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writes:Hey peoplesSo here's the deal. Recently I told a girl that I really like her and she responded with the answer I had hoped for. Everything was great we made a plan to meet up and talk about things and see where things go, but 2 days later she said that she couldn't meet up because a friend she had gotten close to over the last 6 months since her break up had asked to meet up and see if they can try.I'm really bummed out by it, the fact that we made plans to try but when something she thinks might be better comes along she dropped me like im nothinIt took a lot for me to tell her how I feel because we're friends and I didnt want things to be awkward between us, also the fact that im not all that confident with women anymore because the last few girls I was really into completely crushed me, so I dont really feel much like tryin anymoreI just dont know what to do? I really like her and she supposedly really likes meI would like some advice. Anyone willing to give it? ThanksM.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (30 October 2011):
 Hi M, I'm proud of you hun! You had the balls to ask her out and you did. The only bummer is the timing was wrong for you two that's all. Don't take it personally cos she was obviously emotionally invested in this guy before you got round to asking her out so i don't think it's in any way a reflection on you.
You may even find out later down the line that you dodged a big bullet and didn't realise it. Things happen for reasons!
You did everything right! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks:) Yeah Ive already moved on just needed to see what others thought...I have a date tonight with someone else kinda outta the blue so thats pretty good
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reader, misztoria +, writes (30 October 2011):
 I agree. Try and move on because a girl like that doesn't deserve you. She had a chose between two guys that she was friends with and she picked the other guy after you had made plans with her? No sweety, this girl doesn't know what she wants and when she comes crying back to you because that relationship didn't work, don't fall for it.
Good luck with the ladies!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): just dust yourself off and move on. it's not the end of the world. Hey, it's better that she tell you now rather than leading you on while secretly seeing other guys and then dropping you later after you've got more invested. I know it took courage to ask her out. for that you're to be commended. Don't let this erase that. I mean, she did say YES initially, that still says something.
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