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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Oh no! I have a new boyfriend but am falling for his mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I fallin in love with my boyfriend's mate. I cant stop thinking about him. the relationship is new and am his first girlfriend. I need help like badly. what should a do? dump my boyfriend for his mate or forever dream about his mate?...

I don't want a sexual thing, but do crave her attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Okay, So I don't really know where to start with this. I have a friend, also a girl, and we're not the best of friends, but the way we act would make you think otherwise. We're not really into deep conversations or anything, a general cha...

I introduced two friends and they are now a couple, but she has never thanked me for it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (?) - Two of my good friends are going out. I have known him for 6 or more years, and I've known her for 4 years. She's 15 and in my year at school, he is 18 and is in his last year. Well she has been spending all of her time with him and not our litt...

I am just fed up with some of the guys I meet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Hi Ladies and men .... i have a dilemma i need some input into! I am just fed up of some of these guys i keep on meeting! So I met this guy we work near eachother and would always chat when we saw eachother (i cant really talk good to people i fancy ...

I like this man's company and would like to take it further

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I am a very shy person and work in a shop. I met this man and we statred talking. Eventually he started comming to visit me before work and we sit and have coffee together. We have a lot of things in common and enjoy each others company. We text ...

Should I wait longer for him, or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, ...

My best friend dumped now I love him and she's trying to get back on with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I know how bad being in love with your best friends ex sounds and I know people will think instantly "Don't go there. You're risking yuor friendship" but it seems different to me because SHE was the one who messed up their relationship. They'd be...

How do I help my guy friend get over being rejected by a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - ok so i'm best friends with this guy. we hang out everyday and ignore the rumors that spread. problem is, he's liked this girl for over 8 months and found out that she really doesn't like him. at all. he's crushed. i care about him allot and i hate, ...

I want to hide the fact I lack social skills

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - here is my situation. i'm 29 and i would say my experience with relationships is almost none. it's very fringy for me to open up. i would say i get deep into things rather than play the small talk game with people. i try but i don't feel comfortable ...

MY fella broke up with me, and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i was with my fella for over 3 months and we have known each other since we were 13, we got on like a house on fire, no disagreements nothing bad, he has had 2 bad relationships and he had to do as he was told all the time and had arguements 24 7 ...

My friend can't see that he is not good for her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - My friend has been dating a guy for about a year now. He was nice and sweet at first and they made a cute couple. But then he started to be a jerk to her and her friends. He's been trying to pressure her into sleeping with him even though he knows ...

I want to let my friend know how I feel about him without coming straight out and saying it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm deeply in love with my best friend in the entire world, but we don't go to the same school anymore. We still talk to each other every day for hours, but I want to make it something more. I am really compatible with him because we have so much in ...

When she was married we communicated all the time, now she is a single mum, not a peep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Hi folks, my dilema is this. I have known this women for nearly 3 years now. We used to work together, we go on well. She was married at the time. Any way i moved an hour away to Cape Town, but we stayed in touch via sms and i used to pop downand ...

I am a lonely single girl, wanting to know where to go to meet straight singles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm 26 and have never had a serious boyfriend. I've been on dates and for the first time, I casually dated a guy for 8 months! He did not want to commit, but I'd like to count this as something. I am cute, young, funny, smart, interesting, ...

I am so lonely I cry and cry every night

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - The guy I dated for several months moved away and I'm so heartbroken. I was always independent and never had a real relationship til this guy, and now I can't stand being alone! I feel so sad and lonely all the time, and would do anything to meet ...

I really want to be with him, or be his friend, but worry he might not want to even talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - My cruch and I went to high school together and we were pretty good friends then. I didn't get to talk to him as much as I wanted to though because his girlfriend saw to that, who I was friends with. He and I were also really shy around each other ...

I am crushing on my same sex friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm 14, female, and bisexual. So, I guess you could say I've totaly fallen for my closest friend who's a girl. I've fallen hard too, because I've never liked someone this much, ever. When me and her hang out together by ourselves I am fine, I can ...

I did what she asked and now she beats me up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm am very upset. A couple of months ago my friend told me to tell the guy tht she liked tht she liked him. I told him and she got mad at me. At first she just ignored me. Then she started bumping ke and tripping me in the halls. Then she beat me ...

How much space do I give her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - How much space do i give her? Summed up, ive known her for about 5 months now. We have been serious now for the past month. All of a sudden (like 3 days ago) i start getting a bad vibe/attitude. Really short replies on everything. Come...

Are my friends just saying he likes me to make me feel better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - alright, :) so ive liked this one guy since i was about 10 and like last year one of my friends, against my will, asked him if he liked me, he just said nopee. so after that i hadnt talked to him in forever, and i just saw him the other day , and ...