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anonymous
writes: My 'boyfriend' has come out to me as trans-female.I am totally fine with this, but I would like a little bit of advice on how to make her feel like/know I accept her.I want to treat her right and I'm not sure how/what would be seen as too far etc!Please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe was born male, so I have been doing that. Awesome :) thank you very much! We are going pretty good so far! She laughs at me when I mess up, because she likes how flustered I get!
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reader, EventHorizon +, writes (31 May 2013):
Actions generally speak louder than words. It must be a big change for her (probably start off by saying he now) possibly some emotional issues and adjustments being made with your partner. Just give all the love, understanding and support that is needed. Simply by being there and saying you accept him for how he is.
You have being understanding as it is. Not everyone would stick by a transgender going through it, especially so young. It sounds like you have a good foundation as it is, just treat him how you would any boyfriend.
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