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Two years is a long time to wait and I'm not feeling any love from him

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Question - (13 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2011)
A female Japan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really need an advice!

i've been dating with one online guy in 2 years.he lives in the other country, so i'm in a long distance relationship.

i've never meet with this guy yet. at the firt time we usually talked on the phone and exchange text. but after one year, he became so busy to study and part time job. he started ignore my text a lot, he didn't call me at all and he didn't say "i like you" or "I love you". if i ask him " do you like me?", he say "i love you so much!".

but...i have been wondering that he really doesn't have time to call me or send text to me. about 3 months ago, he went to korea then he started to ignore my text in 2 month. after he came back he said he was so busy to work and he doesn't have chance to use phone or his laptop. and he seems he didn't miss me as i missed him.

he is thinking to come to my country, but i don't know when, and sometime i can't trust him....

i'm thinking to leave from him now. but i still miss him and i hope he will stay with me. i know it's stupid, but i really like him.

2 years is so long to wait and i don't see his love to me now. i'm thinking about him every night, but he doesn't call me and then feel stupid.

what do you think about this?

am i too selfish? should i wait him?

or better to leave from him??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011):

I think you have waited long enough, most girls would have got bored waiting ages ago.

He has withdrawn from the friendship and is busy with his life.Just put it down to experience, you haven't even met so its not like you really knew him is it?

Get out there and start meeting new people, make new friends, you will soon forget him

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