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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I want to leave him but don't know if I could manage on my own financially.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - i want to leave my husband but im so afraid i wont be able to cope on my own.we own a buisness together and live at the place of work, we moved away from my family ,so i feel even more isolated, which means if i leave i wont have a job or a place to ...

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...

My boyfriend texts me and I know he loves me but he never tells me how he feels on the phone, only in texts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - hi every one i just want to know if any one out there can help me with my bf the thing is my bf dont talk that much and i dont know why that is really he will text me all the time and tell me how he feels about me but when it comes to talking to me ...

I think I might be losing my boy friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

28 April 2007 (?) - Hi! Well I have BIG problem. I think I might be losing my boy friend! well the other day my girl best friend told me that every1 is saying that me nd my boy best m8 BADLY fancy each other.Of course my boyfriend found out about this. Though I ...

If you're in love with someone and planning a wedding, should you even be thinking about someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I'm 27 and have been with this guy for almost 9 years. We broke up about 3 1/2 years ago for a whole year. Since we have been back together everything is great.We just purchased a home last year, and we have been engaged since for 6 months. I'm not ...

Due to get married after 7ys together, not sure if I'm "in love" him, is this just pre-wedding nerves ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Help!! I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years, we live together and are due to get married in a few months. However - I really dont know if I am doing the right thing! I do love him and he is a great guy - BUT - I just dont think ...

am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in ...

I don't want to be "that girl" that's over emotional and freaks out over everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Whenever I get into a fight with my boyfriend, no matter how small, I almost sob. He's not verbally abusive, it's just that I'm a very nonconfrontational person, and conflicts scare me a lot, I don't know why. To keep from sobbing, I just sit there ...

I have feelings for my friend but lately he has been telling me to get over him and meet other guys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I have feelings for my friend but lately he has been telling me to get over him and meet other guys. He called me yesterday and asked me if I've been talking to guys and I responded no so he got mad at me and told me that I better have a boyfriend ...

I feel stuck I don't know if I really want to commit to him but I am afraid to lose him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - I have met Mr Wondeful after all these years... yet I am not sure anymore. I had a very difficult time in my 20's, I spent 5 years in an abusive relationship and when I finally found the courage to leave I got struck by illness and suffered the...

How do I get my wife to fall in love with me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - Hi my wife wants to leave cause she says she dosen't luv me in the way she should only like a friend, she doesn't want to me married. We have been only married for 10 months, together for 6 years i'm 23 and she is 21. When i ask her what she wants ...

He's a nice guy and everything and treats me well but when I see successful, ambitious, attractive men on the TV and around, I wonder what it would be like to be with them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Am I wrong for feeling this way? I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we're ok. I am ambitious and have a great job, he has made a mess of his life and has a rubbish job and has no way out. He has no money either. He's a nice guy and ...

I think I love her like a family member now, am I falling out of love ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly a year. I have started to notice a change in my feelings, and I just wanted to know what you guys thought. I used to be super-excited to see her every time that I did. Now, I am still happy to see her...

Do I stay or leave? He aint too nice to me but we still have a good time!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend and try make amends or leave him. The problem is that he use to have this prejudice toward me because I am not from the same "background" as him. He use to constantly remind me that he never went out ...

How do I get her back and can she trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years with a one year break up. We were getting ready to be engaged, and an ex called and says she comes over to our place when my girlfriend is not there. She broke up with me and says its over. I ...

Is he trying to let me down gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - i have been seeing this guy for 4 months. since the first kiss i've known he is the one. but we have only had one kiss and only been intamate during sex once. (we only had sex 5 times). he wheres a ring composed of his ex fiancee's engageme...

He says he is starting to fall for me but thinks we shouldn't see each other as much because of this...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - Hi I've met a really nice guy who I've been seeing for the past two months. He has said he dosnt want to get into anything serious but we have spent alot of time together and my feelings for him are strong. He has said he is starting to fall ...

I think he may be seeing someone else, I just don't know if I trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - well here goes me and my fiance are going thru a hard time and i really dont know what to think! he says he loves me more than ill ever know but we were broken up for a month then got back together he was the one who contacted me and i was the one ...

