A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with an American girl through LDR on net whom I met through dating site and it's been almost 8 months since we got off to a start. She is gorgeous and running small sports gear shop there and recently have re-started her studies. She is four years younger than me. We chat regularly and seeing each other through webcam . Honestly speaking, I was having this thing with her just to get to USA and get green card there because I have always wanted to go to my dreamland States to earn some money and my become a filmmaker. But since last week, I have begun to develop some strong feelings for her as she is very innocent and she thinks my love helping her come out of her past relationship's wounds. Actually ,Her first boyfriend cheated on her and then dumped her two year ago. I am feeling guilty and even more when she calls me divine love. Now I love her with all sincerity but also with intentions of using her to land myself in the USA, so both things now sumptuously getting priority. Last night , I couldn’t help crying when she called me divine love again and kissed me before singed off on Skype. Should I tell her that I fell in love with her just to go to USA and get Green Card there? Or should disclose on it on her once I land there? I would be obliged if you guys could help me get out of this dilemma. Will she forgive me and remain with me if I tell her now? Thank you all in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): If you really love her ask her how she would feel about you coming over to the states. Maybe she will find it a great idea and you guys can figure out a way to make your dream happen. If you tell her straight forward that you are using her she will probably be hurt and drop you. You need to search your own soul and if you do not have any genuine feelings for her then leave her alone. Karma hurts so keep it real and let her find a real divine love if you are just pretending. If you really care for her as she does for you, you two will figure something out and you dont need to tell her about your initial intensions.
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