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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationsh...

We hardly have sex anymore. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never ...

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

I'm in a relationship but I love someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?...

She runs hot and cold. Does she care or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as ...

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...

He used to give me all his attention but now he's breaking my heart.... how should I react to this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now and it seems like he isn't bothered about me anymore even though he says he loves me. It's always me that has to make the effort to go out (he always says he has no money but then will go out ...

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. ...

Does this sound like my LDR BF has fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in separate countries, we've been together for 5 months and everything was great at first. But he'd have his days where he's all nice and lovely. Then the next he barely says two words. But lately I feel like the gap between ...

What does 'lets take a break' mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?...

LDR GF does not reciprocate my feelings, but there is this close friend who...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi. I've been in a LDR for about a year now. i love my gf and she loves me the same. recently i have found myself doing quite more "sweet and romantic" things more than her. its bothered me for a while and now i cant take it any more. i thought i ...

Are my feelings towards him changing just because I don't see him as often as I use to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I first starting going out with my boyfriend about 5 years ago, he cheated on me and really hurt me, so we split up about 2 years into the relationship. Now we're back together, we're both mature enough to have a relationship. He then got a job 2 ...

My soon to be ex-husband has hurt me very badly, but says he doesn't want me to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I need advice! Myself and my ex separated now x2 yrs ago, but i still have some feelings for him. I have let him stay in my house until he finds somewhere else to live (raise a deposit). He does support us financially but he constantly reminds me ...

I want my marriage back, but my feelings for the other woman are keeping me from rekindling my relationship with my wife.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - I really need some help on this one. In prior posts I spoke of how after a 6 year marriage and two kids, my marriage was failing due to a lack of intimacy, attraction and just all out togetherness. We never fought or argued, we just drifted apart. ...

My husband has tuned out of our marriage in every way. What are my options now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Dear Friends, Please guide me. I am alone in this country and have no friends to discuss my problems. my husband and i were in love and married 10 yers ago.. now we have a daughter of 4 years. My husband is annoying with me all the time. .. he ...

Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. ...

He's gone back to his country. I am pregnant. Should I tell off my abusive ex or stay a lady ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - Hi I am a 27 year old female. My abusive boyfriend has just ended our relationship. I don't know why he left me I guess I blame myself because I was jealous, but he lied about the computer and talking to other women on porn sites. He hurt me, then...

Should I continue this long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. We live together and have been doing so for the last 2 or 3 years. Everything was great until we moved in without a roommate (about 6 months ago). Since then, my feelings towards him have changed. ...

Should I cut my losses? He's always oggling skinny young girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my man for over a year now and we live together. He says I am beautiful but is always commenting how beautiful other women on TV are. He has even commented how beautiful his ex is. He knows this all hurts me because I have low self ...

How do I get over someone who is so wrong for me but whom I still miss terribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - So, the love of my life and i broke up over him just getting sick of me, promises were broken, time has passed, i went through a rough time! He went on several outings, and vacations since and I didn't. Finally 8 months later i decided to take a ...

I tried to get over her and I'm not with someone else, but she's just become availible and I don't know what to do..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

19 March 2011 (M) - Hey all, I kinda in a tough spot and it's been bothering me for days now. A little over 2 years ago, I met this girl at my job. She was everything I was looking for in a girl, she was funny, cute, smart, etc. The only thing that sucked about our ...

Does needing space mean learning to live without me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have written on here before, and its always over the same thing. My turbulant relationship with my boyfriend. When we are together we have the most amazing time, we are so so happy. He is always telling me how much he loves me...

Spark has gone with Bf. But new spark not interested. How can I get this fire going?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 21 and in college, and I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly 10 months now. At first, we really hit it off - we've known each other for a few years and are really close friends. That was back in the summer of 2010. ...

Is and why is my ex girl friend playing games? Or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - Basically...my gf of 12 months spilt up with me and got a bf within 3 weeks after the break up...mutual friends assure me that she didn't cheat... This week I went to see my mates who live in the same town as my ex and 3 different girls ...

She's moody, I want her to dump me. Love's faded. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - So heres my story: Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years now, im 20 now and she is 10 months older, and have been with her since i was around 16, shes my first serious relationship. And shes the only girl ive ever slept with. We met ...

We're working on rebuilding the friendship, but I worry he'll meet someone else

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18 March 2011 (F) - Me and my ex (i'm 22 he's 23 if it helps) were together for the last 2 and a half years but we split twice in that time, once after about a year and again after about 6 months. We broke up for the third time about two weeks ago. We knew each o...

The more I've got to know my husband, the less I like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for over a 1.5 yr ago i..e we signed the marriage certificate almost 2 yrs ago and i moved with him 6 months after signing him. Few months after signing him we had fights regarding issues with his frie...

I thought we were the perfect couple but he's broken it off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F) - Im in total devastation I have been with my fiancé 5 years in march. the day before me and him was meant to be moving into our flat together he told me he didnt love me anymore??? I was heart broken and I still am. Then the day after he rang me...

When choosing someone to marry, do you use your heart or your head?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I really need help... I have been with my boyfriend for more than 5 years. We have gone through so much together. We really had our trials but in the end what got as through is the foundation of our relationship. He's really my best friend. My ...

