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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

So, what was his feeling toward me? It's a little mysterious, so I need your opinions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I told my crush(an exchange student) I liked him. However, he said long distance relationship was impossible and if a relationship came into existence it wouldn't continue... In addition to this, he said he had no idea when he will come back to m...

Feeling confused about this relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Feeling Confused: I am in a long distance relationship with someone who I love very much. We talk everyday for aprox an hour. Now I am feeling confused about he feels. He lives with his Dad and I still live with my ex husband. A situation I know i...

He deleted some girls off Facebook when I said I don't like them, but then a few months later they are back! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - MY Bf live in US and i live in greece so we just talk and chat everyday,before i told him that i hate those bit*** on his facebook friendlist and he removed them,later because of studying i deactived my facebook profile and then after 2 or 3 month ...

GF lost all sex drive before our relationship became long distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend left the country to study abroad for a year. We decided to go on with a Long Distance Relationship as I will visit every now and then, as will she. We used to have a very sexually active lifestyle before the news of her scholarship, ...

The guy whom I was with on and off for 5 yrs, is going abroad tomorrow and I don't know if I'll ever see him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hello, the guy I have been with for five years ( on and off but most of the time we knew that we are going to go back to each other ), well..he is going tomorrow to work abroad and I don't know when I'm going to see him again, he is not the talker ...

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...

B/f wants me to move to where he is and I can't do it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, We just had a fight. My boyfriend got so furious seeing me talking to another guy on facebook. I wasn't doing anything wrong, and plus this guy is way younger than I am. So I defended myself and said that he should have put his tru...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

I cannot ignore my former LDR any more. I took a risk. Was this the right way to reconnect with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Five months ago, I told a long-distance love (I live in LA; he's from San Fran) that I couldn't do it anymore. Mainly, because he would constantly tell me he missed me and wanted to see me, yet wouldn't follow through. Granted, we only dated six ...

Long distance? what is truly happening? Is he just trying to break up?

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26 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I love him more that I ever thought I could possibly have feelings for another person. During the two years, he was deployed for 9 months and now has moved back home for the last 5 months...

We haven't met in person but I don't want to mess with what we have!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - The other day when I said I was alone, she texted me back saying that Im not alone, cus I have her. She says that she enjoys talking to me every day. I am really looking forward to the day we meet in person, but I dont want to mess with whats so ...

She wants me to visit her in USA. She does not know I had a criminal record in the past which may prevent me getting a visa

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - A month ago I got a letter from a female I met in Florida back in 2003. Truth be told,I have always wondered what could have been. I have been invited over. Her family are bending over backwards for me. My problem being,I have a criminal record. It ...

I've been hoping we'd lead to marriage but haven't seen him since 2008!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I am in a Long distance relationship. I met someone back in 2007 he was here on contract from the states and we worked in the same department for a yr, anyways cut short we started dating and he went back and i promised him i would come to th...

Is it okay to feel this way? sometimes it feels like a FWB, yet when with him the sex is amazing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend feels more like a friend with benefits or something. I love him to pieces, I trust him completely, he understands me better than anyone; in short, he's the best mate I could ever wish for. But thinking of the fact that we're ...

He's moving away, and this could be our last chance of a relationship, help! Do I give it a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hey, any advice would be appreciated! right, first of all I'll tell you the basic story. I'm with this guy. I met him in college, he's similar to me in things like music, and our views on things, I get on well with his family and he does with min...

He just enjoys my treatment of him without reciprocating! I feel hurt and miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - are me and my bf falling out?im 19 he is 21 ..just began working..ever since he's started working in a different city(since4 months) he has been busy with work ..he used to call and text a lot telling me he misses me more than his parents and ...

Am I being demanding or is he being uncaring, and doesn't love me as much as it appears?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost half a year. Things are generally well, but I occasionally feel he doesn't love me as much as he says. We live quite a distance apart so have to be in touch mostly via text. He replies to them fairly well, ...

