How should I advise her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hi every1, i was just wonder, my friend came for me for help i did know what to say!!she saw condoms in her father's car as they were pulled up by a police! she and her mother had already discussed that her father might have been cheating since he ...

Nine minths of marriage and I am shocked. He wants a divorce! Help me understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 9 months. I knew this guy for 5 years (we were dating for 5 years). We were engaged once after 6 months of dating. When I approached him with date of wedding he said that he was not ready. We broke up, but started to date ...

How can I fix my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) - My marriage of 8 years has gone to crap. My great wife said that she can't take anymore and wants me out. We have two kids that i love very much. I am the cause of this whole mess and will do anything to fix it. Have going to doctor and ...

Married just 3 months and I'm unhappy- I feel like I have missed out on other relationships! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Im 23yr old and just married (approx 3 months) and I have good job, great husband and you would think tha I would be happy!!!.. But I have been only with 1 guy ever since I was 20 and his my first and only sexual partner.... I have sometimes ...

Why has my lovely wife lost the same passion, I feel for her? Please help me understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 January 2007 (M) - I have a wonderful wife and relationship with her... Yet over the past several years she has lost her desire for sex.... Even though we are both intimate and sexually satisified when we make love..... She has seemed to have lost her desire for sex....

After 3 kids, my body isn't what it used to be and hubby is not as attracted me! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I have recently had my third child...and unfortunately my body will never be the same as it was before kids. I have worked out hard and lost all the excess pregnancy weight but still have scars and sags that my doctor says are 'just part of being a ...

Life with my police officer husband is tough! What can I do to make things better for us all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for nearly 20 years married for 17 this year. He has served in the police all that time and over the years he has become more cold, unemotional towards me and my children, he criticizes everything i do and everything i ...

Hubby is a good provider but lacks in the 'lovin'' departmenr. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - You see, my husband has a type A personality and generally lives and breaths new ways to make money. Sex is my call 99% of the time and when we do get into it in the bedroom he always throws off this (yeah come n get it) vibe, which is the reason ...

Do I try to make it work with my alcoholic husband?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - O.K. here it goes......My husband is an alcoholic. When I fell in love with him it wasn't a problem. We met in our early 20's so we partied together, nothing uncommon. We have since had 2 boys (5 and 3) and I have matured and calmed down. He has ...

I'm attached to my guy on the side even though I think he may be using me. Should I walk away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Hi I am 32yrs female, married, but have been having an affair with a 48yr old single guy. I am confused as I really like this guy alot, may be falling inlove with him, we have been seing one another for 4 months now, and had sex in the last 2 ...

I have love and companionship and a cosy home.. but no sex. Is it worth risking everything for a sexual relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I've been married 8 years, no kids. I'm in my late 40s, my wife just over 50. We knew each other for a few years before we got together romantically. It was sexy and exiting at first and I remember thinking at last here was the girl who had ...

I want to have more sex and eventually have a baby - but my husband has a VERY low labido! I'm worried and depressed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - please some one give me some advice. I am very recently married - we have known eachother for years and our sexual dinamics are definately different - i have always enjoyed sex but although I love my husband in other ways I wouldnt say we have ...

Feel I've messed up by marrying someone who was my best friend but I didn't love - I was too afraid to hurt her by breaking up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I think perhaps I have made a mistake by getting married. We got together 8 years ago, split up after 3 then got back together the next year. Ever since then (4 years) I have felt that there has been something lacking: we get on fine but I don't ...

My husband and I are perfect, except for the sex. He said I could have other partners so long as I came back to him... but now I've fallen in love with one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Please can you offer me some advice. I am married and have been with my husband for 5 years. We have one 2 year old boy and I am 6 weeks pregnant with our second child. We are happy together and we are made for each other but he just does not do i...

Should I tell my Mom that Dad looks at porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 years old and about three days ago i was searching through my parent's computer's search history. To my horror, I found that my father had been looking at porn. I went to google desktop to find that he had been looking at it since Aug of ...

Besotted with this other woman because of boredom in my marriage! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

23 January 2007 (M) - Hi. I am in a bit of a muddle - not sure whether it is fate or love... I am 21 and have been married for 1 year and been with my wife for 6. She was the first love of my life, and I seriously have never taken my eyes off her! However, a girl...

After trying to get back the spark, I still feel something lacking in our marriage. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Is it possible to fall out of love with someone after 20 years of marriage? My husband and I married quite young (19 yrs.old) we have no children, though I've always wanted a family -- he did not. I think I knew after within the first 5 years of...

My husband wants us to live with his parents but I don't really want to. I need your help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - i have been married for over a year now and my husband and i are renting a place as we cannot afford to buy a house just yet. the problem is my husband wants us to buy a house together with his parents, but of course them living in the main house, ...

