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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I appologize to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy kinda on and off. (He's 24, and I'm 21; I met him during my first year of art college). We were together for three months, then took a break that ended up killing the relationship. (I was super clingy at the time and cou...

I didn't notice what might have been her attraction to me and now she seems cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - So there is this girl I know in college, we met the first week but don't see each other much. We ran into each other at a few parties where she sent me signals (commenting on stuff that she likes about me, like the fact that I'm writing a book) or ...

I feel like I'll never be loved or respected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I feel very sad, demoralized and like I should just give up on relationships. I was with my ex for six years. It was a troubled relationship. He was the jealous, controlling type, he was obsessed with my past and thought that I would cheat on him. I ...

How can I help my b/f pick out a nice suit for a wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - hello all!! this isn't a relationship question as such but im looking for advice regarding my boyfriend. He's attending a wedding in a few weeks and wants me to help him choose a suit to wear. He has a suit but, although there isn't anything wr...

We weren't exclusive and both slept with others. He got an STD so he had to tell me. Do I tell him I slept with someone else too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I met this guy 3 months ago at a party in a city 'bout 3 hours from where I live. Within 5 mins of talking, he asked for my number. We didn't have much time to talk that night, maybe danced for a bit, and I had to go back to the hotel with my ...

We've run our course, but our holiday abroad is imminent. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - So very confused. I will keep this as short as I can... I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years, but I feel it has run its course. She is a great girl, I still like her very much, but I don't see a future with her and haven't for quit...

I'm attracted to a man 21 years older than me. Could it work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am a 26 year old woman and I find a 45 year old man attractive who barely looks 40, he could pass for late 30s. My question is does anyone know of any successful stories of people with an age gap this big? My ex was 36, we split due to other ...

What am I missing? Do women just want to play games when dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - I was having dinner with my guy friends last night, and we were sharing recent dating experiences. Two of us are in our early 30s and the other guy his late 30s. As we shared our stories, a common theme emerged - we were tired of people playing ...

He says he is not verbally affectionate or "open", but he used to be before. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Im 20. He's 21. We are in a long distance "relationship" (I use inverted commas because it isn't at the boyfriend/girlfriend stage yet. We are exclusively dating/seeing each other, but it isn't official, we're progressing to the relation...

My girlfriend won't let her ex go.. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship for a year and a half. When I started into my relationship, my girlfriend had been broken up from her ex for 1 year. About the time that I came into her life was when her ex started contacting her. She was very ...

Is he really worth spending my life with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - dear cupids, i love a man of great generosity and respect to me, we has been together 11 month now and we were planning to get married after a year my parents would only accept him as my husband only if he have a 4 room apartment and a 1200000...

My b/f treats me like a door mat. How do I move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I'm a 2nd year stundent at varsity, im 19, and the guy im dating is also a 2nd year, he's 20. But this isn't a maturity . The problem more than anythng is that i have a very low self-esteem and as a result people treat me like a doormat. ...

He wants anal but it hurts, and he says I'll get used to it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have tried anal sex in the past but I find it painful at times and other times it’s alright. My issue is he won’t stop asking me for anal sex even after I've had some tearing as a result ...

My boyfriend is going on a holiday with his ex wife and their child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Is it normal - or even not so normal but okay sometimes - for a separated man to go on holiday with his wife and son, if the son has been very badly affected by the parents' separation to the extent of showing fairly extreme behavioural disorder, ...

It feels I have hired an escort rather than have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half seems permanently short of money, due to a lot of things including job, child maintenance, grasping ex who gave up her own job etc. I am ok for money but not by any means rich, I can afford the basics on my ...

I dumped the good guy for the bad guy, now I want the good guy back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - Hello, what am writing about is, I was seeing some one about a year ago, he was a prince charming kinda guy, treated me great, about 3 months, my ex was in jail, the one who phy. abuse me, beat me, choke me, just a bad guy, but I was in love with ...

Excited to be pregnant, but I am not married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - So I am a teacher in a middle school and I've been seeing a co-worker of mine for about seven months now. We're the youngest teachers (23) by far and three weeks ago I found out that I'm pregnant with his and my first child. There are a lot of ...

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and...