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writes: I have been with my husband six years, I think I fell out of love with him, I tried to leave him but he convinces me to stay, we have too many problems What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): My wife just recently told me that she has fallen out of love with me, but loves me as a person. We are working really hard at our relationship and I am very interested in staying married because I love her with all my heart and soul. I just recently found out she has been talking to another guy for the last two months, which is around the same time that the relationship started having issues. I believe, she doesn't know about having an emotional affair and I believe she doesn't love this person, but is talking to him in ways that she wouldn't if I was standing there. What kind of problems are you having? Did you seek marriage counseling?
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reader, JUkithepirate +, writes (18 March 2006):
OK may i first say, in a relationship there are always ups and downs..I think that your husband still loves you from telling you to stay..You two should try and refresh your relationship..im not sure what exactly your problems are maybe if you were to tell me i could get you more advice..You two could take a break from eachother..but set trusts..like no cheating ...Maybe if you to create more space you'll realize that you still love eachother if you really love eachother you'll find a way
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Face up to the fact that it is over, that is if it really is over and you have gone through the talking and soul searching stages.
Have you tried as much as you can to work through the issue and if so or you know you just dont love him then time to end it.
There is no point in being with someone married or not if you dont love them as there is a very fine line between love and hate and one very quickly can turn into the other causing lots of damage.
I take it there are no children involved.
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