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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

Boyfriend has become abusive, we constantly fight and I'm always on edge. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all. I am very upset. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a total of almost 3 years now, but lately we have been arguing a lot. The last heated argument we had I ended up crying on the floor while he made sarcastic remarks about ma...

Sometimes I feel like he's over us and just doesn't know how to tell me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend seems completely bored and distracted when I'm in his presence or on the phone with him. He rarely initiates conversation, sits silently at dinner, is easily annoyed by me, avoids me when I get upset with him, doesn't ask me much, do...

I don't feel the love between us anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I hate the fact that my husband has to work closely with a very good looking, actually hot looking girl. I'm very possessive and jealous type. I ask too many qs to my husband. I'm constantly suspicious. I also have self esteem issue, weight ...

I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out ...

My boyfriend texted a gay man saying he had "enough of chics" and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - OMG...I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... I come across this message my boyfriend had sent april last year. I dont know what to make of it. I know he has never really been into sex with me... like he does it but yeh... I always just thought it was because I...

My feelings have went flat toward boyfriend, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Hello all. I think i need some advice..its always the same issues with me but they get better...then come back haha. I've been with my man now for nearing a year and Im 18years old. At the beginning of the relationship there was butterflies and ...

He changed after seven years...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - My fiance suddenly changed and develop cool feet for our relationship. Please i need help on how to win back his love and at the same behave as if i dn't luv him anymore only to make him jealouse and even love me more. Pls help...

What should I do if he isn't putting in as much effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months long distance because I'm away at college. Lately I've been feeling like I'm putting more effort into our relationship than he is. He used to come visit me at my school often during the first ...

Been married for 5 years and attracted to someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I have been married for almost 5 years I got married really young it was the day after my 18th birthday. I love my husband very much, but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I am extremely attrated to another man. This has happened once ...

Infidelity, money worries, fights? can our marriage be saved?what would help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for several years, and married for a while now. We both in our 30s have kids from both our previous marriages. Background - We met a few years ago. and fell in love instantly. Everything was perfect for months. We m...

Should I contact her to see how she is doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Recently, I have written a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love due to various reasons. Btw here is the letter:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-written-a-goodbye-letter-to-a.html I saw her she was really upset because of that and I was h...

What can I do to save our marriage? My wife says we need to talk. She is angry with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Hi Everyone, Me again - slowly eating myself up from the inside out. I desperately want to save my marriage and two little children. I have really been compacent and taken for granted what I had. I have not had emotional connection or empa...

I've been flirting with this guy I work with, who doesn't know I have a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - What the hell is wrong with me? I have been with the same guy for 3 years. He's really nice and buys me cool stuff when I need it. I can't complain much. The only thing that has always been a concern is that he can be cold towards me physically. ...

Sometimes I wonder if he’s really into me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - He never calls me pretty, he rarely wants sex, I don’t feel very desired, I used to love getting little messages every morning but they never happen anymore. We used to seem to turn each other on big time, but now he doesn’t seem pushed. I’m very ...

I've fallen out of love with my husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I have fallen out of love with my husband of 15 years. We have three beautiful and kind children and a lovely home. Several years ago, for about 3 years straight, my husband was in a very dark place due to some investments gone bad. I tried to ...

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now ...

She wants to gain my attention by making me jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - i am absolutely in love with a girl for a year now, we used to be kind of friends before....she knew this and i didnt get her attention alot after this... she is generally very nice, but for some reason wants to gain my attention by making me jea...

Love don't live here anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9yrs.We have 4 boys, but i know i dont love him in that way anymore. He says he still loves me, but yet he cheated on me? I know he stays for income reasons, he has none. Is it wrong and selfish that i want ...

I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, n...

Help! I feel so lost. What can I do? My boy friend refuses to let me end our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, I'm 17 and at the beginning it was great. He treated me great and I was so happy. He still takes me out etc, but it's just not the same. You see, my bf seems to have an idea in his head that I am going...

I told him I thought the decreasing intimacy in our relationship was a problem and he said I was moaning. Was I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - hi, i've been dating a guy for the past nine months and we get on well, both love each other but every other month our work patterns go out of sync for a month and then return into sync again because his shifts fall back in line with my weekends...

How can I find out if she has a new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - Last month my girlfriend and I broke up for reasons that were better for both of us. She said maybe in the near future things could work out so I just had to accept it. I know I can't force her into anything. Now recently, she's been putting a photo ...

What do I do next? He treats me like a kid, not his GF. I turn off when he speaks badly to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, well i am still with my ex, we broke up but he said he would try for our relationship, if you read my other question.....well things are going better, but he still treats me like a kid. He never ever talks to me like a adult. i had too ge...

Boyfriend says our relationship makes him feel like he is in prison. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend feels bad lately because of my presence. He says that he can feel me everywhere even when we're apart. I don't see him a lot but he still feels like he's in some kind of prison because of me. I love him a lot and I'm trying to change...

Guy I used to casually fooled around is fading from my life--and I don't want him to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - me and this boy liked each other but we werent in a relationship but we used to go out a lot and weve kissed loads and ive masturbated him. (it was his first time.) but we faded and dont talk anymore. i still really like him, im scared. he's ...

