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I still love him but I'm with my long distance boyfriend who's also a best friend to me!

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Question - (20 September 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a Dilema, a very complex one. I have a daughter who is two years old. Her dad put me threw hell and when I became pregnant I was a total mess. My mood swings where to the extreme. About a month ago we talked to eachother again. For my daughters sake. We also went threw the whole court process too. Well now that me and him talk to eachother I feel like I love him so much. I'm very sexually attracted to him aswell. When me and him where together in the past I was soooo in love with him. I left him thinking he wasn't good for my daughter. So far he's great with her.

I've also been in a relationship for a while with someone long distance. He helped me when I was down and with the pain I had when I was going threw stuff with my daughters father. I love him a lot. He's the best. But I feel like there's a few things missing about him. Those few things are what my daughters father has and what I loved about him.

Another thing. My daughters father also has someone else. He's not with her but he's in the process. He also doesn't trust me cuz for two year he says I kept him away from our daughter. But he never really made an effort to really see her and prove to me he wasn't a threat to her. He's different now than he was back then.

I'm so confused. I love my daughters father still and I love my bf out of state. I still don't trust my daughters father. Not all the way and it would change my life completely if I went ahead and stood with my daughters dad. My family would seriously dissown me. I'm so confused I don't know what to do.

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