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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Was I wrong because I asked my g/f to let me know what's going on rather than making me wait for hours to find out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I had plans with my gf last night, that we had made weeks in advance, to meet up at ten pm as i was winding down from work. I'm a bartender and Thursday nights are crazy. And she was going to come when she knew we were going to exchange shifts and I ...

Is being called the other half a good thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Is it a good thing if boyfriend refers to you as the other half when he talks to others about plans?...

Am I still a virgin after my friend put her finger inside of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - i came here once, and i talked about where me and my girlfriend made out, and i regretted my action. So now i told her im not interested in her because i so much love my boyfriend. I forget to mention that im a virgin, and have not have sex before, ...

Boyfriend quit his job, I'm the only one working. He's angry because I bought something for myself!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend quit his job because he hated it so much. We are in week 7 of him not having a job and I don't feel that he is really making much of an effort to look for one. I am paying his mortgage (my name is not on the house) and the food for the ...

Can I live with my BF's selfish streaks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I need help understanding why all my relationships eventually disappoint me. My current relationship of 5 months was so great in the beginning. My BF was doting and treated me special. Now - it seems his priorities are shifting back - or maybe I'...

Am I an idiot for being annoyed that b/f drank at party and pushed aside our plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 6 years, and we are both 24. Neither of us drink, due to past issues in both families, and sharing the view that we don't need alcohol to have fun. Last week, a guy in his work was leaving, and so the offic...

I want to leave before I get hurt again. Is it time to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Well I meet this guy about 2 weeks ago and it started out great, he was sweet and caring but he also liked to send me inappropriate pics of himself which I brushed off. I texted him at 1 in the morning for a hug and he came over just to give me one. ...

Younger boyfriend isn't sure about us because I have experienced things he hasn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is eleven years younger than me. Im 37 and he's 26, he's never had kids, had a long term relationship or lived w anyone. I, on the other hand, have been married, have 2 kids from 2 different fathers. He tells me he feels like its ...

I'm confused about my relationship and haven't told my parents about him yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - So, I am dating a guy for the last 5 months who I think is great. He is funny, insightful, loving, and we have a wonderful time together. But there are two issues that really bother me greatly:1) He has kids (a boy that is 9 and a daughter that ...

Its our 5th date and I really want to kiss her but want to set things up and not blow it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid community, I need some urgent tips; last minute advice if you please. Tomorrow I'm taking out this girl to a party, this is our fifth date. To give you some context, I'm 27 years old, she's 23. I never had a girlfriend befor...

How do I let my trans female boyfriend know I accept them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My 'boyfriend' has come out to me as trans-female. I am totally fine with this, but I would like a little bit of advice on how to make her feel like/know I accept her. I want to treat her right and I'm not sure how/what would be seen as too fa...

Is my boyfriend still not over his ex 2 years later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend checks his ex girlfriends facebook sometimes, he was deeply hurt by how she treated him and was angry with himself about how he let her hurt him so much and it took him time to get over her. I was insecure that he was not quite ov...

Are most young guys in relationships really committed to their girlfriends nowadays?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Quite a few close male friends I know in relationships don't actually seem to care about their girlfriends all that much. Or they do, but they see her as a temporary thing, and merely a girl of convenience for sex and companionship rather than ...

How do I get the courage to ask a coworker out (on a date)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I'm attracted to a girl I work with and have seen her out of work socially a few times and we get along great, have a lot of fun and seem to genuinely enjoy each other's company. Anyway I've decided after a lot of deliberation that I'd like to at ...

My remarks were intended to build her up but she's told me they were inappropriate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I'll try to make this fairly quick. I've always been the kind of guy who's really tactful and good with words. I've always prided myself on knowing what to say and having good social skills. But lately, my girlfriend has been making me feel pretty ...

Was it a one night stand or does he have other plans?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - So I went home to my sister's wedding and I met this guy, he is Danish, anyway, we end up getting so drunk and we spent all the wedding day together, to make things short I went back to his hotel room and we had sex. I was actually the one that ...

