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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I broke his trust... how can I make this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happene...

Your advice is needed. I don't know what to do for the best... for me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi, Thank you for reading my email. I hope it makes sense and you can help me. Ok so i have been in a relationship for around 3 years now, we were due to get a house but broke up last Monday. It was my own fault i suppose, my girlfriend had d...

Why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (?) - I am a middle aged female. My very best friend is also a middle aged female. She say's she has had low self-esteem all of her life. What I don't understand about low self-esteem in regards to my friend, is when she thinks I am distancing myself or ...

Would having sex with her change the perameters of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old virgin. A girl I know, who is a close friend of mine, has said she will have sex with me if I want, so I can gain experience. I really like her, and I wouldn't say no, if you get me. But she's one of my closest friends ...

Why is she talking about how hot her body is after I creeped her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I was really hung up on a good friend of mine. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too but no thanks. Later I got really drunk and sent her an email about how much I liked parts of her body and how seeing her for a couple of minutes ...

How can a friend be so close and never want to talk to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My friend only talks to me when he doesn't kno its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didnt want to tll him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. ...

I dislike the way my closest friends treats me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Basically ive been close friends with a women(im female)for a couple of decades!.We would always tell each other our daily news and regulary meet up every few days. But within the past year she got a new boyfriend and all of a sudden become ...

Why do I always end up just being 'the friend' when I want more than that?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Why am I one of those guys that women want to be friends with but nothing more? Of my ten closest friends, nine are female. They all say I would be a great catch. I have asked them, seriously, what I could do to make myself more appealing but ...

Is there any way to keep out best friend relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ohkay,(this is long) well ive liked this guy alooooot since 4th grade(now in 7th). He like use to hate me but over the summer we texted and on my space my mood was "ilikehim" like most girls do, he messaged me and was all like please tell me, i wont ...

What does it mean when someone only calls you talk about their problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - When you meet someone and get into a relationship with them while they're going through a rough time, but then they finally come out of it a while after you break up (they are finally improving their life and are happier), and they used to call you ...

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school ...

The other mums are more friendly with each other than with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Let's say that I am friends with another mom through our girls since they are in the same grade at school. We don't do a lot together, but we go to our girls' events (sports, etc.) together, and I feel that we are pretty good friends. Two of th...

I don't know if this man is playing with me or not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I was in a store, around early November when I noticed this guy promoting something or another. He was vocal, to say the least, and just sooo funny. I couldn’t help but chuckle! He caught me while I was picking flowers and just stared straight at ...

How do I come out of the closet to my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - hey all, I have known I was bi for about years years but have never really told anyone about it. until i met a really cool guy who was bi as well. i later found out that he had "come out" and told his closest mates and even his parents. but my ...

I don't want people to think I'm interested in my married friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - This is a question I have about friendships with married men. I met a guy at college whom I get along with well and we have gotten to know each other more on a personal level in recent months. I'm hesitant about developing a closer friendship, ...

My college room mate asks me to stay elsewhere so she can have men over!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My college roommate has currently started sleeping around. Today she asked me if she would mind me spending the night elsewhere so she can have a boy spend the night with her. I am typically pretty good about giving her the room when she asks for it ...

A gay man hit on my wife, is that ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Ok, so my wife is a bartender and she has these two openly gay customers. These customers are always hit on by women, as I must admit they are very handsome, but never show any interest as they are 100% gay. With that being said, one of t...

I am worried about my wife going to a wild hen do with male strippers

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - One of my wife's best friends other girlfriend (not a friend of ours) got engaged then married this past summer. My wife's friend told her (and she then told me) that the bachelorette party was way out of this world. It was held at a private club ...

He treats his friends better than me, but am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, the problem is that he takes care of his friends all the time he buys things for them to eat, if they have a football game he pays for them to play, if they are short on money he helps them out! but when ...

I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - So my guy friend, who I fancy told me that he knew I liked him. I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke. I'm kind of nervous now, I don't want him to know I like him as I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...

My husband's friend keeps sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My husband's friend ,who actually, my husband has no connection with ,at he last 20 years, keep sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love. He ,the friend is in contact with this woman,and seemingly the woman probably ...

Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything? Hes a mate of mine, we dont speak much, not sure why but when we do i start it. he doesnt normally put any kisses on the end of texts so im wondering if this one meant something? (btw he sent me ...

Our friends don't have much time to socialise recently, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been friends with this other couple for maybe 5 years. In the last year we have had them over for dinner/parties maybe 4 times; they have had us over zero times but did invite us to go out to dinner with them once. My wife s...

His best friend is a woman and we are jealous of each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a BFF that he had as a child. When his wife was killed a few years ago, she reappeared. She had been a daily/hourly part of his life since the death. He and I started seeing each other last spring and she judged me from day one. I ...

I'm losing all my friends but don't think I have changed much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am going through a phase where I have absolutely nothing to say to old friends of the past. I relocated to another town almost a year and a half ago now, and slowly, especially over the last few months, have felt more disconnected fro...

Is it a bad thing that I want something to go wrong between them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I like this one guy ... A LOT , he's everything ive ever wanted , ... but hes dating someone else , QUESTION; is it a bad thing that i want something to go wrong between them , and i want them to break up ? ... beacuase i feel like a bad person...