I dumped her 8 times and now I'm fuming that she has found new love?? Any thoughts??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Last year I casually dated a girl on an off for 10 months. She fell head over heals in love with me and worshiped the ground that I walked on. LSS I took her kindness for a weakness and abused the hell out of her and dumped her for the 8th time in ...

We fixed our quarrel but now he hardly calls!! What to do please??

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14 March 2011 (F) - My bf and i recently had a quarrel but we fixed it and now he hardly calls me, i'm disturbed.I need help. ...

How do I make him "in love" with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - Hi! Ahm, I'm really worried about my boyfriend... We are together since we were 13 years old (now we're 17), but the last months he was really weird, I mean, we're out of school now, he's at university right now and I'm at home 'cause classes begin ...

After 2 weeks my boyfriend has suddenly gone cold?? Please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and we already have problems. He used to text me all the time and slowly stopped now he isnt texting at all. I wanted to hang out spring break and he promised he would but he didnt. I had a fight with ...

Is it possible to love but not be in love anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend and father of my children for 5 years and it seems like I have fallen out of love with him but I still love him just not in love is that possible??...

Love hurts...Is she interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - The girl i like used to look at my eyes and i did the same, many a time i used to burn her talking to other girls. But 2 days back she addressed me as her brother ,we were friends since last 1 year ,can you give me tip to know whether she like me or ...

I think I have issues with love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - I think I have issues with love. Every time I fall for someone I really like (and they like me back) I start to act really weird. When I am around them, I like them and feel loved but when I'm away I start to judge my feelings for them and start to ...

I've been thinking about cheating or breaking up with my girlfriend because my relationship is not a balanced one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

12 March 2011 (M) - I look at my girlfriend and I think to myself how much I love her. I feel lost without her and I look towards going out with her. But I feel sometimes "unloved". I feel somewhat under appreciated and I've told her this many times before and she said ...

Unhappy tired mom told "give me more sex and I'll be nicer"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

11 March 2011 (F) - iv been with my other half for 7 years now we have a 2 year old but i feel unhappy my partner works and i stay home with our kid i do all house work, cook and take our child out every day but if i ask my partner to sleep in same room as out kid so i ...

My girlfriend lied about having stopped seeing her ex when we first started dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend about 5 years, and we're considering marriage. When we first started going out it was obvious to me that she still had feelings for her prior boyfriend, but she told me the relationship was done. The topic didn't come up ...

He dumped me! Does anyone have any tips for me to stop thinking and crying about this? How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I had asked a question recently here about my boyfriend (of 1 year and 2 months) ignoring me and what I should do with him. Well on Monday he broke up with me. It really hurt me and it's still hurting me! His reason was that he was having problems...

I don't understand these feelings I am having. I'm don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't know if my feeliings have faded. I need some guidance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help... I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know wha...

My girlfriend's behavior is manipulative, mean and controlling and I feel helpless because my pride, respect and self-esteem is being crushed..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - i'm not sure what it is i'm doing wrong. i've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. she's 5 years older than me but personally, i've never cared about age. gradually over the years, like many relationships, you are either good or you star...

Dumped for being too clingy after a 2 month relationship, should I text her after a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - This is pretty long so im sorry in advance. Me and my ex dated for 2 months and i was her first boyfriend, we're both 18. She dumped me after 2 months saying things like we're not meant to be and i dont feel the same anymore etc etc, but she really ...

I am helping to raise a child my girlfriend conceived while we were broken up. She needs me, but I feel used, and want to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So a little history about my relationship. It's been really rocky. My girlfriend and I have never had an easy relationship. We've dealt with a lot of lies and cheating, and we've been on and off for five years. In a month that we broke...

My boyfriend makes me happy and treats me well, but it feels like something is wrong. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Please help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years this month and things between us are good. I care about him a lot and I can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. I don't think I feel about hi...

Every time I come out of a relationship, I'm never truly happy again until I find somebody else. Why can't I just get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I've not long come out of a relationship that I was very sad to lose. My most recent ex is a lovely girl who made me very happy while we were together, but I must accept that unless a time comes where distance and university are no longer obstacles ...

They all warned me about my wife - but I'll feel guilty if I leave her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - First of all, let me start this by writing that I appreciate everyone's time you spent reading this and sharing my experiences. I will not bore everyone into every detail of my marriage; it won't encompass everything, and everything has two ...

I gave him my virginity, now I feel like I'm losing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - we have known each other for three years and kept relationship for four months. Everything is perfect, but when he asked if I had ever someone else in mouth, I said yes, and it was 8 years ago with ex bf. He shows upset though he tried to control. ...

He's wonderful, but I'm just not very attracted to him romantically anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man since October. He is interesting and kind, I can find no faults in him. We live 45 minutes apart, but it's not that much of a big deal. Lately I have only seen him once in 7 weeks, and it doesn't even bother me... Sometimes ...

I want to be someone worth loving, not a maid! Is this going to change? When will I just say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, together over 3 and he is still dependent on everyone else. He doesn't pay any bills (if it’s mentioned he says he'll only pay for his own food), he has his mother do his wash, but ...