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My LDR boyfriend is always too busy with work to have time for me

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Question - (12 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2011)
A female Japan age 30-35, *melielove writes:

nice to meet u everyone. i am a japanese and my boyfriend is foreigner. i have some problem now...give me some advice. but i have to say first, sorry if my english is wrong.

well we've been long distance relationship in 2 years. recently my boyfriend is too busy for work. it seems he doesn't have time for me....

and he doesn't say "i love you", until i say it first.

everytime i ask him. it's really hurt me.

he doen't say any sweet words to me. i don't see that he loves me....

i told him about this. but he doen't change everytime.

he says "i'm busy please understand it!", but i wonder that he really doesn't have time to make one phone call or text message. honestly he usually reply me once a week even he log in facebook. don't u think it's little bit strange?

i don't know what should i do now....really confused...

please help me and give me some advice!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 September 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt2 years LDR... and he's BUSY and you are always the one rowing the boat (meaning you are the one that says I LOVE YOU and you are the one that makes contact first)....

he's not as in to you as you are into him....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011):

Hi, to be honest if he loves you why would he not want to text you, he managed to text you "i'm busy please understand it!", why couldnt he text you saying he loves you. No one is busy at work all day, he could just text saying i love you when on break or a day when he is travelling to work or before bed.

Your better off with someone else, i know it may hurt you but, he obviously isnt interested as he could text, email, facebook, phone at any time ewhich doesnt take seconds.

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