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Will I lose him? Can LDR work? How do I keep the spark between us alive?

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Question - (19 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half. We're completely and utterly in love and have been since the day we met. We were each other's firsts and he hasn't had much luck with ladies before me. That is to say, I'm his second girlfriend and his first girlfriend wasn't a good one and it lasted for weeks. We have never really argued, we just bicker over little things and then all of our bickering turns into fits of laughter. He says he wants to marry me when we're older (We're only 18).

Thing is, he's going off to University in two weeks and I'm worried that I'm going to lose him and lose us. He'll be 2.5 hours away by car. He says we'll see each other every other weekend and that he'd never ever cheat on me. But I just can't stop myself thinking that he will. And I know that if he did it wouldn't be with just anyone, it would be with someone he really cared about and then we'd be finished.

He also wants to talk to me everyday on the phone or on skype while he's gone.

So my question is, do you think it can work long distance? And what can I do to keep the spark going and to keep us together long distance?

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A female reader, missy.x United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2011):

well you obviously love each other and he wants to talk and see you which is good, but think of it both ways he might be thinking the same talk to him about it discuss your worries about the relationship dieing and about him finding someone else, he seems like an easy guy to talk to and if you get this out in to the blue im sure you will feel heeps better good luck!

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