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writes:I like this one guy ... A LOT , he's everything ive ever wanted , ... but hes dating someone else , QUESTION;is it a bad thing that i want something to go wrong between them , and i want them to break up ? ... beacuase i feel like a bad person , because i want the best for himm , and his girlfriend is my friend ( sorta ) what do i do !? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist +, writes (29 January 2010):
 Its not a bad thing at all for these thoughts to pop into your head, its perfectly natural. It would be wrong to act on them though.
As for what you can do about this; you could flirt with him and let him know that your interested. That is perfectly fair in the dating world. If he is interested in you and leaves her for you then its all fair.
Let him know and then wait to see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Well that's dangerous territory there.
It's one thing to like him and perhaps understandable that you'd wish they'd break up so you can move in but be careful to mix up fantasy with reality.
I guess they are just dating so who knows - maybe there's hope if he kinda shows interest. If He was married then I'd say fuggedaboutit.
They never leave their wives , out for a little fun but would never take it further.
But he's not. Bad that she's your friend even sorta.
Don't spend too long feeling entitled though if there's no hope. Let them be happy find your own dude. I know it sucks to be single sometimes and you want to start encroaching on what others have. It's kinda sad but Also quite common. Good Luck!!
So what will you do???
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