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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend live about four hours away from each other. Our relationship was physical before we became official bf gf... and everything was great. we only first had sex like 3 weeks before we actually got together. I really enjoy talking to him and he is very sweet... but i think that he is more into me than i am into him. He is always saying how much he is falling for me and that he likes me more and more all the time. But i am just not having the crazy feelings for him that i once had. He was my first sex partner and i guess what im wondering is, is it possible that because i slept with him that i couldnt make the emotional bond and that now it is just physical? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 January 2010):
You might be right that you aren't as attached. Your relationship so far is built upon sex, rather than emotion. So my advice would be for you both to sit down and really get to know each other. Go out on dates and such, and see where it leads.
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