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writes: My wife and I are remarried in oure forties. she was married over 15 years, has has lots of guy friends growing up. these guys have molded her thinking in such a way that its driving me crazy. I am a guy who can see beauty in all races, I dont lock in on blondes or brunettes, black,asian..... so heres my delema. since I think this way , I dont have a prefferance as she says. like all the guys she knows or had relationships with. she feels threatened and in competition with all woman, she told me her type guy and has shown me some celebrities that may make me uncomfortable if I am around them. she said imagine her view on this, being around any woaman makes her uncomfortable. now you may think I give her reason to act this way, but she has told me she has never been around a guy like me that accepts people in all shapes and sizes. she told me she wishes all people were like me. but on the other hand the years of hearing these things, she has a hard time believing me. I am into her completely, love everything about her and have told her over and over I dont think like all those guys she has been around. she thinks blondes are better then brunettes and light nipples are better that dark.....and so on. I give her no reason to feel insecure at all. I want her to get rid of these unfounded feelings....HELP!!
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 What she needs is a bit of counselling. She needs to work out what lies she has been told over her life in a neutral environment.
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