He said he can't cope with work and our relationship at present.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - We're in love with each other but we can't be together... Me and my boyfriend Alex* split up this week. The reason we split up - he couldn't literally cope with the stress of work as well as the relationship. I told him that if he didn't love ...

We met again after 17 years and fell for one another again, now I've found out he's never broken it off with his old girlfirend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - I met up with an old boyfriend after 17 years. I was going thru and divorce and he was unhappy in his current relationship with his girlfriend. We hit it off and fell for each other pretty fast. There was a long of drama in between, but bottom ...

My 29 year old husband has been seeing a woman of 64!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hello i was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem. i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17. a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman. she...

He finds it hard with my 2 kids around--is he wanting to end this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - dear cupid i so need ur help...ive been with my boyfriend 4 months. I have 2 children he has 1 which he see's every weekend...the problem is that he has been saying that he's finding it hard with my kids and he is saying he's used to his space...so ...

Married 15 years, 5 kids, size 16 and hubby won't come near me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - ive been married 14 yrs and im size 16 in clothing had 5 lovely kids and hubby wont come near me why?...

We just split and he's now on the search for new women! Is he doing this to make me feel bad and to bring me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - hi everyone, Okay so I think I am finally over the whole "let me sort out my life and well get back together" line. Thats all it was, a line. now I have a questions for everyone out there, why do people use this line? Also, I have started going ou...

Shes lost the love she had for me, but shes okay remaining friends, what should I do I love her still!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - hi i have been having probs with my girlfriend we have been together 5 year we have split up in that time here an there we got back together again last october we have stayed very good friends even made love when we was not as a couple and she just ...

We broke up recently, and he wanted to remain friends, but is avoiding me completely. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - Hope someone can give me some help here. My boyfriend took me out to a nice restaurant a couple of nights ago and broke up with me out of the blue. To cushion the blow, he said he would be there for me thru this hard time and that we would stay ...

My now ex-girlfriend wasn't ready for a relationship, but I feel broken. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 April 2007 (M) - Hey my girlfriend and I have been going out for like for months and we would always say we loved each other and in the easter holidays she went away for a week and then when she came back and told me that she was not ready for a relationship and it ...

My friend doesn't have a great home life.She gets yelled at a lot. How can I help her cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

18 April 2007 (M) - My friend is a girl and she doesnt have a great homelife and she gets yelled at for lots of things that she shouldnt be yelled at for an puts her down and im not sure what excatly i should tell her.so wat would u guys say?...

What does it mean if a guy won't speak to you because he finds it awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - what does it mean if a guy won't speak to you because he finds it awkward? I finished with him a month agao and now he refuses to even msn or text me!! ...

4 years together, brought a flat 6 months ago, now he tells me he never loved me, and never wanted me!! Im very depressed about this and its affecting my heatlh, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I am having problems at the moment. Six weeks ago my partner of four years (friend of ten) said he needed some time to figure out what he wanted from the relationship as he wasn't sure that he still loved me. Events came about when I sat him down to ...

Married 6 years, together 11, he announced he no longer loves me and wants out of the marriage!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - I am married for 6 years now but been with my husband for 11 years, including the steady years, this past 2 months when i confronted my husband about his being always out of the house and has no time for me anymore... he suddenly burst out and told ...

Together 19 months and he said hes not in love with me! Is there a way to make this relationship stronger ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 19 months now and just the other day he said that he wasnt in love with me and wasnt sure about us although he still loved me we are currently still together but he is worried it will hap[pen again and it will ...

Do you think she is on the rebound or truly still loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

12 April 2007 (M) - hi i spit up with my girlfreind on Saturday and she told me that she got with thier neighbor who moved in on the Monday 2nd April next door to her and her friends say she does not love me coz i told her that i thought i heard her say i really love ...

I went on his myspace profile and discovered he’s in a relationship now. I don’t understand him, is this his way getting over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

12 April 2007 (F) - I am so confused at the moment. I was dating this guy 18 months ago and he messed me about. I decided to move on with my life but it was hard. I’ve always thought about him and I’ve never been with anyone else since him. Anyway recently he got in ...