I honey-trapped my own boyfriend.....he doesn't know it was me and hes broken my heart!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I am in bits right now.....really need some help. Ive been seing my long distant lover for 9 months. Hes in the army but we saw each other when we could. Latley he had become really distant from me though......his calls and texts became very rare ...

Ten year age difference ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I'll try and get straight to the point but it's a long story, lol. I have been dating a guy that's ten years older than me for about a month and a half on and off.. simply because he has issues with my age, which don't get me wrong.. I do ...

Long distance... To give it a go, or remain a single traveler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys. So i thought i would see what others thought of my situation. Im a dancer, and i am constantly travelling overseas and going from place to place. Me and my ex boyfriend a year ago broke up partly because he didnt want to do long distance...

My husband is always suspicious of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Hi. How can i manage a long distance relationship. I am married. My husband is constantly checking up on me. What am i doing? With who? How many minutes or hours did i spent at the shops? Etc. He is always suspicious. Help...

My 6 months old baby from another relationship is upsetting my new partner. How can I make this better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - So, I know this duels as a parenting question, but since the point of interest is my relationship I figure I should ask it here. Some Background: I am married and have a child from a previous relationship. I'll spare you the gruesome details, and ...

What can I learn from this? And can I get over it? I am a major reason for her changing and for the breakup.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - So.. I have been with this girl for a bit over two years now. one and a half of it being long distance. We broke up recently, basically we were breaking and making up for the last 3 months of the relationship. This was the final one basicall...

Am I romantically over-reacting? I am having trouble coping with the absence of my girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - im in a distant relationship, i love my girlfriend so much, she is my first love, i used to chat with her on facebook everyday for hours, dreaming about our future, singing to each other, living happy moments of love, treating and standing by each ...

I'm having trouble resisting the temptation ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Here is the situation. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, although the past year has been semi-long distance since she moved an hour away to attend school. I love her very much but we aren't as intimate as we used to be and I only ...

I still love him but I'm with my long distance boyfriend who's also a best friend to me!

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20 September 2011 (F) - I have a Dilema, a very complex one. I have a daughter who is two years old. Her dad put me threw hell and when I became pregnant I was a total mess. My mood swings where to the extreme. About a month ago we talked to eachother again. For my ...

Long distance relationship: I think I screwed it up out of nothing!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. It has been one year since we met and also almost one year of the relationship! He is the best guy I could ever dream of being with.. he is just perfect.. we are very happy together. He is working at a place wh...

He's worried he's going to lose me to 'working' people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - i have recently started a dating 1 year younger than me. it all started casual and now has turned really serious. i finished school and i m about to move to a new town to start working. he is now so insecure with the move, he feels like he will lose ...

I need some insight into the female mind!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I need some insight into the female mind. I am away from home right now. Been away for about 4 weeks, and I have two more to go. My wife and I video chatted today, but the whole day she has been short on calls/texts. She seemed super tired (yaw...

I want to have sex but yet I feel so torn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I have some rather irrational feelings with regard to losing my virginity which I'm hoping someone can help me understand. When I stop and think that other people are having sex (for this purpose I'm referring to penis in vagina intercourse... sorry ...

I am using my online American girlfriend to go to USA, now feeling guilty, should I disclose it on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I am in love with an American girl through LDR on net whom I met through dating site and it's been almost 8 months since we got off to a start. She is gorgeous and running small sports gear shop there and recently have re-started her studies. She ...

I don't want to ruin my chance with him when he comes back to my country!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice! I am thai girl and that guy is american. First, i'll tell you how my story began. I met this guy (i'll call him yellow) at the pub. i went there with 2 friends( i'll call them pink and blue ) and he's with friend( i'll c...

Will I lose him? Can LDR work? How do I keep the spark between us alive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half. We're completely and utterly in love and have been since the day we met. We were each other's firsts and he hasn't had much luck with ladies before me. That is to say, I'm ...

Can people fall in love over the phone? Or is it because we knew each other before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Why do guys fall in love with girls? There was this guy that I had worked with about five years ago, and for the past three years we pretty much haven't talked at all. I was dating one of his friends at the time when we had worked together, so he ...

