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writes:Am I wrong for feeling this way? I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we're ok. I am ambitious and have a great job, he has made a mess of his life and has a rubbish job and has no way out. He has no money either. He's a nice guy and everything and treats me well but when I see successful, ambitious, attractive men on the TV and around, I wonder what it would be like to be with them.I feel bad for thinking these thoughts: who am I to say I'm too good for him? But I'm not saying that, just that maybe I'd be better off with someone I'm more suited to. What does everybody think, am I being unfair?
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reader, Cag Lee "Apollo" Adarma +, writes (27 April 2007):
 Hey,well first of all its no one else consideration but your own, but here's a few questions to ask yourself;- what is YOUR life purpose,apart from your work?- what do you look forward to, not tommorrow, but in old age?- what are your passions?- when you wake up in the morning, what do you feel?- if he wasn't there when you woke up, how would you feel?- these men on the TV and around, these success,attractive and ambitious men- in what way will their success, attractiveness and ambition edify your heart and mind?- though he has 'ruined his life' is he intelligent, supporting, caring, compassionate and passionateThe standards that you've measured him by were not forced on you, you chose them- i think that is a more interesting thing to explore in yourself. Once you've done that you'll be able to make a decision on the health of your relationship.PEACE and GOD BLESSThe Capt
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