Am I in love? Should I talk to her about getting back together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3902 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - There is this girl that I have feelings for and these are different than what I normally feel. We dated for a while and broke up in December and I never stopped having said feelings. We have been talking every night since summer began for an average ...

How do you know if attraction is mutual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Is mutual attraction usually mutual? I have been in a situation where I have always wondered if this particular man was ever attracted to me. Has anyone been in this situation and what are the signs the attraction is mutual, not imagined? Thanks...

What is a good way to say I've developed feelings for this man ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I'm really starting to develop feelings for this man I work with. We talk during the week and on the weekend but I am giving him mixed signals not on purpose I have been stressed it's been three months since my engagement was broken of...

I want a relationship with him, but I don't know if he feels the same and I don't know how to bring it up in conversation. How do I find out how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I have become really close to a guy who is 2 years older than me (I am 18, he is 20) It started in the new year when we were walking home with a couple of friends from the pub and we were walking in front of everyone else as he had offered to walk ...

The thought of sex with just anyone makes me physically ill. Am I the only one out there like this? Will I ever meet anyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am 21 years old and never had a boyfriend or sexual contact or anything. Yeah, I've had self esteem issues. But realistically, I've never even ever met anyone in real life that I had any feelings for. I never met anyone that I was attracted to. ...

Can extroverts successfully date introverts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I'm really extroverted and sociable; I have loads of friends and am generally pretty nice, but it seems to scare a lot of "introverted"/nice/geeky guys off as I guess I come across as rather in your face. I went out with a friend of mine (who's a...

Fiance had feelings for old school friend, how should I have handled this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am a 23 year old woman, and am about to get married to my fiance, but I have an issue. He has some feelings for a girl he used to go to school with, and I let my insecurity get the better of me and caused this girl a situation where I humiliated ...

Huge row and now he isn't talking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - HELP me and my bf are 15 and been together for nearly 11 months, its now the half term and me and my bf had a huge row Friday night because I saw him hug one of his female mates, I texted him asking why this happened he told me she hugged him b...

She didn't value our friendship enough to let this happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - hi everyone! I am a long time lurker of this website. anyway, my question is- a few months ago, my friend M started inviting me to hang out wiht a group of people who she si good friends with - they are from our school but i am not as close wit...

Do I stay longer to see or do I leave now with my heart still intact relatively??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half now and we recently had the talk of where it going. He said he not an emotional guy and doesn't form attachments easily. Has had relationships in the past of few years long and was still not ...

Is my recent ex dating already?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - Dated ex gf for year and half. She broke up with me 5 months ago. A few weeks ago she contacts me and says still in love with me, misses me, and wanted to spend all kinds of time together. It was great because I still loved her. She then says ...

Help!!! Am I being irrational?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello:) Recently I've been having some problems in my relationship. It started when I started to feel a bit taken for granted, all me and my boyfriend did was sit in at mine or his, and then go out with friends, which I love doing... But sometime...

Could we have moved too fast jumping together and is there any way to reconcile this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 months now we met at a prison that I work at. In the beginning he went behind my back and was texting his ex girlfriend knowing that it was not cool with me.so we moved passed it and have had minor ...

Am I being foolish by holding out for Mr Right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I grew up in an abusive family and as a consequence I've always been incredibly cautious about romantic relationships. So much so that I've never had a boyfriend or even gone out on a date. Quite a few guys have asked me out, but I've never been ...

I feel confused as to what he is thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I need help my new relationship confuses the hell out of me! I have been seeing someone for four months and I don't get my relationship!. I've been divorced twice have three kids. I started seeing my little boys friends Dad in January he split wi...

I've fallen for him but he's said he wants to remain single, I don't think he knows my feelings about having children. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been friends with a widower for about 3 years, before he became a widower actually. His wife passed away very suddenly about 2 years ago, they were very close. We started off as just friends, I was trying to re-engage him, his health was poor ...

