A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:well here goes me and my fiance are going thru a hard time and i really dont know what to think! he says he loves me more than ill ever know but we were broken up for a month then got back together he was the one who contacted me and i was the one who cried and we got back together but then he acted cold toward me and said that he had to hide me from hes parents because they would kick him out so i said ok and he would text me but rare and it was simple txts and then i would have to beg him to call me well kinda and i was an emotional mess but he seemed calm and then said i was stressn him out over me crien all the time that he had to get used to me and him again and that him being sweet would come back and it did get better but hes cell got shut off and have no way to contact him he sent me a txt saying im going to call you sunday becaue he was getting a cell phone but he never did, i think there might be another girl because ive been getting these blocked calls and not every time but one night i got a blocked call and it was some lil girl saying they were having sex and i asked him hes said he didnt know and that he was sorry there buggn me but that was before hes phone got shut off and have had two missed blocked calls since then and the last night hes phone was on i got over tweenty blocked calls. i love him so much and im not as bad a mess as i was but still need help i cant go see him because i moved three hours away to help my sister with her pregnace. ive just been waitting for him to call me but im scared to think theres another girl because i do love him with all my heart, but the last time we talked he was jealious over the guy next door calling my cell phone andthen he calmed down and told me how much he loved me and how if it came down to it he would give hes life for me. but i just need help do you think hes with some one new or what? but one more thing why hasnt he called me if he loves me so much i dnt get it! he use to not be abled to go a hour with out me and now hes went a month and seems like its no big deal and the reason we broke up was because hes parents hate me but hes 20 ! he had to move back home because he lost hes job over me calling him on the job so he had no choice but he didnt blame me. anyways hes parents told him to leave me because when i moved here i was cheating on him then they had a friend of hes tell him he caught me in the movies all over another guy and i didnt even know he just changed hes number and left it at that then a month later he texts me we get back together and now im just real confussed PLEASE HELP!
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reader, accused +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Girl take your good foot and KICK him to the nearest CURB! This man has made you an emotional basket case ( so it seems). You should not have to justify yourself to this man considering he loves you so much! You mentioned that a "little girl" called you and stated that they had sex? UH OK! which part of LITLE and sex didn't click with you? If this man had enough love for you to GIVE HIS LIFE, but can't seem to call you? and said that you made him lose his job because you called him at work? Seem to me that he is just one lie after another.... I do think that he is playing mind games with you, and you need to just move on... which is hard when you love someone! but trust me This is not how love works... you deserve better and if you don't demand it then you will never get it..... why does his parents hate you so? and since when does PARENTS have friends watching over their sons GF? You can do better, I wish you the best... Keep me posted........
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