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writes:what does it mean if a guy won't speak to you because he finds it awkward?I finished with him a month agao and now he refuses to even msn or text me!!
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reader, Lau-sta  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 I take it you still want to be friends with him if you only broke up with him a month ago give him some time to heal but at the end of the day its up to him if he wants to be friends give him some time
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): I am a litle confused by your question, anon. You say you "finished with him" a month ago. Why would you expect him to stay in contact with you? Why would he? And why would you want him too? If you are the one who ended the relationship, but are still texting him, etc., no wonder he is confused. What exactly do you want from him now?
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 He's probably still not over you, and hasn't come to terms with the reality that you have moved on. My guess is that he's terribly afraid that he will make a total fool of himself if he contacts you because he still hasn't given up, in his heart.
He must fight this particular demon alone. I assume that you went through a kind and gentle breakup with him ... didn't just do something like show up where he was with another guy without letting him know ahead of time or something cruel like that. Given that you've done what you could to cushion his fall, the rest of the way down is his own responsibility and he'll just have to do it his own way.
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