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writes:My husband's friend ,who actually, my husband has no connection with ,at he last 20 years, keep sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love. He ,the friend is in contact with this woman,and seemingly the woman probably asking him to do that ,so it wouldn't look that bad ,that she would do it herself. Well, Im not sure on this why and how, but every couple of month, there is a new email... So, Im really mad at my husband ,because he says he has nothing he can do about this,and I should only care,if he does something wrong. But I feel very uneasy, because I think ,he should do something about this,not to get this pictures and short emails anymore about her. I feel threatened,and vulnerable. How should I handle this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): I agree,he must have bad intention.Maybe he is jealous at his friend,that he is still married.It is very mean. But risky.IT must stop...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): Something is weird here.. I wonder about the intention of this ''friend;; I agree, you really have a right to wonder about this... Maybe a little more talk would help..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
Your husband can tell the other person to stop sending the emails, or block them, so he's not without power at all. It would seem as if the first love wants your husband to know she's still around somewhere. Of course you feel threatened. I would suggest to him that you both focus on your marriage again, and get working on it. Also suggest that he tell the friend to stop sending emails.
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