What can I do to put the spark back into my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - What can i do to put the spark back into my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and we have just been through a very rough patch, in which we argued a lot, and a lot of hurtful things were said. We are over it now, but we s...

She broke up with me. I thought I was just trying to make her feel appreciated. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, At first, sorry for long message. I was with a girl for a couple of months, however we knew each for a long time. I messed up.. even tough i wanted to behave good, deep inside myself I am probably very self-centered. Whenever i w...

We've talked for four years. When it came time to meet he backed out. What is going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hello all, Im very confused right now. I met someone about four years ago. He works abroad, we kept in touch online/emails/chat etc. Got to know him well enough (as much as the net allows). He suggested to meet up, when he's on leave. Mentio...

He's a wonderful man, and loves me very much, but I've been faking it for four years. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem where I am not sexually attracted to my man... he is a very handsome man, very romantic, loving, respectful... he's the best boyfriend you could ever ask for. I often listen to woman who are just wishing for a man like I have. He is ...

I've chatted with him and sent him pictures. What more can I do? I don't want to give up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17. I have been talking to him for one year and hes all Ive thought about. I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable. I sent him 100s of pics of me, ...

How can we get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now hes in jail right now he'll be getting out next year i am gona wait for him i love him very much but he says there is something missing its not the same as before and he is right ...

Been with my g/f for 13 years but developing feelings for someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Im 32 and ve been going out with my girlfriend for about 13 years, the problem is that ive started getting involved with someone else who i met through a friend of her family, we started out just holding hands then we started kissing, now she ...

She told me she wants to spend prom with friends. We had plans. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks now. we have been talking for over a year though. pretty much everyday... recently, she totally changed. she doesn't talk to me anymore.... she treats me like shit... won't show public displays ...

Desperate to be touched again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - Looking for a reality check here, particularly from people in longstanding relationships. I’ll try to keep it as short as I can, but I suppose a certain amont of background is necessary. I’m 49, been married for 25 years. The last time I was phys...

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to...

What do you think of this guy? How do we go back to having original, striking conversations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on four dates with this one guy. He is a gentleman, makes me laugh uncontrollably and I am attracted to him. On our first date,we had a nice conversation,about the concentration camps in Germany, other political matters...

I would be just friends, but I think my feelings for her will get in the way. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Her friends and family felt neglected and told her that she was spending too much time with me, even though she gave everyone an equal amount of time. She said her friends and family are more important than a boyfriend so she pushed me away. I agree ...

Help ! I want him back! Please help decode post breakup conversation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I actually was the one who initiated the breakup, although you couldn't tell from this convo lol, and he said he agreed we weren't right for each other and that he was glad it was mutual and amicable. So this is about 2 weeks later. We work t...

I'm too young to be in a relationship with no spark, but I'm afraid to leave. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody I need some help. Me and my now ex had been together for almost two years. And recently we had been on and off. I hadn't been happy with him for awhile, at the beginning he used to make me feel special, listened to, and wanted....

She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Why is my ex girlfriend so cold? She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. She says she needs a month...does that mean she wasn't telling me the truth about loving me? I don't see how people could just switch their fee...

I miss my ex! Should I contact him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - So this guy and I broke up 6 months ago I still haven't gotten over him sadly...i miss him. The break up was really bad it was mostly my fault..but I really want to talk to him. He deleted me off Facebook back when we split. Is adding him again like ...

Am I the only female out there who feels a million decades older than I actually am due to a partner's inattention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now, and throughout that time I've always made an effort to keep myself looking good, groomed and special just for him. He's never been a style horse but he used to at least shave, put on a nice shi...

If he wanted me he would initiate it, right? Or is he just scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and everything was amazing. He introduced me to his parents, friends... and then he started getting distant so I asked him waht was going on... He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me ...

Is he acting this way because of work, or is he just over us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, My problem is really nothing new and I am sure some of you have been something similar but I am just at a loss. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months but we were best friends for a while before we started dating. ...

My love has faded. Is this just a phase, or should I call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i have been with my bf for over a year and i feel as though we have drifted apart i never see him (with the hours he works and what i work, even though we live together). and when we talk it is only really because i come home from work and he has ...

Need suggestions on how to win her back while she is dating someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck ...

Should I leave her? Ten years, I have done all I can to appease her. Sex is rare. Is this fixable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone! Sorry for this long text, but I want you to understand my situation better, so I can get a better advice, I need it! I have been having this problem for a while now and desperately need advice. I am a 27 yr old guy and my gf is...

"Is she crazy, or am I? OR both?"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend (ily) broke up with me last week because I finally leveled with her about sexual relationships I had when she and I weren’t together. One of which occurred before ily and I had ever met. When we first began dating she heard I had a ...

I want my boyfriend to be loving and caring like he used to be, rather than ignoring me for days on end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - im really worried for my relation i love that guy like hell . we have been together for almost 6 years we love each other in the begining we were so loving and close but the day he joind the school for higher studies he is changed going away he's ...