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writes:i met a really nice man 13 years ago when he was going thru a divorce we eventually had a relationship for a short while but it didn't work out for him although i was in love with him very much. We split up for about a year, he met someone else but it didn't work out for him. We kept in touch or I kept in touch with him and after it didn't work out for him we got back together as friends and have been for the last probably 6 years. I say friends but we were having sex and being very initimate with each other. But this year I have not seen him for 4 months but kept in touch by phone/text and in this time I have did a lot of thinking about where this so called friendship is going? He did make it clear that it was just friends from the start so I take a lot of responsibility for keeping in touch but today when I seen him I had a heart to heart with him and told him how I felt that I didn't want any more sex as it is not fair on me as I was the one who loved him, but to cut the story short he understood what I was saying but then when he left he asked me if he could touch my breasts? Why would he ask that? I know he loved my boobs but at this time? We had a cuddle and I let him have a feel at my breasts then he went why he would he want to feel my breasts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2011): you are so in loved with this guy. you give a 100% of your love to him.you dont even think about yourself..you always think about him and in return, you are nothing to him..he dont deserve your love and affection..he's just using you for sex, and he knows you will not resist him because he knows you love him so much..forget this guy..i know it hurts so much..but you have to accept that this relationship will not work..find a man who truly loves you..you will not find happiness to this guy..
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2011): Thanks for the reply. Yeah u r right what u suggest I do now Tell him how I feel about touching me and explain it can't happen again or just leave it and don't make the same mistake again what do u mean he's never going to be just friends! Do u think he's just using me for sex etc or do u think he has feelings for me ? This has been going on for about 6 yrs . He does say he's likes me but likes to do his own thing.
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