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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

After everything why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I was messing around with a guy for about 11 months. He was actually my friend before it began. At the beginning he was sweet, complimented me and all that, but at the same time he was messing around with other girls. I wasn't tripping because he ...

Has anyone been through a situation like this...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I had a friend back in school (8 years ago to be precise). We were really close and good friends but didn't date. Over the last couple of years, we've been in contact, at times 3 months apart. Thing is, I think about him a lot and I feel he does ...

Does my friend have an abusice dad? Would I be abandoning her if I went to take my A levels at a new school or is that the best option?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I love my best friend, she's like my sister when we hang out but her parents are so controlling, I feel like she trapped. when we were little my friend discovered she had cancer, we were only about 5 at the time but i remember it very clearly,...

Does he like me? Or am I jumping to conclusions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I know I may be jumping to conclusions, but, there's this guy in my a few of my classes. Actually only 1st and 4th. Anyway, he has a girlfriend, and she's in my 1st and 3rd period and whenever I am near her she gives me these dirty looks for NO ...

Should I add a one night stand to facebook when I would like him to be a FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - so I slept with my friend's friend yesterday and would like to be fwb with him. I didn't know why, but I didn't give him my number when he asked to exchange numbers.. probably too drunk.. anyway, the only way I could contact him is through ...

I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...

Where is this friendship going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - i met a really nice man 13 years ago when he was going thru a divorce we eventually had a relationship for a short while but it didn't work out for him although i was in love with him very much. We split up for about a year, he met someone else but ...

Why would a woman refuse to do a DNA test to prove to him that he is the father, if she was certain that he was the father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I had a friend ask me for advice and I was just wondering if I can some other people's ideas before giving him any advice. My friend had a one night stand with a girl (I know for certain it was not a relationship, just a once off) anyway a few ...

My friend likes me but I don't have the same feelings. Should I go out on one date with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm sure this is gonna sound really pathetic and that the answer is obvious but here anyway. There's a guy who likes me I mean really likes me. We are friends so when he asked for I my number I thought nothing of it, he misinterpreted this that I ...

Anyone ever been told their friendship wasn't valuable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (?) - Has anyone here ever had the experience where a close friend (or partner or family member) tells them directly that they don't think their friendship is valuable? I've had a very a close friend of 8 years say she felt that our friendship was "no ...

True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...

Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...

I really need advice on making friends please? guys tell me I'm "intimidating" but I don't see how I can be intimidating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi there. This isn't so much of a "love" question as it is more just "how to meet people/make friends" kind of question. I seem to have a really hard time making friends. This isn't something new. All through school I only had a couple friends I wo...

Should my husband go out to bars so often without me? Or should he consider me more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - For the past year my husband has been going to the bars with his friends about twice per month. He stays until the bar is closed. I was ill for a few months and never wanted to go out when he asked (not that I could, because we don't have a baby...

Did I do anything really wrong? B did have a gf, though in the past we had some major chemistry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - What would a guy think? I met this one guy X after I met his friend, B. I knew B for four years and he had a thing for me but I was always unsure of my feelings. I decided to go for B after a year of not seeing him. We talked for a while when I g...

How do I ensure I don't mess up this relationship? I've had a track record of having a crush on a new guy every single year.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Dear Everybody who reads this, I am an idiot. For as long as I can remember I've had a track record of having a crush on a guy every single year. If I got over one, I'd get one as soon as the new year came around. When I was younger I was really i...

Is my proposed celibacy solution workable? And any tips on helping me get over this intense amount of regret/shame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 15 years old. I have given two guys bjs, and I am soooo ashamed. I regret all of it, and i feel sick whenever i think about it. I feel like i am a bad kid. However, I am in a relationship right now (although he says he doesn't care about phys...

Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...

Do I wait and see? How do I find out whether or not she is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I feel I'm inaccurately reading signs she's giving off. I'm not sure whether she is playing hard to get or just isn't as interested as I am in her. How do I go about this? Do I approach her and ask her if she is into me? Do I wait and see how thi...

Fickle? what can I do? It took me courage to ask. She said yes. Then she just changed her mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - Hey peoples So here's the deal. Recently I told a girl that I really like her and she responded with the answer I had hoped for. Everything was great we made a plan to meet up and talk about things and see where things go, but 2 days late...