Is marriage a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...

Cross dressing boyfriend...help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and about 1 yr ago I found erotic pictures of him on the computer cross dressed. I was so upset and freaked out! He said he didn't need to do it. Well, I kept finding new clothing. When he started ...

I'm hurt that he didn't wish me well or say he was sorry for how things turned out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was seeing someone on/off for 3 years. He got divorced about 10 months ago. Seemed interested at first, but then we had a disagreement. He then back tracked ever since. Which was 7 months ago. He insisted he didn't want to be in a relationship. ...

I don't know which guy I like more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 5 months now and i'm beginning to really like him, we flirt every time we see each other, he has a great personality and he's been coming round every other weekend, and we would end up kissing and cuddling. ...

How do you tell if a guy would make a good boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Say you're already friends with him, or even it's someone you don't know so well - when you get to know someone better, what are signs to watch out for and signs someone is a genuinely decent person? The reason I'm asking this question is beca...

The men I date always talk about their ex's is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello, I just want an honest opinion on this one. Im an attractive, pretty cool young woman who is independent. I wonder why men that I date always tell me or talk about other women? When I say other women I mean ex girlfriends or some women in ...

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...

It bothers me that my b/f has a tatoo on his foot of the day his g/f died

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. He has a tattoo on his foot representing the date that his first girlfriend died in a car accident several years ago. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't mention the tattoo, but ...

How to save yourself from the Stress of Mr. Wrong in your Life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (?) - This is something I would love to share to everyone, especially for most female who are constantly questioning why mr. wonderful turns to Mr. houdini. I Know some might find that I am over reacting but no I'm not. I'm just being realistic....

My boyfriend doesn't keep me informed without me asking and it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - dear cupids, i have the most amazing boyfriend ever who takes every thing in his life seriously , his work , the scout and for sure me, but when it comes to telling me about it, he simply never does, even when his work involve issues that are ...

I am so happy with my boyfriend, but his roomate/ex/best friend hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys! The people on this site have helped me loads in the past and I'm hoping you can help me again with your advice. I got out of a very bad LTR last year which started when I was very young, for almost 4 years I was cheated on and manipulat...

Am I dating someone too young for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I'm a 26 year old mature student and I recently began seeing another student who is 18 about to turn 19, it took me a while to go on a date with this guy cause of the age difference but we get on really well, however I am still really worried about ...

Weekend's with my boyfriend's children leave me feeling like a slave

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi Hope you can help me. I am 33 years old. I have been with my partner (not married) for 2 years. He has 2 kids whom I love to bits and I don't have any, but my fella does want more with me. When my boyfriend was in his late teens, ...

After a fight and make up, girlfriend says no sex. We are going on a holiday and no sex???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Hi AA's This question is long winded so apologies. Ive been going out with a girl for 4 years now, in reality she is very insecure but also has to have her own way as she believes what she wants is the right thing and dosnt see outside the bo...

How to deal with disappear reappear guy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi I really need an advice. Apparently I'm dealing with a houdini. The old disappear and reappear acts. I've dated this guy for a month. we went on 4 great dates. on our last date he brought me home, we watched movie, we kissed for the first ti...

I feel awful feeling this way but I am not at all interested in my boyfriend's step daughter!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8 months with someone that makes me very happy. However he has a step-child from a past relationship that he is very close to as treats as his own daughter and Ive never been with someone who has a kid and Im ...

Together 7 years. Recently he's been criticising me for the smallest things and has a short fuse. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone on this forum, i have used this forum once or twice in the past so here i am again, with a new problem for all those agony aunts out there. ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and well i am starting to find problems with, what i t...

I don't want to appear desperate but I want him to know that I was being serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - There's this guy who is in my course at university. I see him about once a week, but it's hard to say whether he likes me or not.. we're not friends, but have done some group work together and sometimes talk before class... we've been doing a ...