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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Could this be true? My friend is trying to convince me that "yes, this guy does love me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Alright so I have a slight problem. There is this guy that I really like... He and I have just met at the start of grade 10 and We've somehow become really close, we talk a lot, and we walk home together everyday, or when we can. Recently about two ...

This mean girl in my class insulted my friend about her weight, and now my friend wants to starve herself to be able to lose 30 pounds by the end of the month!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4768 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Today's Halloween, and so my school had this contest on who could come to school in the best costume. Like 90% of the people in my school dressed up, including me, but that's besides the point. I have a friend who's a bit overweight, but ...

I've developed feelings for my girlfriend's amazing new best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i ...

Is this culture shock?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Hello! Well...I am a latin woman (south american) who likes and enjoy going out. I love dance and have fun with people. I am living in US for almost 4 years now. Last weekend I went out with a friend of mine. She is american and we went to a very ...

Caught in-between my boyfriend and my best male friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I'm currently in a very messy situation, and I'm not quite sure what to do about it... Lately, it's been really hard to make time to spend time with my boyfriend. When I'm busy he usually has something important to do, and vice versa, so I'm lu...

Is she already interested in another? I like her. but now I feel lost and have a sickening feeling inside

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - ok, here is my problem. I started college just over a month ago and in my first week met a really attractive, smart girl who happened to be doing the same course as me. We exchanged phone numbers and got on really well together, often chatting f...

My bf is convinced I'm in love with my friend (which I'm not!) and now he wants to speak to my friend's pregnant and emotional wife to see how she feels about our friendship!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (I will name "Ned") for about 17 years. "Ned" broke up with me about two and a half years ago saying I wasn't "the one" and he wanted to find her and didn't want to waste more time with me. I had wanted to get ...

After everything why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I was messing around with a guy for about 11 months. He was actually my friend before it began. At the beginning he was sweet, complimented me and all that, but at the same time he was messing around with other girls. I wasn't tripping because he ...

Has anyone been through a situation like this...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4752 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I had a friend back in school (8 years ago to be precise). We were really close and good friends but didn't date. Over the last couple of years, we've been in contact, at times 3 months apart. Thing is, I think about him a lot and I feel he does ...

Does my friend have an abusice dad? Would I be abandoning her if I went to take my A levels at a new school or is that the best option?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I love my best friend, she's like my sister when we hang out but her parents are so controlling, I feel like she trapped. when we were little my friend discovered she had cancer, we were only about 5 at the time but i remember it very clearly,...

Does he like me? Or am I jumping to conclusions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I know I may be jumping to conclusions, but, there's this guy in my a few of my classes. Actually only 1st and 4th. Anyway, he has a girlfriend, and she's in my 1st and 3rd period and whenever I am near her she gives me these dirty looks for NO ...

Should I add a one night stand to facebook when I would like him to be a FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - so I slept with my friend's friend yesterday and would like to be fwb with him. I didn't know why, but I didn't give him my number when he asked to exchange numbers.. probably too drunk.. anyway, the only way I could contact him is through ...

I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...

Where is this friendship going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - i met a really nice man 13 years ago when he was going thru a divorce we eventually had a relationship for a short while but it didn't work out for him although i was in love with him very much. We split up for about a year, he met someone else but ...

Why would a woman refuse to do a DNA test to prove to him that he is the father, if she was certain that he was the father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I had a friend ask me for advice and I was just wondering if I can some other people's ideas before giving him any advice. My friend had a one night stand with a girl (I know for certain it was not a relationship, just a once off) anyway a few ...

My friend likes me but I don't have the same feelings. Should I go out on one date with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm sure this is gonna sound really pathetic and that the answer is obvious but here anyway. There's a guy who likes me I mean really likes me. We are friends so when he asked for I my number I thought nothing of it, he misinterpreted this that I ...

Anyone ever been told their friendship wasn't valuable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (?) - Has anyone here ever had the experience where a close friend (or partner or family member) tells them directly that they don't think their friendship is valuable? I've had a very a close friend of 8 years say she felt that our friendship was "no ...

True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...

Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...

I really need advice on making friends please? guys tell me I'm "intimidating" but I don't see how I can be intimidating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi there. This isn't so much of a "love" question as it is more just "how to meet people/make friends" kind of question. I seem to have a really hard time making friends. This isn't something new. All through school I only had a couple friends I wo...

Should my husband go out to bars so often without me? Or should he consider me more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - For the past year my husband has been going to the bars with his friends about twice per month. He stays until the bar is closed. I was ill for a few months and never wanted to go out when he asked (not that I could, because we don't have a baby...

Did I do anything really wrong? B did have a gf, though in the past we had some major chemistry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - What would a guy think? I met this one guy X after I met his friend, B. I knew B for four years and he had a thing for me but I was always unsure of my feelings. I decided to go for B after a year of not seeing him. We talked for a while when I g...

How do I ensure I don't mess up this relationship? I've had a track record of having a crush on a new guy every single year.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Dear Everybody who reads this, I am an idiot. For as long as I can remember I've had a track record of having a crush on a guy every single year. If I got over one, I'd get one as soon as the new year came around. When I was younger I was really i...

Is my proposed celibacy solution workable? And any tips on helping me get over this intense amount of regret/shame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 15 years old. I have given two guys bjs, and I am soooo ashamed. I regret all of it, and i feel sick whenever i think about it. I feel like i am a bad kid. However, I am in a relationship right now (although he says he doesn't care about phys...

Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...

Do I wait and see? How do I find out whether or not she is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I feel I'm inaccurately reading signs she's giving off. I'm not sure whether she is playing hard to get or just isn't as interested as I am in her. How do I go about this? Do I approach her and ask her if she is into me? Do I wait and see how thi...

