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36-40,
*illy2010
writes:hi me and my girl friend have been trying to have a kid her more than me and i almost feel like now that she is pregnant she got what she wants and is always taking me for granted i always been cooking and trying to make her feel good even when she thinks she looks good i tell her how beautiful she is she knows i would die for her and is never happy with what i cook or what i do anymore for her i try to understand but she lashes out and i was going to propose to her tonight cause we had been happy all day i thought i would pop it and then she threatned to leave me and the dogs in our apartment and move home im all messed up and wanna have a family with her what should i do why are we fighting i jus hate t so much please someone tell me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): Dear Sperm Downer:
Wow, I suppose this is what happens when a guy and his girl friend want to get pregnant. Did the fact that she didn't want to marry you trigger any lights and sirens in your head? You seem to have gotten the bits out of sequence, and now she seems to be far better at communicating with you.
Best of luck- in 18+ years you may be able to be done with this bitch, but probably not... but at least you'll be able to stop sending her checks in the mail.
In case you didn't get it: She does NOT want to be in a relationship with you- she wanted a kid, we'll welcome to parenthood... next time keep your sperm to yourself, and don't knock up anyone your not married to. You now have a life long commitment to the kid w/ zero from it's mother.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (27 February 2010):
 She probably heard too many horror stories of pregnant teens being left alone so she is raging a war against males. Since you are a nice guy you became an easy target. It is a learned behavior. She is proving everyone that see, we don't neet males, we can all become self sufficient mothers, males are good for nothing but for procreation. She has a distorted image of men. Right now she has to feel the anger. There is no use in defending yourself, because the evil tendency of men to leave is in everyone. She has to understand that this evil tendency is in women as well. Your are the father and you have a right to be in the child's life. You stop the fighting by refusing to be drafted to her war and her games.
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