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Archived questions from: March, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

We don't have sex. Is divorce the answer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - my husband and I have been having marital problems. We have been to a counsellor but nothing has changed. We don't have sex. I think it's been 3 months now. He never wants it, and I think it's because he's afraid of not performing, which has ...

I've had dreams about this man since high school, its seems like we are meant to be but we are both married! Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - why should i feel sad knowing that an old friend got married..? we used to be classmates during high school days, way back then , all we do is fight and we dont seem to agree on anything. but both of us know that we secretly like each other so mu...

My husband wants me to do things that make me feel dirty, humiliated and miserable, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - My husband thinks he is a good lover. He goes at it without any thought for me. Asks if I would like him do this and that which his previous girlfriend liked. He makes me feel dirty. Thinks touching the clitoris not licking is masterbation and ...

Shall we get back together for the kids sake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - I have been separated from my wife for 10 months now, and only recently have we began to talk without anger. We have 3 kids, and because of work, I am a distance dad who travels to see them about twice a month. Recently, my wife has been ...

I met a man, but he's married!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - I met a man a little over a week ago when I was at a club last weekend. I noticed him from across the room and one of my friends went over to him and he came over to our table. We ended up really hitting it off it was amazing and I think at that ...

I'm almost ready to come out as bi, but I'm still married, any advice!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - hi there, I am 32 married with 2 kids, but I have a VERY big problem..I'm fairly new to the area we live and have struck up several friendships with new woman but with one this is very different, I have fallen in love with her in a BIG way..This ...

My husband is 100% inconsiderate and spends all his time playing video games!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - lately my husband is a very inconsideate man. for valentines day i got nothing. and i went all out for him. gifts dont really mean anything but just the thought alone would have been nice. on march 29th its been 5 years we have been married. i am ...

I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6842 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in ...

Been married two weeks and I HATE foreplay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6836 days ago

25 March 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married all of two weeks...and I HATE IT when my husband goes down on me. I dont feel like any foreplay activity either...that was not how i really thought i am.I am not too attached yet,but dont have any other romantic p...

He lied about looking at porn for 3 1/2 years!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

23 March 2006 (F) - Sorry this is a little long, but I am desperate for advice!!! I didn’t find out my husband looked at porn until after we got married and lived together (he lied to me about it for the 3 1/2 years before we married). I am 21 (still get hit on by ...

I had an affair but I have found out my husband has been sleeping with a mutual friend and met a girl off the net!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6847 days ago

22 March 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and together for 5 years before that. About 6 years ago i had an affair due to unhappiness in our marriage, unacceptable I know. We seperated for six months then got back together and made a go of it. My husband had ...

My husband's always off with his male friend, what should I do about this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6842 days ago

21 March 2006 (F) - Hi, I am a 32-year-old woman and my husband is 35. We've been married 8 years. Recently my husband has been off on trips with a male friend of his - who I've never met in person, or even spoken to on the phone. If he's not golfing in Manch...

How can I leave him without him making me guilty for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

21 March 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 40 years old and I have been married for 09 years. I don´t have no children. I have been living a very unhappy life because I came to live since 2002 with my husband to his home town and he is suffering because his both parents are old and ...

Should I continue the misery with my wife or hook up with the new spark?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6846 days ago

21 March 2006 (M) - i'm 32 year old married for 5 years..actually i'm a bit hesitated to write but i'm really going crazy.like i said i married a woman 5 years ago after falling in love with her,life was ok in the beginning..we moved to another country "after 3 months ...

My husband has the best of all possible worlds, while I stay home, look after our kids and pay our bills!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6851 days ago

20 March 2006 (F) - Let's see if I can make this short. September 05 my husband left to go help Katrina victims. The entire time he was gone he did not send any money to help me take care of our 3 kids. He met a lady that would "talk" to him and help him talk about ...

My husband is leaving me for another woman. But still I have sex with him everyday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

20 March 2006 (F) - My husband of 21 years worked in CA for 2 years and met an older woman (he is 49, she is 58) who he now says he loves and has a great passion with her. He says he will be leaving me and our children (20, 18, 12) as soon as he sells our home (he says ...

After we got married my gf felt unattracted to me and left and now i am destroying myself!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6845 days ago

20 March 2006 (M) - I got married to my girlfriend of two years back in August. Since soon after the marraige things started to go a little strange, and she began to doubt her feelings for me. Over the last couple of months, she started to express a lack of attracti...

