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36-40,
*ionsavanah
writes:Hi there, I would like an honest answer please. I am 27 year old man, my girl friend is 21, shes gorgeous and I am the only guy she ever dated. Just before we started dating I started losing hair, hence I decided to treat it. I was prescribed a drug called Propecia, soon after taking the pills, i started experiencing severe erectile dysfunction. My doctor has advised its a sign of permanent sign. Nowadays I feel completely worthless, hairless and penisless. I am not able to go out without wearing a hate. It affects me so much to a point that I do not even want to go out. I was depressed and at times i felt pointless living but I have goals, one of my goal is to now practice mediation and completely dedicate my life to this. I sometimes feel like my girlfriend can do better. She's gorgeous, poetry in motion, she constantly get asked out by alot of guys at school. I honestly feel like i am wasting her time. She rejects everyone and shes completely ok with the fact that i have this persistent issues. But i feel bad everyday. I honestly i feel like I am wasting her time. I have decided to be single my I continue to experience this problem but she does not want that. she wants to be with me. I do not know what to do. Please help.Thanks
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (9 February 2015):
 Let me say this with all due respect...You are a DUMBASS!!! Now let explain...You sir have a "gorgeous, poetry in motion" girl, who "constantly get asked out by alot of guys at school", but turns them down for a "worthless, hairless and penisless." guy like you...She must be so annoying. How many men out there who are in wheel chairs, disabled, have cancer, or other issue far worse than yours, that would love as much as a hug from your girlfriend or any woman? How many of them would trade places with you, just knowing a woman is willing to stand by them through thick and thin, for better or worse? But instead of seeing the true beauty of your girlfriend, you are willing to give her up, so you can spend your time being depressed. WOW!!!I "Lionsavanah" choose to give up on love, and invite sadness and depression into my life. I choose to give up the best thing in my life at the moment, to live in misery....You go right ahead sir. Let see how that works for you. Because everyone knows sadness and depression always make things better. Yes sir.Do you understand that life has challenges to make you stronger? Everyone on this Earth has his or her own challenge that they must face. Your girlfriend challenge now is to love a man who does not love himself, and to stay with someone who pushes her away. There is a true saying "If you are weak in a crisis, you are weak indeed."Now go and thank your girlfriend for being one of the few. Because many other women would have left you long ago...that would have felt awesome right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2015): Dude... stop taking the drug then and let yourself go bald with grace. Baldness is monolithically male anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2015): This post breaks my heart because I know how you're feeling and it absolutely sucks. You have to remember that she's with you because she *wants* to be. She loves you despite everything you're going through. That's the kind of love most people long for, unconditional love, someone to love and care about you during the worst of times. This isn't really a "girlfriend" problem. This is *your* problem and how you're feeling about yourself. If you can't pull yourself out of this funk and really feel like being single is the way to go, then do that for yourself but don't break this girls heart (who loves you that much for who you are) just because you *think* she can do better. She has better, you, and you may not understand it but she's right where she wants to be. I truly hope this works out for you. xx
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