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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I got my sis to speak to my wife about sending money to another man. Now she says I can thank my sis for her dirvorcing me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone...im in alot of confusion and disbelief... ok so on monday the 26th my wife used my credit card to send money to some guy names Ivan...so i texted my 2 of my sisters and asked them to ask her what was going on cause i tried texting ...

We are not exclusive..so how can I get to the point of being able to date other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Hello, everyone. I've been seeing this guy on and off for just under a year, and we've had some issues. He's very apt to spend days, sometimes weeks without calling me or seeing me, and this is a long distance relationship, so talking daily means ...

We want to exchange naked pictures to take care of our sex drives

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Should I send my boyfriend naked pictures of myself? I am abroad this semester and he will be abroad next semester, and we are trying to think of ways to deal with our sex drive without being with other people. We are dedicated to doing this. He ...

Could my harmless flirting lead to sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I have a long distance email friendship with a woman I used to work with. Every week we exchange emails. I tease her pretty hard just as I did when we worked together. I kind of think she's attracted to me but we often call each other "friend" as ...

He is gone, and I'm falling apart, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - i have been invovled with a guy for almost 2 years. and i just found out he is moving to another state thats far away. and i am fallin apart. i have gotten close to him and i dontknow what to do. how can i cope with this?he may never come back. does ...

I love this girl with my whole heart how can I rekindle those flames of love with in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok here is the deal. I got into an online relationship with this most WONDERFUL girl in my life. I went and saw her for about 3 weeks, but I had issues with giving her the right attention. So I decided to make a change. Months later she came to see ...

Long-distance, is it really worth the wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Long story short- we met a few months before college. Everything seemed perfect, until it was time to leave. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. Finding a good time to visit eachother is rare. Half of the time plans ...

I thought I wouldn't hear from him once he moved back home on the other side of the country, but he keeps in touch and I'm starting to like him, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I met a guy that was here for a training class. He was here for 3 weeks and the last week and a half we slept together every night. He would kiss me on the forehead goodnight and then kiss me goodbye in the morning. I thought it was kind of wierd ...

In the beginning we talked alot and he told me how much he missed me and now when I IM him he doesn't reply.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - This summer I went to Dominican republic and fell in love with a guy who works at my grandparents. We kissed, snuck out to the beach, it was amazing. ( I'm 13, we didn't have sex) I go there every summer so we said our goodbyes and see ya next ...

It hurts to hear about her ex all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hey guys, you can call me boi, im 24 this year. my problem is... i met this girl on facebook around august last year, and we connected immediately. We started chatting and sending each other messages.. seemed like she had a problem with her ...

Any romantic ideas for Valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Myself and my girlfriend have been in an online relationship for over a year now, and I decided that this valentines day, I want to do something drastic, and travel to her country and surprise her with something romantic and une...

What am I supposed to do for Valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's note: post edited for clarity.] my bf moved to washington recently and im mad because valentines day is comin up and he hasnt come back yet and i wanna spend it with him but i cant he's tryin to come back but he has no money for a grey...

I'm afraid I will never love again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - im afraid i will never love again, truly love again. im over my ex, hes a completely different person than what he was before so all i have left is just the illusion of what was. ive been dating this guy for about 6 months roughly but weve been ...

Can a long distance relationship really survive six years, only seeing each other twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend coming up on four years, he is in an apprenticeship and I am studying at university. We see each other twice each year, typically spending a month or so together each visit, and then fly ...

I'm running out of ideas for sexy surprises for my long distance boyfriend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi Im 21 and im currently involved in long distance relationship we dated for 2 years and he had to go away for school. Since we talk online we do lots of little sexy surprizes for each other and i run out of ideas! Help please!thank u!...

I'm really falling for him but I'm terrified he'll get over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I (both 22) have been dating about 5 months. Things are going pretty well, he said he loved me three wks ago, but we don't talk as much as I would like. We can only really see each other twice a week (because of hour distance btwn ...

LDR: where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Just met with a woman for the second time in two months. She's from Russia, I live in Hungary. She has a 9 year old boy, she is 27 and I have a 6 year old girl, I am 40. I like her a lot. We have made love, slept in the same bed. We hold hands to...

Will she be weak and cheat again in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 3.5 years has just cheated on me. I am trying to think if I should forgive her because I am seeing her side and wonder if it is my fault as well. He is the story: We are in a long distance relationship for 3.5 years now, as I work i...

BF wants our LDR to become an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my guy for over 8 yrs now..since like school days....but it has always been a long distance relationship.. when we started i used to look very pretty and was a very confident girl....n he found this very attracti...

The end of a fine romance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - The end of a fine romance?? I've been in this relationship for 3 years of which he last two years its been a long distance haul of 520 miles round trip (due to family commmitments), I try and visit every 3 weeks. Last summer for fun, I google...

How exactly do I have phone sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Okay my problem is my long distance girlfriend and I have been having cybersex for a while now. Well now shes Wanting to move on to Phone sex she says cyber is good and all its just she can't hear my voice she wants to hear my moans as im getting ...

I am in a LDR and pregnant and jealous of my b/f's female friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 37 years old, I've been married once before for almost 10 years but am now divorced. In June of last year, I met someone on-line who lives in the States (I live in Canada) and we've been dating ever since. In July, I got preg...

I don't tell my boyfriend about my problems as I don't want him to think I cannot handle things!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I miss my boyfriend a lot when he goes back to school. He occassionally comes back on the weekend, but I just feel so distant from him even though we try to talk at least once a day. I support him as much as I can so I don't let on to how much I m...

Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work. I've hung out with this girl who i like a lot and shes told me that she likes me a lot, thinks im cute but she's busy and lives 1 hour away and thinks that it would be too hard to d...

Should I finish with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives in Bulgaria and I am in the UK. We have always been planning for me to join him in Bulgaria and we decided once he had a steady job there and somewhere for us to ...

Older man or younger guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I am soon turning 26 and would like to make some stable,serious choices concerning my life. I have been dating an older man aged 54 for 4 years. I was eventually tired of a distant relationship etc and decided to break things off.We split a y...

Is it because of him or is it because of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for little over a year now, and we both live in different states. He's a really nice guy and he visits regularly, and we always talk on the phone. Recently he just admitted to me that towards the middle of last year, ...

My long distance relationship girlfriend doesn't want to share he problems with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - Hi there, so me and my gf have been in a Long distance relationship for about a month and 18 days now, but recently something really strange happened last week. I called and texed her but she didn't reply or call back (which she usually does). i...

Their extra contact makes me uncomfortable... am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I will ask in advance that you please don't judge my relationship because of it's settings, it is a real relationship. I met him online! We have been in an exclusive relationship now for a year and we have visited each other 3 times during this ...

Should I confess everything to my husband?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...

Should I divorce my long distance wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - Hie.. I just got married about a month ago and I am already thinking about separation. The reason behind it is that i do not think my wife is a good wife. We hhad a history where were were dating for about a year and broke up due to commitmant is...

He's moving 9 hours from me... will this relationship still work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years. because of our families and backgrounds we have had to move to different countries for university. neither of us are ready to let go and we are hoping to see each other during holidays but ...

Why does he still contact me after we parted ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, then he moved to another city. I liked him more than he liked me, and I'm having trouble getting over him even though it's been months. So I do the right thing, try not to contact him, but if I go longer than a week wit...

We met online by accident, and now we are talking of meeting up some place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello, So this is a first for me. I started talking this guy online some, basically by accident, and we have talked more and more, spending hours on the phone, texting, and web cam. Hours and hours on web cam. It's unusual that I would get involv...

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if ...

I think I am emotionally unattached...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend live about four hours away from each other. Our relationship was physical before we became official bf gf... and everything was great. we only first had sex like 3 weeks before we actually got together. I really enjoy talking to ...

I have no life, feeling like a useless girlfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have just got back from traveling together for a year and i have never felt such a come down as i have right now, i was used to being with him everyday, feeling like a proper couple, enjoying cooking ...

My LDR can be really nasty to me sometimes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I could do with some advice please. I don't know what to do right now about my life and relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months and i thought everything was going as well as it could be. We are technically in a...

Finally, I am going to meet my LDR but he is worried about his sexual inexperience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I leave to visit my LDR for 3 months in Africa next Monday (yaay!!). I'll spare you all of the other details of our relationship except to say that we're both open to sex if the right time comes. ...but here's the thing--one moment he's exci...

My LDR isn't meeting my needs so I've started talking to another guy I met online in another state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I am 27 yrs old. I have been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. I have known my boyfriend (he is younger than me) for several years (as friends) before moving and of course our relationship blossomed once we were 1000 miles ...

My boyfriend no longer loves me. Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of six months told me yesterday that he thought we were going to to fast. In myself I knew we were, I mean he asked me to marry him a day into our relationship and we were having phone sex before we knew each others name (we met ...

Does it sound like our relationship is steady

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a kind of wierd relationship atm, i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 23 (just turned), we've been fighting over alot of silly things lately and we've had to repair our relationship multiple times recently. first a quick background I met this gir...

He's so in love with me he can't be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I'm almost twenty years old, I've never had a real relationship. The only guy that has shown interest in me my whole life has the unfortunate honor of having a nickname with "Icky" in it. I'm not attracted to him, I'm not sure if he knows it, but I ...

Dating the ex's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) - So I dated a girl starting last july and was in a long distance relationship with her till about Nov. I didn't really seeing it going anywhere so I ended it. She would take me over to her friends a lot and we became good friends. About a month after ...

She taken and lives far away..and I really like her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Here's my story. A year ago, I was dumped for the 3rd time by my girlfriend, which happily ended what was, I realise it now, a disastrous relationship. We were only together for 6 months and long distance (she's English and she lives in France ...

How do we get that 'naughty' spark, back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ive been in a long-term long-distance relationship for over 3 years. We've had our share of challenges including trying to keep our sex life heated up. Our sex life has not been great for more than a year now. The distance keeps us apart for weeks ...

I'm curious about this guy but I don't have a crush. What do I do?

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11 January 2010 (F) - So, I'm in a bit of a strange situation I guess. I've been home for the winter break. It's only about 45 min. away from the university that I attend but with no car and the fact that I haven't driven in over a year, it seems like a long way. I live ...

How can I 'turn on' without my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I'm not really into masturbating..every time i try i cant seem to get myself off, it just doesn't seem to work for me...ever since I've had a boyfriend i cant do anything without him! we have a long distance relationship at the moment so its even ...

Do I really have feelings for her?

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10 January 2010 (M) - its a long distance...i have been with this girl for over 2 years now....we are kind of soulmates and are life lines for each other...if one of us moves away, the other becomes a dead body alive....literally speaking........now i am in a fix whether ...

Best way to dump a sensitive long distance boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hi. Recently I figured I really need to break up with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship from the start, and although I've been able to handle it quite well so far, lately it's really been getting into me. We have been t...