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writes:So its this LDR thing that is just annoying as hell, this whole distance thing is sooo hard...I think i can handle it but I'm not sure if she can too, she has proved me that she loves me a lot and i do ofc as well, its just that i don't know if she can handle all this...there are 2 options of what i can do that both are deadly for me 1)I leave her to live her life.This will make me really unhappy but if its for the sake of her own happiness then I'd do it, i cant give her things others that are near her would be able to give.2)I stay with her while almost every day the whole distance thing comes on the surface and i can see her being sad, i tell her to leave her at start she says "so you want to leave me..." then i explain her how it is, anyway after some time she tells me to stay with her...but this happens all the time and i can see that she becomes sad...I'm in a dead end now and i don't know what to do i love her so much...but i feel like this love is really forbidden, i CAN wait a long time cause I'm used to this whole waiting thing but she is really sensitive...If someone could help me somehow that would be nice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): I'm in an LDR too, and let me tell you I know how you feel. You have to go with your heart with this one, don't doubt anymore if you keep that up it won't work out. Just be there for her. LDRs is the hardest when you fall hard.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 I see this as a classic case of YOU projecting on to HER your feelings..... There's no future in that....
Please take a few minutes to reconsider, and, if you have some questions about this LDR - AND YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT IT - resubmit it (or, them).....
Good luck...
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