Fickle? what can I do? It took me courage to ask. She said yes. Then she just changed her mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - Hey peoples So here's the deal. Recently I told a girl that I really like her and she responded with the answer I had hoped for. Everything was great we made a plan to meet up and talk about things and see where things go, but 2 days late...

We were good friends. Does she have a lot on her mind maybe, and just doesn't want to talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have been best friends with my friend for almost a year now. We became really close really fast. We were inseparable and up until about a week ago i thought we still were. we texted every single day and talked on the phone almost every night. When...

Do I need to change my actions? Being nice to socially awkard boys is making them think I like them when I don't at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - So, at school, I try to be nice to everybody and I hate hurting people's feelings. I never gossip or talk behind people's backs. When there is someone sitting alone, I sit with them. If someone looks sad, I smile at them. But these habits are ...

Ex is ruining my high school life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Hey, Dearcupid. I'm really sorry about the length of this, but I desperately need some help. I broke up with my girlfriend of 26 months recently because she cheated on me THREE TIMES IN ONE NIGHT and still had the nerve to get angry at me for ...

Help! I don't want to lose my best friend over this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Okay so first off let me start by saying that my best friend has been dating her boyfriend for almost 4 years.. and they live together. So a few weeks ago her and this junior were flirting and stuff and they ended up having a thing.. her boyfriend ...

Bit of an anti climax...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, ...

I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you ...

Is it normal to feel lonely close to 30? All my friends are married and presumably happy. But they don't talk to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Hi I just remembered that once upon a time, a few years ago, I used to have friends I could pick up the phone and talk to, but now I have none, and it really isn't my fault that I don't - just that, choices were made by them. And I went far away, an...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

Is he worth the wait to date? He's 17. Or should I just move on? He only wants to talk about sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Ok so there's this guy, I've liked him for about 4 months. His name is X and we met at a battle of the bands back in January. In June we started texting and getting to know each other. (: He turned out to be a really sweet guy, and always said cute...

Should we connect? Dont want to break his marriage but I need someone to make me laugh

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Thanks. I lost my hubby of 5 years a year and 2 month ago and i have 2 kids. just before i met my late hubby,i dated a guy i loved so much and i believed liked me for 3 months,i had to relocate some where far so we were not seeing but communic...

Given these details, do you think my friend really likes me romantically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hey! Well, here's the deal! I really like one of my best friends...? He's really nice, lovely actually, and we have had some amazing times together... Sometimes i think he likes me too. There is a lot of flirting and messing around, annoying...

I need some help to cope with what's happening now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - PLEASE HELP! Okay, well I have been to the doctors about depression and they are just saying it's harmones but I am lower then average. I have used marijuana a few times to make me feel better and use it I don't have a lot. I don't smoke it ...

Broke up with my girl, and I need advise on how to make friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

28 October 2011 (M) - Hello I am 19 year old male and I have no friends. I lost my female best friend 2 months ago and my girlfriend 3 days ago(it was a mutual agreement, she didn't dump me). I started studying economics this year and it is still hard for me to find one ...

What to do to stop feeling so lonely? I haven't felt like I've done something fun for a long time. It's getting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - It's been a while since I've had a good conversation, it's been a while since I was sure I'd make plans and they would actually follow through. It's been a while since I've had this feel as I've started college. Everyone in my class is 2 years yo...

A good friend of mine likes the same guy I do, and he asked me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I am in quite the predicament! i'm 15 years old, and me and my friend both like the same guy, M. My friend, T, doesn't know I like M, and I liked him for awhile before she told me she had liked him for a week. It made me miserable, knowing that ...

He seems weird sometimes. But I'm confused and cannot work him out. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - someone please help, I really don't know what's going on right now. last year I liked this guy, we got along amazingly, a had a bit of a thing for him. to make a long story short, I found out through mutual friends that I wasn't his type (physica...

How can I get over this, and still be friends with his brother, and not see my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I am really having a hard time getting over my ex. I met him thru his brother, aand now it feels like i have to cut his brother my friend off, because things are, well nothing is happening with us. I was doing ok with not communicating with ...

My best friend doesn't understand my problems and I feel like I hate him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - This is something that's been troubling me for so long, and it's kept me swinging back and forth from anger, resentment, guilt, and jealousy. I'm a 17 year old girl, in my last year of school, and my closest friend in school is a boy I'll call 'A...

Is a tan a turn on? Guys and girls, your thoughts on whether tan lines are a turn off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I personally think it's a bit shallow for one to complain about tan lines on their partner, but that being said, I'm one who loves to soak up the sun in summer and obviously when I'm by the pool or at the beach with my friends, I'm not going to be ...

Is it time to ask him if he likes me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connec...

Is it true that A Man can't win? Why does it seem that women are ALWAYS right? Feels like that to a guy !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - We've all heard the saying that a man can't ever win. But no-one ever explains why! So, quite simply, here it is. Women make the rules. And even if the man makes the rules, Women enforce them. For example, Have you ever had a situation that spa...

Since my friend got a boyfriend she has no time for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - This isn't really about a relationship to do with me, but it's my best friend. She's recently got a new boyfriend, they've been going out for about 2-3 months now, I've given up keeping track. We used to spend quite literally even minute of the day ...

I do have the confidence to ask a girl out. But do you think I sound likable to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I am very nice, really cool, strong, tough, funny, loyal, really sweet, a caring guy. I do have the confidence enough to ask out a girl. I'm not trying to rush in these things, when ever I meet a pretty girl I just smile and be nice. When I h...