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writes:I am 27 yrs old. I have been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. I have known my boyfriend (he is younger than me) for several years (as friends) before moving and of course our relationship blossomed once we were 1000 miles away from each other. I have honestly never had more security from a relationship in my life since he is always coming to see me to spend time with me. We even talk, text, and email tons of times each day too. It doesn't feel like we are really ever too far apart from each other. He has been trying to move here for almost a year and has had no luck finding a job yet, which has kind of left me a little hopeless at this point. Also, when we are together, I have noticed that he is not meeting my needs emotionally and sexually anymore. Him and I have discussed this tons of times because on one end he says he loves me and misses me all the time, but when he's with me it's different. I always tell him that for the two of us being in this for so long and feeling how we do, we should be all over each other when we see each other. I have explained that I need him to be more sexual and show me how he feels when we are together. Months of talking and discussing have gone by, and he still does not try. I basically have stopped trying to see what would happen and nothing has changed. About a month ago I went onto a website and I met a guy who also lives far away from me (and ironically he's also younger). Started chatting simply and as of right now I can see this new "thing" just slowly blossoming. He compliments me, says sweet things, and meets my emotional needs entirely. He is my complete opposite as far as our lifestyles, but I can't remember the last time a guy has made me feel so beautiful on the inside and out. I'm caught in tough decision/situation and I know its wrong and I should have never gone browsing around but at the same time, I feel whole again even thought its not from one person. I need some feedback on this.....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Quit with both these guys. You'll have the same problem with the next one if it's another LDR. You need a guy closer to you, because it's clear LDR's aren't really suitable for you. I think you'd be better meeting guys closer to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Do you live in a place where there are no men whatsoever?
Why do you go 1000 miles for an LDR when you could have a R with the guy down the block?
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