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writes:I am so confused at the moment. I was dating this guy 18 months ago and he messed me about. I decided to move on with my life but it was hard. I’ve always thought about him and I’ve never been with anyone else since him. Anyway recently he got in touch with me and said he still liked me. He explained that when he was seeing me he was getting over his ex. He wanted to see me but I explained to him I was busy with my studies as its my final year. Plus I weren’t ready to see him, he understood. I couldn’t see him just in case I develop feelings for him again. He told me he was single for a year or so and that he was starting to date but I didn’t think much of it. We spoke every week but the last five weeks I haven’t been talking to him because of my assignments. I’m finding it hard to focus on my studies as I’m thinking about him. I emailed him and asked to meet up after my exams. I haven’t heard from him yet. I went on his myspace profile and discovered he’s in a relationship now. I don’t understand him, is this his way getting over me? I don’t know what to do, please help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): It sounds like your ex boyfriend has been single a long enough time to move on properly with someone else rather than going with someone to get over you. Are you sure you didn't use your studies as an excuse to not date him, is there some other reason why you didn't want to get back with him? Because to me it seems even though you rejected him on those grounds you have still ended up in contact with him and thus thinking about him rather than focus on your studies so you lost on both sides.
Maybe you could just message him and ask him if he is seeing someone now, it's a fair question isn't it and it can put your mind at rest.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 When was his profile last updated? Is it current? I think that some of the stuff on mine is left over from when I first joined. He may just be too busy to keep it current, especially if he is studying too.
There's an easy way to find out what's going on ... ask him. Tell him you found this on his profile, and were worried about it. Ask him if it's true, and if not would he please change it. If he won't change it, THEN it's time to start really worrying about the relationship. And to bail out of the relationship. You don't need a gy who is double dealing you.
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