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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

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He said it's not me and not personal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - My 38 year old boyfriend of a year is a bit introvert and was dyslexic and I suspect slightly ADD. He gets very focused on work and projects at his house. He shows me he cares with practical things. I'm struggling to feel wanted and cherished wh...

He hates sex, I stopped trying to initiate, now he says I neglect him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - MOD NOTE: Question asker is aged 60. Hi there. Any help/suggestions for my situation? My man is almost completely impotent....very affectionate, lots of pecks and hugs, but no passionate kissing, and a real fear of sex...whether he's afrai...

I broke it off with him and wonder if my feelings of anger are normal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some reassurance about the stage I'm at in ending a relationship. Please don't judge me, it's honestly been very hard. I became physically ill due to the stress of living with a binge drinker. I was with him for nea...

I've reconnected with the ex but he's much different now. Will there be a rainbow after the storm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hello and thanks I dated a guy 15 years ago and we reconnected. Our relationship was great back then we got along well, he was very good to me, and we loved eachother very much. He was kind, sweet and funny. WE were both young and we mutually deci...

Is it natural to get so anxious about dating? What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Why do I get crippled with anxiety as soon as the possibility of anything romantic rears its head? As a person I am perfectly together and happy, I have had three past relationships so it's not as if I'm completely inexperienced, and for a long ...

They say my appearance is "exotic" I'd rather be ordinary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - So I'm 6'ft ,with very dark skin and slender Lately I've been given the title "exotic" by my friends and even by strangers I meet. I get told I'm beautiful and pretty and so on but every girl gets that. I never take these terms seriously becaus...

A three way kiss? Do I tell my Bf? He tends to hurt me when he gets mad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 February 2015 (?) - Ok so basically I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. We are happy enough, don't really feel butterflies that much any more but we do love each other and he cares about me dearly as I do him. We have fun together and he is my bes...

How could I go about asking her out but at the same time help her feel comfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3564 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - A girl who I like and want to ask out has just revealed to me today that she has Social Anxiety really badly. As much as I want to ask her out, I don't want to make anything uncomfortable for her. Over text she can talk for hours but to my face ...

My uncertainties are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year. We usually only see each other at weekends bbecause of work commitments on both parts but sometimes we get chance through the week, though this is not often. The trouble is, I think I'm obsessed...

When I get depressed I rely too heavily on my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - The past 6 months or so I've been extremely depressed (tried medications, therapy, etc), and I've become clingy and overly dependent on my boyfriend. I know it's not healthy and I know it's not fair to him -- he has been so amazing and always t...

How do I explain to his parents why mine wont be at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I haven't ever really been close to my parents, and I left home as soon as I could aged 16. I moved away from my hometown 4 years ago and haven't really seen my parents other then family parties ever since. I guess a lot of it is my bad relations...

Husband has apologised and wants me back, but I haven't changed since I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I left my husband because he had a problem with my body and would make comments. Mainly about loose skin ( dr says its as good as it will ever be again short of surgery which I'm not doing ) from babies and my breasts sagging , the general aging ...

Orgasm clarification please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm. Everything I read and everyone I talk to always says "you'll just know if you have one." I'm sick of hearing that because it doesn't help me at all. I'd like to know for sure if I'm having one. I'm genuinely ...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

My husband puts his parents before me and it hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi everybody, I had a lump followed by pain in my breast so I asked my husband to take me to the doctors. We went and then that doctor scheduled me for an ultrasound which was three weeks after that. Come the morning of that appointment my husband ...

Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...

So many broken promises from my Bf. After 4.5 years how do I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Modnote: some graphic language removed from post, without changing the meaning. . . . . . . . . . . I am so sick of the rubbish that comes out of my boyfriend's mouth. I'm at my breaking point and want OUT of this relationship. I'm miserable with h...

I'm about to get married, and my fiancé has started to smoke weed- how do I deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I began dating my now fiancé 7 years ago when we were 18. We both had very strong Catholic morals, including both being extremely against any form of smoking. Well, I found out he has lied to me for over a year and has started to smoke weed on ...

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...

My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heav...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

He's in jail and was my wild Bf. How can I help him without it becoming a relationship agani?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - I have recently split up with my boyfriend but I'm really confused about what to do. I was in a relationship for 8 years with a guy who was really quite boring, we had nothing in common and my life was a bit mundane. After I split up with him...

What can we do to work through the issues that impact on us as a couple due to her parents prejudice against disabilities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - first off, i have a disability which impacts me physically. it's nothing serious and i can live a normal life, but with some minor limitations. ok, so i've been dating this absolutely amazing girl. she fully understands my limitations, and...

I really want to get to know her, but need some effective strategies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - I'm a 20-year-old university student studying Psychology in London. Recently I have been able to get back into lectures after being off for nearly a month with a chest inefection and intermittent bouts of depression. Prior to that, I have always ...

What do I about the woman I can't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - i have no idea what to do! a week ago, i began a course and on it are some great people. but one of them i really like. the issue is she is engaged. i am usually slow to trust people and even once i trust people, am never comfortable with them. i ...

Pills and periods?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to get some input or thoughts from any ladies. I have been on different birth control pills over the years. Since I have been on the pill, I never get my period. Do you find this as well on the pill or is this actually not nor...

I am a failure, with no ambition or plan .............

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - I don't know how to be/live positively when I can't find/see any positive or redeeming features in myself. The only way I can encourage myself to do something is by bringing myself down and disparaging myself. for example I went to the gym and kept ...