My wife has told me she has had enough and refuses to communicate with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - I am a young 86 year old in second marriage with splendid Christian service to a lady 14 years younger who has been splendid. I had a blood clot heart attack in March 2005 and have been looked after wonderfully. Also as a war disabled veteran extra ...

I have cheated on my wife numerous times, because she doesn't take care of my needs. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - I have been married for 5+ years and have a 3 year old and one on the way. My problem is my wife is not as excited about sex as I am and I have cheated on her numerous times. I have not had sex with another person since the summer but I have had ...

My husband of 10years doens't want sex anymore. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 20yrs married for 10 havent had sex for 6yrs when i question my husband he says there is nothing wrong, he won't see a marriage guidance counceler and i'm at my wits end. what do i do?...

I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 January 2007 (M) - Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...

My husband puts more effort into pleasing his dad than pleasing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - why does my husband seem to constantly feel the need to please his dad? he puts so much time and energy into it that he has none left for me and he also works for his dad. he is almost forty so i find this odd. he is always so exhausted when he gets ...

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I ...

My husband and I seem to be the opposite of everybody... I need sex 3-4 times a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I come from a prepared wealthy family vs his (2 sets of parents etc.). I feel I am always wearing the pants in our relationship and for once I want to be the damsel in distress, rescued by her knight in shining armor. See, I’m the one that brings ...

We're married and we can't cannect on work schedules and having children. Are we ready for a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - How do you know when you're ready for divorce? Bubble, Bubble, Toil and trouble...yep, that's my marriage right now. We're totally drifting apart and I don't see us connecting on some major issues. I want him to work close to home, he wants to work ...

Happily married but I want to 'swing' with the couple from our church! Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I’m a happily married female, but flirting has gotten me into trouble. A few months ago my husband and I went on a dbl date w/a couple from church. We have become very good friends now. Recently I have noticed her husband checking me out....

She wants an "open' marriage...should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

19 January 2007 (M) - My wife of ten years just told me that she wouldn't mind an open relationship but doesn't have one because she knows I wouldn't be able to handle it. Should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men? She also states sex is not love for ...

Does marriage counselling help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I seem to have let love slip away. Now I feel no love or respect for my husband. I am ready to leave but feel that it is worth it to try to get it back. Does marriage counseling (or one of these highly advertised alternatives that you can order) ...

We love each other but he works out of state and it's doing my head in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - Do people that seem to still love one another get divorced? There's no physical/emotional abuse to speak of, no alcoholisim or drugs, and no "omg..I just found out I'm gay". The problem is growing apart...and my husband works out of state. We ...

I'm married but still in love with me ex. Should I give it a go with my ex and risk loosing everthing with my husband?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - I'm married, but still love my ex. I have been married for nearly a year now, together for nearly 5, but I am still in love with my ex. We regulary text each other and occasionally see each other (not sexually). We both get on really well but he w...

Worried that my husband is being a "sex tourist" in South Thailand...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - My husband is vacationing in South Thailand. Many people have told me that chances are if he's there with his friends, that he's taking advantage of Thailands notorious 'Sex tourism' and that the vast majority of western people visiting Thailand end ...

My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I...

Scared to confront my husband about his online chatting and possible cheating - he said he was working when the pic says otherwise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my husband for 6 yrs (married 4). He has been spending a lot of time online chatting to 1 particular woman, and just before x-mas he said he was thinking of leaving me, but that he wanted to work it out. I agreed t...

My husband keeps meeting up with his ex, I try not to let it bother me but truth is it does.Why does he want to keep meeting with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - My husband texts his ex girlfriend and meets her every week. He doesn't think I should be jealous about this. I try not to let it bother me as he is genuinely in love with me. However, I can't get over the fact that he would even want to meet ...

I am pregnant and due in March but I'm not exactly sure what month I got pregnant. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - my question is: I am pregnant and due on March 10th 2007. So what month did I get pregnant in? I'm pretty sure it was June but my husband and I are having problems and he is thinking that this baby isn't his because I slept with someone in May. But ...

We've only been married 8 months and he is acting like he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - I need to know if I should just give up on my marriage we have only been married for 8 months and my husband is really acting like he hates me I really love him I don't know what I should do....

The affair is over and we are working on our marriage but I am worried about my ex-lover!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - After 20 years marriage my husband turned cold on me and I thought he didnt want me anymore - I did ask but always got the nothings wrong answer. Predictably, a close friendship turned into an affair and I spent the last year being very happy wi...

My husband works away from home and we only see each other every 3 months! It is tearing us apart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - Married 6 years. Lived together 1 1/2. My husband left our home state for a nursing job in Cal. 9 months ago. He rooms with 3 other guys there. He was coming home 6 days a month. He works there for the $$. Of course, I do not like this situation and ...