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writes:hello, the guy I have been with for five years ( on and off but most of the time we knew that we are going to go back to each other ), well..he is going tomorrow to work abroad and I don't know when I'm going to see him again, he is not the talker kind of person and I have been expecting his call for the last three days because he said that we have to do something special before his departure but I haven't received anything, the last time I saw him I was walking with an other guy, I don't want that to be the last time he sees me.. I feel so bad now, I don't want him to just leave like that, I'm so afraid of losing him, I have been loving this guy for so long I push all the other guys away and now he's going and I'm going to move to another city to study, I just can't stop thinking about him, how can't I survive this?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 It doesn't have to be too late. There is always the apology and explanation way to make things right. Worth a try?
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reader, onlyU +, writes (29 September 2011):
onlyU is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you;
well I guess it's maybe too late cause I sent him an " angry text" ( no reply ) he's going today so I think I've lost him..
but thank you anyway, you were the only one who answered my question :)
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reader, Aunty Susie +, writes (29 September 2011):
You need to get in contact with him. Don't wait for him to make the move. You organise that 'something special' before he leaves. Let him know exactly how you feel, before he goes. Who knows what the future holds for both of you! You don't have to loose contact; he's not moving planets, just the countries! And you won't be studying forever, so don't give up all hope.
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