Why can't I stay focused on my weight loss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - Dear cupid,I have a slight weight issues doctor told me I am at risk for health issues.I have been literally dying in side to lose this weight even before I went to the doctor.I love myself big or small I'm not in denial I just can't understand why ...

I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....

How do guys really feel about stretch marks?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - I've been reading on this website for the past couple of months and I've noticed a lot of posts concerning stretch marks lately. It's got me thinking a lot. I've always been pretty confident with my body but I do have tons of stretch marks. I...

Does anyone have any experience with Body Dismorphia Disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

13 February 2015 (M) - Hi, Does anyone have any experience of Body Dismorphia Disorder (BDD)? My female friend is incredibly attractive but finds it extremely difficult to date anyone. Only recently she admitted to me when she wad drunk that she suffers from bdd. I...

I let myself go and am not quite sure how to get myself back together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - I just turned 21 and I've seriously let myself go. Basically I was abused and it got really bad when I was 17. The person is no longer able to hurt me and I've been to counselling but I sort of regressed into a frightened shell of a person and ...

I'm a classic introvert, have friends but often turn down or regret going to do things with them. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, This is not relationship related, but a personality related question. I am an artist and a classic introvert. I love interacting genuinely getting to know people in the hope to learn something from them.. I don't do well in groups...

Should we allow my mother in law to babysit our very young child while our m I l appears to be drinking alcohol to get drunk regularly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I think my mother in law drinks (commercial product/mouth wash) to get that drunk feeling instead of wine. My m.i.l. babysits my 6 month old baby, and she always had a drinking problem, she drinks wine everyday, until we asked her to stop because ...

She insisted on condoms but should I still get checked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

12 February 2015 (M) - I had a fling with a girl ssix months ago, and we only had sex three times. We always used a condom, she was very insistent on this and even had them with her. Lately ive learned she has a bad reputation and has slept with a lot of people. I am ...

I cry everyday and want to be happy again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years now. He is 25 and I am 26. Our relationship was long-distance for about eight months before he moved across the country to be with me. Everything about...

How can I stop being so self conscious of my body in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - I was diagnosed with PCOS about a year ago after years of weird symptoms. I gain weight very easily, I have skin issues such as acne on certain areas of my body, hyper pigmentation and discoloration in certain areas... I get skin tags on my breasts, ...

My boyfriend broke my hymen but we did not have sex. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1071 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - please i am a virgin but my boyfriend put his penis on the tip of my virginal. it did not hurt me but suddenly my hymen broken and bleed but we did not have sex. please am i a virgin?...

Should I start dressing like a frumpy mom?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - So, I am almost 35 and "look 18", according to my husband (and all the men at the office, ew). I apparently have an "innocent look", despite the fact that I wear makeup and don't go with the trends, I have my own distinct style. Thanks to my genes, ...

I've lost respect for my friend who's standards are, I find, different to mine. How should I respond to her revelations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - okay this is my first question on here so we'll see how this goes. Okay, a night ago my friend was seeking advice on which guy she should date and how they were giving her mixed signals. (She trying to decide between one guy who is in it for sex but ...

Shall I contact the girl my BF is messaging to get her side of the story?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - Hi Almost 4 years ago I found out that my boyfriend was sending messages to another girl behind my back. The messages hinted that there was something going on. I have found out more recently that the girl visited his home but at the time he ...

Should I have been tested for chlamydia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'd like some advice please. I am currently trying for a baby for a year and I have made an appointment with my OB gyne and my husband has already done a semen analysis, and we will find out the results at the appointment. Anyhow, I do a ...

I have a fear of being made a fool of and my behaviour is spiralling out of control!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - Help me! Some things I will tell you I am so ashamed of so please do not be too harsh on me. I need to figure out what kind of help I need. I have deep rooted trust issues, I have a fear of being made a fool of. I'm suspicious and paranoid. Hyperv...

She needs to realise I wanted to help her, but she didn't want it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

8 February 2015 (M) - Hi Cupid I need a way to tell a friend off respectfully due to their certain contant behaviour to show that I have put my self respect down for her and I have been trying to help her, but, instead of even replying let alone appreciation, she's tr...

My girlfriend can do better, but she wont go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

7 February 2015 (M) - Hi there, I would like an honest answer please. I am 27 year old man, my girl friend is 21, shes gorgeous and I am the only guy she ever dated. Just before we started dating I started losing hair, hence I decided to treat it. I was prescribed a ...

I'm depressed that my husband, like other men in my past, prefers smaller breasts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - I see a lot of women write in worried about their small breasts but I have the opposite problem. I have large breasts and every man who I have been with including my long term marriage has preferred smaller breasts and not been at all interested in ...

What are some options, considering that my wife doesn't show me any affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

7 February 2015 (?) - I have been stewing with this problem for a while and it just won't go away. I am married with two children and in most respects happy, apart from one thing, the physical side of the relationship. I don't just mean sex, I mean kissing, cuddlin...

Walking on egg shells. Am I falling out of love with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 13 years. He is generally a good man but he is not easy to live with. All along he has had problems with light substance abuse, anxiety, anger management issues, borderline personality disorder (which i...

I love him and I'm helping him with health issues, but is there someone else? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3581 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I have been staying with my boyfriend for 5weeks since he was diagnosed of high sugar level, just cos I thought he need me to choose the right foods and psychologically. So far, the improvement has been so wonderful. I started noticing some sha...

I'm afraid I'll bore him to death! How do I make myself more interesting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - I'm seeing this guy,, I know him very well now, and I'm pretty sure it's a relationship, or about to be. He's mentioned to other's I'm his girl, his friends call me his girl or he is my man or that I am with him. They treat us like a couple. Well, ...