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writes:Hi. How can i manage a long distance relationship. I am married. My husband is constantly checking up on me. What am i doing? With who? How many minutes or hours did i spent at the shops? Etc. He is always suspicious. Help
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reader, lucy14  +, writes (21 September 2011):
How long do you two plan on being apart? Have you ever cheated before? My advice would be to just keep reassuring him that you're faithful, you love him, and you miss him. What else could you really do? Maybe the distance isn't going to work, and you both are going to have to make another arrangement to be with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): From personal experience when my husband became very suspicious of me it was because he was doing things unfaithfully of his own. His cheating made his controlling side, paranoid. I was not doing any of the things he was paranoid about but come to find out he was.
If you know your husband is not committing unfaithful acts then maybe he is just very insecure and wants to reassure himself of your love. In this case I would answer any questions he has to show him you are being true. Try to hide your frustration because it will bring that many more questions to his head. When you are out shopping send him a pic of you and your friends having a good time and when he sees your smile it will melt away his paranoid side.
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