My wife has never made love and refuses to even look at my "little fella" - how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6852 days ago

20 March 2006 (M) - How can I get my wife, a woman of 48, with three prior husbands, and five prior lovers, now unable to overcome memories of child molestations, to make love to me.? She says I am responsible because of my backgound in investigative work and because I ...

Years of exposure to guys with strong preferences about women, makes it hard for my wife to believe me when I say I'm into her completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6851 days ago

17 March 2006 (M) - My wife and I are remarried in our forties. She was married over 15 years. She had lots of guy friends growing up. These guys have molded her thinking in such a way that it's driving me crazy. I am a guy who can see beauty in all races, I don't lock ...

I'm a great wife and mother-but his bad behaviours are so unfair and I'm hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6853 days ago

17 March 2006 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 9 years with 4 children between us, However i have never been highly sexed and he has, he says i haven't paid him enough attention in our marriage and states this for the reasons that he hasn't come home on ...

She wanted to have an affair but got rebuffed... Now her beau has gotten another chick pregnant. Where is my marriage going!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6853 days ago

17 March 2006 (M) - I have been married to Julie 15 years, usual up and downs but happy in the main so I thought. Have two lovely boys. About 18 months ago I thought my wife was having an affair – based on her mood and behaviour, small things but I thought all the ...

Seperated for six months... Should I work at my moribund marriage or keep going with the new guy I'm falling for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6855 days ago

17 March 2006 (F) - I'm a married women and have been separated for six months. My husband I are still seeing a counselor but we argue constantly and he is still under the impression that everything is going to work out and I'm moving home soon. Which under the right ...

After 6 years of marriage, I think I fell out of love with my husband. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6843 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband six years, I think I fell out of love with him, I tried to leave him but he convinces me to stay, we have too many problems What should I do?...

My husband and girlfriend are extremely close. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - My girlfriend spends a lot of time on the phone with my husband and at my house with my husband when I'm not home. I know they discuss her bad marriage and sex. I told both of them I'm upset and want it to stop. Now they're upset with me and ...

She says I don't satisfy her sexually and now she doesn't love me either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6855 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - My wife has recently told me that should doesn't love me like I love her. She loves me but is not in love with me. She says it's not fair to me or her to stay together. She won't give me any clues as to what might be the problem. We have been ...

Her guy friends have molded her thinking, how can I change that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6852 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - My wife and I are remarried in oure forties. she was married over 15 years, has has lots of guy friends growing up. these guys have molded her thinking in such a way that its driving me crazy. I am a guy who can see beauty in all races, I dont lock ...

My husband and his friend are inseperable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - how do i tell my husband that he spends too much time with a male friend and this friend is always here as soon as my husband opens his eyes until he walks back in the door again. they also work together. i would be grateful if you could tell me how ...

I feel resentment because my wife sees sex as a "chore" and shows no enthusiasm! Any tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I'm wondering about womens attitudes towards sex. I know everybody is different but allow me to explain. I work rotating. This week I'm working nights, 11 pm - 7am. This doesn't leave us much time for sex. We also have two teenagers runing...

Not a word of a lie: my sex life has been the nearest thing possible to necrophilia with both parties still breathing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I have been married for more years than I care to remember or let you know but, as far as sex is concerned, I am afraid of my wife. Even as far back as our honeymoon, we would only have sex 2/3 times a week and never in the 11 days a month she used ...

She claims never to have "flicked the bean"... Is this normal!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6850 days ago

16 March 2006 (M) - I have a question that I'm appealing to the women to help me with. My wife of 20 years, claims she has never masturbated. Not once in her life. Is this on the extreme end of normal/common? I have a hard time imagining that. I'm not saying it's ...

I divorced him, but now he's announced his engagement I am devastated!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6831 days ago

16 March 2006 (F) - We were married for 22yrs, a turbulent marriage, but loved each deeply, 3 grown up children now, my ex was a heavy drinker and an angry man. After a few break ups my ex always begged for another chance. In the last 3 yrs i've had cancer twice (now ...

I had an affair and I can't forget about her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - Eight years ago I had an affair with the girl of my dreams - I was married then and I am still married now. I decided not to leave my wife at the time because I had a baby daughter. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, and I felt that I lost ...

She says no body was as perfect as me, but I don't believe her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6854 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - A Question to all you woman out there, my wife tells me guys are attracted to women more from a phyisical stand point, women from a emotional. that a mans body, penis size are not important. I cant believe my wife who has been with better body, ...

I'm leaving my husband soon and I want a relationship with my married friend from the ice cream shop.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6856 days ago

14 March 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an unhappily married woman with 2 children. My plan is to leave when my husband finishes school in June. There is a married man who is a friend of mine. His daughter and my daughter are classmates. He also owns an ice cream sto...

