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female
age
30-35,
*0ph1ek1ely
writes:I first starting going out with my boyfriend about 5 years ago, he cheated on me and really hurt me, so we split up about 2 years into the relationship. Now we're back together, we're both mature enough to have a relationship. He then got a job 2 hours away and lived in this location during the week. It makes me really moody and upset that I barely talk to him. I try and keep our relationship tight by sending him kind texts etc but most of the time I don't get a reply. I feel like he's too busy for me.After wanting to see him all week we meet up, but I end up being really distant with him and I don't know why. He always asks me, but I can never come up with a valid reason. I've explained its really hard for him to keep coming and going, but I still am unable to pin point why I'm like it. Sometimes I can't even cuddle him when he returns, even though I really want too. Can someone please explain why I'm like this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Do you trust him? You mention that he cheated on you in the past it might be that with him being away so far that you are scared he will do it again because you are not with him through the week and he never seems to communicate with you or text you back. Therefore my guess is you are putting up a barier when you see him at the weekends because you are scared of getting hurt again.
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