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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i have the same sense of humor, we get a long great, she is more attractive than my girlfriend, and i'm really starting to like her. I've never felt jealous for my gf, i always figured i just wasn't a jealous person, but I've already felt jealous a few times when this new girl hangs out with other guys. I can't not think about her, but i can't tell if she likes me, although it's possible. not to sound conceited, but i'm more attractive than my girlfriend, a lot. and this new girl is much more on my level. When i think about it, i would much rather bring her home to meet my family than my current girlfriend (she has met my family) but i would feel more proud about being with the new girl. I can't bring myself to dump my girlfriend again. i did it once and i felt guilty and ashamed, and i second guessed myself a lot. She brings up the break up sometimes still and we fight about it even though it was a year ago. She is clingy sometimes, and doesn't like hanging out with new people. i would break up with my gf, but then i would probably lose her friend as a friend of mine, and she is one of my best friends. Please help, i have no idea what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2011): You come across as really arrogant. Beauty is subjective, so who are you to say that you're much more attractive than your girlfriend? I think you should break up with her so that she can find someone who is actually nice about her and doesn't consider himself superior in terms of looks.
If they are best friends, this girl is never going to go out with you and you would look like a jerk if you even tried to ask her out. Also, would you really do that to your girlfriend? I know you're way better than her, but she is also a person with feelings and I think you would hurt her a lot more going after her best friend than just breaking up with her.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 Wow....
Break-up with your girlfriend. It's not working out and you don't have much respect for her if you don't consider her on the same level as you.
As for her best-friend if this girl is really your girlfriend's best-friend you can forget going out with her. She would never betray her friend like that by dating you.
You really need to spend sometime being single and figure out what you want.
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