Found pictures of his ex.... why is he keeping them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

14 March 2006 (F) - I've been married for a year and a half. Today I was looking for some bank info and stumbled across naked photos of my husband's ex-girlfriend. I know they are old, but why is he keeping them? The worst part is, she's a lot more attractive than ...

My wife of 16 years has dropped a bombshell: She's met a new man, is in love with him and moves out next week...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

13 March 2006 (M) - my wife of 16 years has told me that she met a new man 8 weeks ago. she says that she's in love with him and is mooving out to live with our two kids next week.she says that she loves me but is not in love with me. since telling me she is very tou...

I'm about to have a baby, but my husband wants nothing to do with my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

13 March 2006 (F) - My family want nothing to do with my husband and he wants nothing to do with them. I am stuck in the middle. The problem is I am 7 mths pregnant with my first child and once the baby is born he doesn't want the baby to go round to my parents ...

Don't mind him look at porn so much as his lying about it (and the online dating)...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

13 March 2006 (F) - Okay I just want to get some other imput from you guys here. My problem is the my husband looks at porn and lies about it. I do not have aproblem with him looking at the porn and have told him this. I just ask for him not to have porn downladed ...

I feel that a man needs a vent for peace of mind, my wife disagrees and pressured me to sell my beloved dirt-bike! Reasonable or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

11 March 2006 (M) - Do I need a swift kick? Hello, I'd appreciate any wisdom that this community could share. I first realize that my issue is pretty small compared to many others, but I still want to do the right things in life. I am a 31-year-old business man wi...

My husband don't mind if I find a sexual partner, is this normal??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

10 March 2006 (F) - OK. Here it is. I am married with a young child. I love my husband very much and he says he loves me. But he has no sex drive whatsoever. We last had sex 2 months ago and before that it was 6 months previously. I have tried most things to g...

We've been married two months and I found nude pics of his ex-gf's. Should this bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6861 days ago

10 March 2006 (F) - I was married two months ago and have recently found among my husbands papers many pictures of ex-girlfriends including naked pictures. Is it normal for him to hold on to these? Should I be upset?...

My friend is involved with the husband of a couple I babysit for... Don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6862 days ago

9 March 2006 (?) - ok really big problem. My friend recently got involved with an older man. Shes my best friend and I knew something was going to happen, but then I found out that he was married and had two little twin girls. I even babysitted them once! his wife is ...

My husband hides things from me! Little things...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

9 March 2006 (F) - Okay this sounds silly but it really bothers me. My husband will keep things from me. For example he got off from work one day and went by an old friends work. (male friend) I really don't care that he went I do care how ever that he felt the need ...

I cheated in my mind, and my husband is angry and hurt...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

9 March 2006 (F) - I cheated on my husband and brought him home in my mind and fucked my husband thinking of the other guy. He is extremely hurt and I destroyed his self confidence and dignity. He feels small and worthless in a sexual way. I don't want to lose him but ...

My man waited until I had an affair before becoming a better husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

9 March 2006 (F) - I have been married for 13 years, of which 10 of those years my husband has not physically been attracked to me. We have a great marriage other than that. At first we still had physical contact hugs, kisses, and hand holding, etc. But about three ...

My wife's cheating on me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

8 March 2006 (M) - I am a 28-year-old man and my wife is 25. Recently I found out she has been cheating on me with a 68-year-old man after I received nude photos via email (our email address is a shared one, anything addressed to my wife also comes to me too.) ...

When I was 16, someone said I was small and it's scarred me forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6864 days ago

7 March 2006 (M) - I lost my virginity when I was 16. The girl I was with told others that I was small. Hearing her friends laugh at me has scarred me for years. I am still very insecure when it comes to my size even though everything I've read says I am average. Yet, ...

I'm married but have slept with my cousin!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

6 March 2006 (F) - hi im a married women about three weeks ago we all were having a few drinks at my house a few of my friends and my cousins where there when everyone went to bed my cousin asked me to stay up to help him with the computer after awhile he was getting ...

He has feelings for another woman. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

5 March 2006 (F) - What do I do now that my husband of 7 years is telling me he has feelings for another woman?...

Married, but seperated, now in love with a married man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

3 March 2006 (F) - I am a married woman, but separated from my husband. I have stupidly fallen deeply in love with a married man. We spend as much time together as possible, not sexually we just love being together. He says that he loves me and I have replied those ...