My boyfriend hasn't been showing any interest in sexual activity lately.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

12 April 2007 (F) - My bf of a year hasn't been showing any interest in Sexual activity lately. He's been playing computer games, hanging out with his friends, not working. Just last night he became a little touchy feely with me, and I told him I wasn't in the mood ...

Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

12 April 2007 (F) - Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?...

He keeps sending his ex girlfriend's teenage daughters money.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

12 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has an exgirlfriend that lives thousands of miles away. He has met her teenage girls a handful of times, but says he loves them like they were his own children. In the past he has sent them large checks ($1000 or more) and extravagent ...

Her parents dislike me-her mom thinks I am controlling ! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

12 April 2007 (M) - I am 18 years oly. My girlfriend is 16 and we have been dating for 10 months. At first her parents were awesome, i would want to go over there all the time not just to see my girl friend but to see her parents. But things have slowy started to ...

How do I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - Ok...me and my girlfriend broke up like two weeks ago. But i still love her...a lot, and she must have lied to me, because she told me she just wanted to take a short break, and she didn't want a boyfriend right now, so she lied to me, and she said ...

I feel at the end of my tether and close to tears regarding my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hello i have been in a relationship with a man who is older than me by 8yrs, he is 40yrs old and i am 32yrs old. Originally when we first got together, over 2yrs ago i felt he was a breath of fresh air, compared to all my friends, and previous men...

He don't communicate with me and I don't know what to do with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am 29, he is 30 we both born in July month. We now have a child less than 6 months old, we met 5 years ago, dated in the first 2 years and met again in the fourth year, but our relationship has never really taken off, i.e. we don't go out, talk, ...

I'm guilty of cheating and now I don't know who to choose.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - im guilty of two timing! ive been dating my first bf for almost 8 months now. he's serving the country so he's always busy but i love him for who he is. he's funny and lovable. but he can get kinda sticky at times. u know, like talking on the phon...

We used to get along so well, no he's so distant towards me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Okay i really like this guy and i have done for over a year. We used to get on so well, we were always talking, always texting and whenever we were in the same room we would be talking to each other. I really liked him and i probably made it obvious ...

I think he's cute, but the shallower side of me seems unsatisfied.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a guy for the last 3-4 months. We started off as best friends, and I've never felt such a connection with someone before. Initially I knew he was attracted to me, but I resisted as I was playing something out with ...

Should I go to live with my dad or try and stick this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hey! ok I am a 16 year old girl. My parents have been divorced since I was 8 I think? My mom re married and now has 2 toddlers, my dad is still not remarried. I have always had such a strong bond with my dad. I have always been a daddy's girl. I ...

I dont feel the same way about my fiance that I once did, would this be wrong to marry him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am currently engaged to a wonderful guy, but I am not sure that I love him like I should. Occasionally I would get butterflies but not all the time. Also mostly everything he does bugs the crap out of me. I have my days where I can't get enough of ...

Partner totally told me out of the blue that he was leaving me. He is acting weirdly though. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) - Help! My partner of nearly four years woke up a few days ago and totally out of the blue told me he was leaving me and moving out. We have always had a good relationship, though with its fair share of hard times (his mother passed away 2 years ago ...

We spent three years together then he suddenly dumps me with strange reasons. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) - I'm having trouble accepting that my ex doesn't love me. We were together 3 years and one day 4 weeks ago he sprung it on me that he didn't love me and ended our relationship. We were very close throughout our relationship and he was always so ...

bf is very controlling in our relationship. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend a year and it's been a little rough. We're a lot better now. I'm 19, and I just got an awesome job. Pays a lot. I moved in with my bf months ago, we're paying $800 for the basement of his mother's house. He doesn't have a job ...

We're separated but she stills seems to want to be a couple even though she says differently. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) - i am at the end of my tether, my ex and i split 8 mths ago, we have a 2 yr old daughter and we were living together, in the new year after both walking away from each other i returned to see my daughter, i always said to my mates i was totaly over ...