After reading his emails I worry he's gay and I am his cover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help! im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we ...

She is so shy she might run if I approach her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ? She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'm getting mixed signals, when she'...

School, Crush, Dreams, Hopes and Fears

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy in one of my classes and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. We had to do this project and we had to ask a person questions about them and write a story. One of my questions was something like what do you want to be doing ...

What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend? She liked me at some point, but I have no clue how she feels now. I tried looking at her as just a friend, but it's impossible for me. I stopped talking to her on ...

My friend is angry that I warned her about her dangerous driving.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Today I went out in the car with one of my friends who passed her driving test about a month ago. Only 1 of the other passengers could drive as well. Basically she was driving way too fast. Dangerously fast. The two of us in the back felt uncomfor...

I don’t have a girl to talk to and to just do stupid things like gossip and go to the spa with anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I can’t even explain how much we’ve gone through together but he has always been there for me. The problem is while I was going through certain things in my life I lost pretty much all of ...

Should I choose my friends or my work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Ok im going to make it easy on my first term at school i didn't get a good grade on my report card, and this term im studying so hard that im actually getting exellent grades and my parents are really happy for that. But the problem is that ...

I have a major problem, he's my best friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Here's background knowledge: I've known this boy for several years, though i''ve only met him a few times. He's an ex of the dear friend i'm going to talk about. However, he went out twice with her before he quit it, saying that exams were far m...

I like the guy I'm dating a little, but the thing is I actually like my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm going out with a guy that is 6 years older than me. He's 19. I'ma call him LJ. So about 2 week ago we were hanging out with a group of people the whole day and by the end of the day, we were holding hands. Now, we kissed today. The thing is, ...

Is she playing games or what am I doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I really like this girl, I'm crazy about her and i know she likes me too but it seems like every time we start to get serious she backs away then she will start flirting all over again my question is... is she playing games or waiting for some ...

Why did he buy the condoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Lets call my boyfriend 'Max' My best friend 'Amber' and 'Ambers' boyfriend 'Sam' - to make things less confusing. Recently I heard from my Sam, that my current boyfriend of a week, max (Sam and max are best-friends so Sam would know) that Max r...

How can I be a better person overall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend, but I feel that he doesn't see me anymore but only sees my other friend. I have to admit, this other friend is really nice, intelligent, extremely beautiful, and I am pretty intelligent too, but my personality is not ...

I love him, he compliments her, do I need to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've known my best friend for 2 years, and I am really, really in love with him. The thing is that I get this feeling that he likes this other girl because he always compliments her beauty and intelligence in front of me. Everytinme he talks about ...

Help! Why are his friends like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.... I have a partner for quite some time.... I need your input about his friends.... even before we got together and had my housewarming his mates ignored me... even though we were housemates... went out for dinner they shut me out...

I soooo want to kiss her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I realy love my best freind and I know that she likes me as well but she is too I guess locked in what would be the correct word... I mean she won't even kiss until she's married ! were both seventeen her parents are the churchs youth group leaders. ...

Scared he will say NO!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I liked this guy we where best friends and I asked him out. To make a long story short he said no I was heart broken. Well now I like this new guy we will call him "DAN", Dan is very cute, funny and smart. I really want to ask him out but.... Im ...

Should I just ignore her and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - me and my female friend know we like each other but none of us are doing anything about it because we know that in the long run it would never work out because we are both from very different asian cultures so if we did get together it would cause ...

Funny kinda friendship?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - please help what do you guys think of the following situation:- I have known my 'friend' for the past 12 months, he stays at my house, has left some of his belongings also, we enjoy each others company, can talk openly and honestly, we kiss, hold ...

My friend sent my boyfriend love letters!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - A few months ago my boyfriend was sent love letters by a mutual friend of ours, she was his friend to start with but as we got together she became one of mine too, I was quite open with her, and told her a lot and treat her as a good friend. When I ...

Advice needed for a valentines get together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Long story short, I have a very special woman in my life. We get along great, we're the best of friends and we may be the closest person in each other's lives though we don't see each other often as it's a LDR. Before I met her, she had got...

Why do I give guys my number even although I KNOW I'm not interested???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Why do i do this? i am not a flirt im just super friendly always smiling and laughing. now when i meet a guy for the first time maybe over three times i have given out my number even though i knew i wasnt gonna do anything or i was looking for ...

I fancy him but too shy to flirt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so there's this guy who is funny, good looking, loud and just really great. Anyway, he goes to my college and for some weird reason I really like him. I talk to him when I see him and he calls me names as a joke which I love. But I can't tell ...

I can't understand why boys want me so bad???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - So im 14 and im not interested in having sex at this young of an age, ive only had 1 boyfriend, the most ive ever done with him was dance or hug, no kisses, i didnt really like him either. but i really started liking this boy recently, and he asked ...

How do I tell her I love her but can't see her anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Hi aunts and uncles. Have appreciated your advice in the past and need it again now please. Having weighed up previous advice, I now realise I can't go on with things as they are. I am in love with my best friend (who is female) and while other ...