I love her but I don't know if she can handle this whole distance thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - So its this LDR thing that is just annoying as hell, this whole distance thing is sooo hard...I think i can handle it but I'm not sure if she can too, she has proved me that she loves me a lot and i do ofc as well, its just that i don't know if she ...

I prefer to be alone so I don't cheat on my LDR partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - I'm in a LDR and speak to her almost every night through the week, weekends however we don't talk at all hardly. I don't like weekends. I basically wish the weekends away until I'm back at work and it keeps my mind busy. I love my girl very much but ...

In an LDR with an American porn start, my family would kill me if they knew, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

16 September 2011 (M) - I am in LDR with an American Pornstar , she has worked in 30 movies but got retired after we declared love for each other two years ago. Our love started from email and then we took it to love chat on Skype and webcam meeting. We met once in ...

My sexting friend has made it clear he's going to have sex with other girls until we meet up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - I recently started talking to a guy i used to go to school with and we been flirting and sex-txting back and forth. He says he really likes me but however he lives quite a bit away. We have talked about meeting up again and seeing how we get on but ...

My boyfriend wants our LDR to be an open relationship...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been dating about three months when our relationship became long distance due to circumstances beyound our control. It's been three months since I had to move, and we've only been able to see each other once since then. ...

Boyfriend's unemployment is causing major stress in our LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months. We live about a 9 hour drive apart from each other. When we met, he was on leave from his job and was in search of new employment. He had money saved so he was able to come ...

How do I stop feeling a tiny bit betrayed about LDR boyfriend's actions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Yesterday evening, my LDR boyfriend from on the Continent met up with one of his female friends for a bite to eat and a couple of drinks. For a laugh, they decided to sneak into the place where he works since they weren't too far away and he has a ...

B/f had to move to another area and now I feel we are losing "us"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years. All was well, until a few months ago my partner started a new job and had to move to another area. Now we see each other every 6 weeks. He has always been an optimistic, cheerful and outgoing sort of ...

Long Distance Relationship or a dragged on Summer fling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman who met a 30 year old guy in April while we were both out of town on our own respective business. We happened to be staying at a common friend's house. I did not know him before. Sparks flew and we made out of three straight ...

If your love letter goes unanswered?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - I've been dating a gentleman for about four months. In the beginning I never doubted if he was interested or not. After all he was the one taking all of the initiative(once he got over his nerves). He's a shy type, from what I've seen. He would ...

How can I stop living in constant fear that he will cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - I've been in a pretty good relationship for the past 1 n a half year..he cares for me ,is very committed to me ,we are in love and we plan to marry in future.But i have fought with him twice about some random chats he had with girls on facebook ,i ...

Can our relationship survive even though we have so little time to spend with each other?

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14 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for six months, he lives around 2 hours away and we see each other every two weeks due to money issues. I love him very much but I have a problem I recently moved back into my parents home my father is very ...

Two years is a long time to wait and I'm not feeling any love from him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4817 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - i really need an advice! i've been dating with one online guy in 2 years.he lives in the other country, so i'm in a long distance relationship. i've never meet with this guy yet. at the firt time we usually talked on the phone and exchange text. b...

Should I wait for a response, move on or keep texting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - i met this guy, i didn't notice him at first, but after he gave me signals tht he's interested in me, and everybody says so, i'm starting notice him, but he never says a word. until one day he finally asked me some random things, and asked for my ...

How do I plan my holiday so I can see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Dear everyone, I have a problem.I have always thought that I can solve my own problems, but now I think I am not enough... I've read Dearcupid for more than a year now and I see I can trust your pieces of advice and you all are incredibly helpful,...

My LDR boyfriend is always too busy with work to have time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - nice to meet u everyone. i am a japanese and my boyfriend is foreigner. i have some problem now...give me some advice. but i have to say first, sorry if my english is wrong. well we've been long distance relationship in 2 years. recently my boyfrien...